Need Help w/ honeymooon....that's IF we have one!! (kinda long)

Okay, when we started planning we were going to go to Tahiti (& Moorea & Bora Bora) for our honeymoon. As we get closer, we're realizing we do not ahve the $ to go now. FH REALLY wants to go but doesn't want to scale the trip back to save $. He promises we'll go next year, he really wants to go to get an authentic French Polynesian tattoo, a big one, on his shoulder, upper arm and chest

Anyway, so we decided to go to Disneyland, and other sights in So Cal, partly b/c FH has a friend who lives there that he hasn't seen in also 9 yrs who cannot attend the wedding.

I get pricing an info, and it's WAY cheaper than Tahiti. I then realize that we'd be doing a lot of touristy things and nothing relaxing and romantic. I mention this to FH and he says 'You're right, let's not go to CA now' I ask where we'll go for our honeymoon and he says 'Nowhere and we'll save money'

OMG, does he NOT understand I really want to get away, even if it's for a few days!!! I have not been 'away' since Sept, when we went to FL for a job interview for him, wasn't much of a vacation!

SO, any thoughts or ideas?!?!

I am hesitant to go to Caribbean or Mexico b/c it'll be hurricaine season. Any ideas???? We want to stay UNDER $3000 and would LOVE all inclusive. Is this too much to ask!?!?!

TIA!!!