I have an ex-BM that I just found out has been gossiping about me to our mutual friends. She says I've been flaunting my new car and that she didnt want to show me her e-ring because i'd be jealous because (supposedly) hers is nicer. Meanwhile, none of that is true!
Here's the funny thing, 3 weeks before my wedding she emails me that she hopes everything goes well, and to email her pics, and that I should try to relax on my HM, etc. And then in july she sends me text messages wishing me a happy birthday. What the F$%^? She talks about me behind my back and then pretends to be my friend!
What would you do? Email her back to F$% off? Not even acknowledge the email? I wasn't going to respond at all to her email because we had a BIG fight after I told her she didnt have to be in my BP if she was too busy. But now i found out she's been talking about me behind my back! That's just so childish!
CLMon7906
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I wouldn't do a thing. I had the same issue with one of my ex-BMs...she sent me some BS email and then we parted ways based on her behavior. Later she tries sending me cute little things and a Christmas card. I just deleted them and pretended they never existed. She stopped. I have no time for petty people trying to pull on my heartstrings.
EJSD2006
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Well girls, i've decided to remove her from my life for good and not acknowledge her existence. I'm gonna be the bigger person and just let it be. DH said 'you know what she's said is not true and so do your friends so why make it bigger?'. I deleted her from my phone, email addresses, etc. I guess if I ever see her anywhere I'll deal with it then, but as of right now she's pretty much non existent to me.
oh, and i found out yesterday that she got fired from her job! i guess karma's a byotch!
Tobewed07
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Good for you!! YAY, and yes Karma is a bytch!
Jealousy does not work in friendships and she was obviously sooooo green eyed over you!
Mandyin2007
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It is really up to you. If her friendship meant a lot to you and you think that their may be a chance of salvaging something by confronting her, then I say at least see what the deal is. But if not, I wouldn't acknowledge it; telling her off just puts you on her level.
Mooshyboo
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Hi I am sorry you are going through this ~ sometimes women Stink... If I was you if you want the relationship to still be I would call her and confront her (as long as the person who told you what she has been saying about you doesnt mind that you confront her...)
If you don't want the relationship I would tell her to F@&$ off... and/or just don't respond and ignore her!
