I was just wondering how often-and how much-you girls were in contact with your vendors after the contracts were signed and deposits paid? I haven't spoken to my photog/video since I left the deposit back in Jan, same with the band....is that normal? Reading your posts, it just seems like other brides are in regular correspondence with their vendors....I'll be suprised if mine know who I even am! Am I missing something?
ali120206
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I haven't had any contact with the band or photographer since I signed the contract. I've spoken with the reception hall and that's about it (well, other than limos but, we only did those last week).
MJDoc12
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i think you're okay. most vendors really don't need to speak with you under just a few months (1-3) before your wedding. i booked most of my vendors last year---and don't hear much of anything from them! (of course it's probably cause i'm getting married in 2007) i booked my officiant in dec. 05--and she let me know that she'll get in contact with me Nov. 06---and probably not much between! when you book early--it happens!
chapel06
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I've only had contact with my vendors if I reached out to ask them a question. I think once I get closer to the date that will change.
carlsbride
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Unless you have a question, there really is no need for contact if the contract is already signed and agreed to. The month before the wedding I met with most of my vendors to go over everything but that is the only contact I really had with them.
FallBride05
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I didn't start having contact with my vendors until about 2 1/2 months before the wedding
MayBride06
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I routinely made contact in person whether it was to ask a question or to make a payment. i felt better knowing that my vendors knew me by face instead of just a name on my contract!!
melbalalala
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I don't plan on contacting them until necessary right before the wedding, I dont want to be annoying!
SummerBride06
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why do you need to be in constant contact with them? unless you have a question, they won't contact you until 1-2 months before your wedding.
if you need to, call them
IslandPrincess
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Are they usually the ones who call you when the time comes or do you call them?
tonimike
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Weve had contact with our band,, Weve been to a few showcases after we booked & I wanted it that way so they knew us , I dont want a band not being personal with us , as they can make or break the wedding ,I feel !!
Boston&NY2006
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I haven't had any contact with pretty much any of my vendors since I booked them. I e-mailed a couple of them recently to see when I need to meet with them before the wedding (I'm two months away) and they let me know when I should schedule appointments (or if I even need to).
I'm not meeting with my photographer, or band in person before the big day...We're just communicating by phone and e-mail (which seems a whole lot easier to me).
CLMon7906
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Limited contact here as well. I've just not needed to be in constant contact with everyone because I'd never move on to the next vendor if I did!!
M&LSept1606
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nope- I haven't been in contact with the officiant, (since our xmas card!) counterpoint (ceremony musicians) I wonder if they are still going to remember me too!
All the others I have called through the months to ask silly little questions though...
BRod-Cheng
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I had no contact with my vendors after we signed the contracts almost 6 months ago. However, now that my wedding is about 2 months away I am starting to hear from everyone because we need to make all the final decisions.