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need to rant or I'm gonna hit someone

Original post by TJD

NEVER NEVER NEVER have friends do anything for you for your wedding. lest go back about a year. friend said she would love to do our flowers. I was like ok. researched all online flowers for her. got the vases. kept asking her to she me samples...last month i fired her. and went to pedestals .
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Friend beg us to be the photographer.( he has a new photography studio and is stating out) agin over a year ago.Went to go pay him ( cause i want everything payed for before the wedding) with 5 weeks left. he tells me he can't take pictures cause he took an other job. *** people. so Thank god I have a friend who is a really good friend with a reliable company and the date was still avail... Thank you Steve at Studio 27!!!!
Karin Posted:

need to rant or I'm gonna hit someone

What awful stories! I had offered to help someone just starting out to help in some way and then post a good review, with pay of course. So, she started off all gung ho, and then...crickets. If I would have written her a review, which I didnt, it would have been pretty bad!

metsgal Posted:

need to rant or I'm gonna hit someone

Ugh! so sorry you're going through this! Agreed -- I'd never hire a friend. First off, I don't like exchanging money with friends in high amounts, and second they feel like since they are likely charging you less since you're a friend that they can blow you off for a higher paying job and you'll understand. Glad it's working out with other vendors though!

cupcake8503 Posted:

need to rant or I'm gonna hit someone

That was my first rule when planning my wedding. (to not hire friends). Everyone kept asking me why didn't I ask so and so to do this or that. Unfortunately, sometimes friends aren't professional because of the relationship. Glad everything worked out for you.

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