Need your help with this one

ok ladies you are always so helpful so again i need your advice.

I had so many problems with my MOH who was my best firend and neighbor for years. It got really bad that back in sept we stopped speaking. Well last month she saw my dad and told him that she missed our friendship and wanted to talk. 2 wks ago she imed me and we have been talking on the instant messager. She asks questions about the wedding and I feel really bad saying anything. She seems okay with it but I don't bring anything up unless she asks. What do I do about the wedding sitaution? Fh says leave it alone, my mom says i have to say something to her about it. I dont even know what to say if I were to say anything. any advise would ne appreciated. TIA

I would suggest if you have rekindled yoru freindship..or are working on it...and you would want her to be at your wedding to share that experience with you as a past best friend...then i would say discuss it with her.

It may help to discuss what occured between your relationship which caused you to stop speaking. Get all of that out in the open, squash it so you both can move one. Which you seem to have begun doing already.

Life is too short. So if she was or still is you MOH and best friend...it is worth it to rekindle the relationship and invite her to the wedding.

JMO!

Good Luck with your decision. Be confident in what you decide. Only you know whats best. But follow your heart and instinct.

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Posted by dleeny

is she still your MOH? you didn't mention that.

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i was wondering also??

b/c i had a friend who i asked to be a BM and she ended up TOTALLY beyraying me (regarding something else) and we didnt talk. then we started talking and i was scared to ever bring up my wedding or talk about it if she asked b/c i didnt know if i wanted her to still be a BM...well we lost touch again...so im glad i didnt mention anything

but if all in all is great with the two of you, then i would take it day by day....worse scenario, maybe just ask gher to be a guest...or if better, a BM.......if you feel that you want her still to be your MOH, that is up to you and your relationship with your friend