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Need some prayers girls for FFIL.....

Original post by Mrs_C_in_'07

I hate doing this......

My FFIL was in a horrible accident last weekend. FFIL, FH and FBIL were in FFIL's car driving back from SUNY Albany (where the previous night my other FBIL was in a car accident - thank God he's OK).

Anyway, they're northbound on the Cross Bronx Expressway when a 20 year old drunk driver came flying onto the parkway. My FFIL had to stop short and somehow cut into the center lane to avoid hitting this kid. My FFIL was so annoyed that he caught up to this kid and my FI started yelling at him from the car (not realizing he was drunk). So now this kid starts playing cat and mouse and weaves continually into the center lane trying to hit FFIL's car. They quickly realize something must be wrong with this kid and try to get away. They cut in front of this kid in the right lane and speed up - but this kid does the same and rear ends my FFIL's car. So they pull over (as much as you can on the Cross Bronx) to check car damages. The kid pulled up behind them and must have freaked out as my FFIL was getting out of the car and the kid tried to get away ..... he hit a car towing a boat in the center lane, but then this kid cut the wheel all the way to the right and drove directly into my FFIL pinning him between his car and this kids car!

My FI and FBIL both thought that their father was dead and then this kid got out of his car and started to run up the Cross Bronx to get away. My FI and FBIL ran after him and caught him and called 911. The kid was arrested and my FFIL was taken to the hospital.

By some miracle his only major injury has been a shattered left tibia (which will require major surgery). However, he has a laundry list of previous medical problems which is making surgery very risky. The surgery also had to be put off b/c he is having difficulites with his kidneys and fighting a horrible urinary track infection causing a high fever.

Every time I tell this story I feel like people must think I'm making it up b/c it is so convoluted. But I swear this happened all b/c some 20 year old kid decided to drink and drive at 7:15 in the morning!!!

I never do this but I really need your prayers girls. The surgery is tentively scheduled for this week and it will not be easy. Please keep FFIL in your prayers this week. I'm so scared!
anianyc Posted:

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My prayers are with him
Drv0716 Posted:

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LB and DC Posted:

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i am so sorry this happened!!! i hope all is well with your FFIL.
jeanmarie Posted:

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danielle19755 Posted:

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Im very sorry this happened to your family... My prayers are with all of you..

tricia3381 Posted:

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i am so sorry!!!
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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I'm so sorry..my thoughts and prayers are with you

DiamondPipa Posted:

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that is the reason i believe in the DEATH PENALTY.....kids like that need to be taken off the planet!!!!!! UNBELIEVABLE! Only people who are definite dangers need to be taken off this planet and this jerk is one of them! I'm so sorry about this.....
nycgirl79 Posted:

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Omg. I am so so sorry. Sending your ffil lots of for a speedy recovery.
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twinkletoes807 Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear this story! And it sounds totally true to me! I have been a cop for almost 10 years and when I used to do patrol on the midnight tour, there were always some crazy drunken fool out on the roads early in the morning, putting everyone's life in danger!! Nothing made me happier than locking up drunk drivers! So glad that they got him!!

Lots of prayers and positive thoughts for your FFIL! Wishing him a safe surgery and a speedy recovery!!
NY031978 Posted:

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Wow!! So sad.......whats w. jerks drinking and driving!!??
Hope your FFIL is feeling better soon!!!!
GettinHutched Posted:

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I am so sorry!
JassyandOscar Posted:

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This is my biggest fear with my dad. He would do the exact same thing and try to go after the driver, hHwever its just not worth it. I had a friend that did this and ended up dead, because the crazy driver had a gun and shot him in the head. Please ladies, don't ever do this and try to calm FH, FFIL, FBIL, Brother, and all those we love down so it doesn't happen to them. It s just not worth it. Nina, I pray that he does well and gets home soon.
Pinkiegirll07 Posted:

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That is so scary!! I'm so sorry this happened to your family. I will be thinking about all of you and praying for you!
wcollado Posted:

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diva7531 Posted:

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OMG that is so scary. Kids these days drink so much that it is scary, then they sleep 2-6 hours and think OK I can drive now. I know a lot of cops set up morning DUI points because of this reason. So sorry to hear about FFIL. And I for a good surgery and quick recovery!!!


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Mrs_C_in_'07 Posted:

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You girls are wonderful. Thank you so much for your prayers.

Tentively, FFIL is scheduled to be transferred to the Hospital for Special Surgery on Tuesday and the surgery will be either Wednesday or Thursday. However, the MD's still have no real game plan for the surgery. With all of his other medical stuff they said how they will perform the surgery will be a last minute decsion.

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