need to vent

Ok first off FH brother is getting married in march, so we were all at his families house yesterday.. his one aunt says to me and FBIL's fiance Im soo exited for xmas this year bc this will be the last year with out you girls in it..no offence.... we were like um what?

second first of my parents are divorced so xmas eve we spend with my dad and xmas day with my mom. Once we are married we will split xmas eve with his family bc its really important to them. Well his ither aunt told me I shouldnt split the day with there family bc its not there fault my family is divorced, I should nhow change it and split xmas day with my dad and mom and make it inconvient for my fam..... I looked at her and wasl ike dsorry cant happen

vent over