hi. i am meeting with joseph devincenzo next week. here is his website...http://personalized-weddings.com/ he is a reformed catholic priest and his wife is a wedding coorinater. the cost for the ceromony is $500 and you meet with them 2-3 times before. they personalize the whole ceromony. they can do a religious, spiritual (mentions god twice), of contemporary (beefed up civil) ceromony for you. i can't wait to meet them and hopefully book him. good luck! ~lacey