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Def not weird. My brother didn't and neither did my cousins. There was a span of time when there were no kids. I am having a Jr bridesmaid but no ring bearer or FG either bc FH's sis is having her in laws watch them upstate so her and her husband can party at our wedding.
Posted by 2013Bride
We're not having a flower girl or a ringer bearer. Most weddings that I have been to have not had them either. Honestly, they are sometimes (ok... usually) a distraction, so I prefer neither haha
I don't think it's weird not to have one! Just depends if you have any kids you want in the BP. FH and I both have 3 year old cousins so they will be our ring bearer and flower girl. I was a BM in the my FG's parents wedding and their dad was a ring bearer in my parents wedding!
i prefer NOT to have them lol
Not weird at all! I know plenty of kids and choosing not to have a flowerirl or ring bearer.
You aren't crazy. I've been to plenty of weddings without them.
Posted by Butterflyfaye
It's not weird not to have either. My best friend got married a year and a half ago - she had no flower girl or ring bearer despite s super traditional wedding.
FH and I will have a flower girl - his going on 5, 6-year-old half-sister by the time we're married (Yes, there's 23 years between them).
We asked her to be our flower girl because she's been super upset ever since he moved out of the house (he was living at home when she was born due to some job troubles, and helping out his family while unemployed).
So we wanted her to feel extra special, that she'll always be important to us - even if far away.
There's no ringbearer.
We are not having a flower girl or ring bearer and we're having a full mass in a Catholic church. Don't feel obligated. My FH has two nephews who were ring bearers in her wedding this year and their mom (my future sister-in-law) had to walk them each down the isle b/c they would not go themselves!
Although most weddings I've been to have had them, I'm not. The only kid in the wedding will be my son, who will be 9 at the time, and I'm having him walk me down the aisle with my dad. I wanted him to have a slightly more 'special' role than ring bearer.
The only reason I have a flower girl is because we have a daughter that will be 2 at the wedding. If we didnt have her we wouldnt have a flower girl either cause the next youngest will be 9.5.
Posted by 2013Bride
We're not having a flower girl or a ringer bearer. Most weddings that I have been to have not had them either. Honestly, they are sometimes (ok... usually) a distraction, so I prefer neither haha
I've been to weddings with ring bearers or none, never a flower girl lol. FH & I aren't having ANY kids at the wedding, so I don't think it's weird not to have them.
