Im so upset..... I dont know if you remember but H ada bridesmaid in florida wh owas *** for a few months. Ihad called to find out if she got her dress, and got no answer. Then I started to get nervous, so I called, texted, did everything. I then emailed her mom , her mom kept saying shes calling tommorow still nothing. My other BM emailed her mom again for me since Im getting married in 3 weeks and still knew nothing. SO i get an email from her mom this morning asking if I heard from her yet. Isaid no nothing, im assuming shes not coming at this point.
Then the mother leaves me a mesage saying:
' Melissa Im so sorry jess isnt coming to the weddinng Shes a mess right now. She kept tellling me she called you I dont know why she hasnt. IF you need to talk call me agian im sorry'
I got off the phone hysterically crying. Im at work right now and so upset, I cant believe this si happeninf,
she was always flaky weve gotten into arguements beofre bc we had plans and she would **** me over but I really truly believed she would be there for me on my wedding. I was always there for her no matter what she needed.. i just lost someone who was my best friend at one point and it just hurts
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F U C K HER!!!!
How dare she! You know what, she's probably jealous/insecure or just a plain old dumb b***h.
This is really out of my character, I'm really angry at this. You're better off date twin! YOU are going to look gorgeous and be surrounded by people who truly love you guys.
Good riddance, I'm sorry your hurt but I'm glad at least her true colors came out and she didn't ruin your wedding the day of.
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Was there any explination why she wasn't coming?! Did her mom know anything?
I'm so sorry you are going through this. Unfortunately you find out who your real friends are.
there was no explanation I think thats the hardest part I have all these angry and hurt emotions and I cant tell her how I feel or anything. Her mom doesnt really know anything but her mom lives here in ny she lives in fl.. so dunno .. I just feel like if your gonna f uck me over have the balls to do it yourself
Wow .. I agree. I think I would try calling her and leaving her messages just saying you would appreciate if she called you herself to let you know what was going on. That is not right. It could be something explainable but the way she is handling it is so wrong and so worthy of a good old 'F YOU' call or text...
you know what I dont even wanna call her bc its not worth it if she really cared she would try to get in touch with me
I am so sorry you have to go through this!!! You are right it really isn't worth it but I would probably write her a letter bacically tell you 'I am writing you out of my life and here is why..'. I am sure it wont make a difference to someone like that but I personally would want it known how I am feeling..
Just think of it this way.. This is one less BS thing you will have to worry about on the wedding day.. You dont need someone like that there!
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Wow im so sorry you are going through this . I hope you guys can work something out
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F U C K HER!!!!
How dare she! You know what, she's probably jealous/insecure or just a plain old dumb b***h.
This is really out of my character, I'm really angry at this. You're better off date twin! YOU are going to look gorgeous and be surrounded by people who truly love you guys.
Good riddance, I'm sorry your hurt but I'm glad at least her true colors came out and she didn't ruin your wedding the day of.
LOL I love my date twiiiin!!!!!! thank you I knoe im better off it just hurts when it was someone who was your best friend.. I want her to call me soo bad so I can say f uckkkk youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
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F U C K HER!!!!
I laughed out loud when I saw this! I hope it made you laugh too Melissa!
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F U C K HER!!!!
I laughed out loud when I saw this! I hope it made you laugh too Melissa!
it did Iaint gonna lie I def giggled
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Enjoy your wedding without her. I'm going through similar situations with two members of my bridal party and I'm not going to let it make me upset on my wedding day
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F U C K HER!!!!
I laughed out loud when I saw this! I hope it made you laugh too Melissa!
it did Iaint gonna lie I def giggled
I try girls! Have a drink Melissa- everything is going to turn out great.
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F U C K HER!!!!
I laughed out loud when I saw this! I hope it made you laugh too Melissa!
it did Iaint gonna lie I def giggled
I try girls! Have a drink Melissa- everything is going to turn out great.
thanks Im at work but Im about to fill my water bottle up with wine lol
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Aww I'm sorry Melissa!! That does stink!!
At least you can look forward to the rest of your life being without her drama or problems! Good Riddens!!!
Anyone who brings you down in life should be cut out of your life!! Get rid of the bad seeds!!!
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thanks girls
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aw that stinks. .I want to say I'm sure there is something going on with her but SERIOUSLY someone can call or at LEAST send an email saying sorry. . there is NO NO NO excuse, I don't care. . can see going through some major stuff and needing to bail on the wedding but to not call is CRAPPPERS
i had 1 person really let me down and DH had his groomsman who NEVER called, or emailed, or said anything about making it or not and finally we just said YOU NEED TO SAY IF YOU ARE COMING and he just emailed back. . hey dont think i can make it. .and this was AFTER he was supposed to (and didn't) show up for tux and all that so I KNOW what you're going through
but I agree just s c r e w her for now. . . and go postal later if need be
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I am so sorry to hear you're going through all of this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Whatever is wrong with this person, the bottom line is that she's incredibly selfish, and you don't need someone like that in your life anymore, no matter how good friends you once had been. She's not the person she was when you were friends with her, and at this point in your life, you are filled with bright, positive, wonderful joy and light for this incredible future you and FH have ahead of you. Whatever darkness and loathing lives inside her, you are so much better in this world without it.
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I'm so sorry 2 hear ur going through this. I'm dealing w/a similar situation my own w/my BM. She should have at least given you an explanation. Unfortunately, you do find out who ur true friends are.
Don't let it ruin ur day, just be happy ur marrying the love of ur life!!
Enjoy ur Bach party this weekend!!
melcc83
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thanks erica.... text me or message me on facebook if you need to t alk about your issues
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Your welcome, anytime! Thanks I will prob chat w/u later!!
