Not trying to burn any bridges here but.....

I will preface this with I am moody so I dont mean this rude AT ALL........

Can all of you skinny girls do us a favor and stop saying your fat. I totally get that you may not be happy with your weight and have every right to feel that way,.diet, whatever.

But to be someone that is way thinner than some of us on here, its a bit insensitive. If you think YOUR fat, what do you really think of us.

Im not trying to be mean, its just that alot of you say your gross and huge etc, and i know that id kill to look like you, and it honestly makes me not want to meet anyone of you since id be more self conscious than i am normally.

Im sorry if this made you hate me, but its how i feel and I had to vent

i totally get what your saying, but you just have to remember girls are much harder on themselves then other ppl...so if a girl says shes fat and gross that doesnt mean shes thinking badly of other people...don't let it bother you.

I understand mama. And don't think we hate you for speaking your mind... You have every right to vent!

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Posted by MrsC2010

i totally get what your saying, but you just have to remember girls are much harder on themselves then other ppl...so if a girl says shes fat and gross that doesnt mean shes thinking badly of other people...don't let it bother you.

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ITA
The way we see ourselves is not the way we see others or vice versa. Did that make sense? lol

I understand what you're saying. It took a lot of courage for you to speak your mind directly so way to go! I feel like some people do it for the attention, they want people to tell them how good they look. Try to not let it bother you, there will always be people who say that throughout your entire life!

I dont think anyone is doing it for attention, or to hear how good the look, I believe they feel like they can loose weight.

All im saying is that if i look at a girl who is a size 6 and she is saying she is fatt.... of course im going to know what she thinks about me.

Again im not trying to be all woah is me, im just trying to explain how i, and maybe others, feel worse about MYself, after reading people i wish i looked like are unhappy. I dont know, maybe im not making sense, maybe i should have kept my mouth shut.

i say im fat all the time. and i def dont do it for attention. i gained 40 lbs and every1 from my past that has recently seen me goes'omg u gained so much weight' do i sometimes cry? yes. did i do something about it? yes.

i also have a 2nd job where every girl is a size zero. im known as the 'bigger girl'. my manager even asked if i was preggers at one point.

so when u sit and point fingers(prob at me) and roll ur eyes when i say im fat...dont. we ALL have insecurities.

we're ALL women here(except for john,hes half ) and we vent about everything..

but PLEASE do NOT feel insecure about meeting any of us. no1 is perfect and no1 sits there and grills any1 up and down. if they did.. theyll get a quick kick in the face by me. i promise

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Posted by AliP2010

I dont think anyone is doing it for attention, or to hear how good the look, I believe they feel like they can loose weight.

All im saying is that if i look at a girl who is a size 6 and she is saying she is fatt.... of course im going to know what she thinks about me.

Again im not trying to be all woah is me, im just trying to explain how i, and maybe others, feel worse about MYself, after reading people i wish i looked like are unhappy. I dont know, maybe im not making sense, maybe i should have kept my mouth shut.

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I don't think that you should have 'kept [your] mouth shut'. Say what is on your mind.

I totally understand what you are saying, but you have to also look at the way people perceive them selves as fat the same way people think about their money.

its very rare to hear someone say 'I have enough money' you can be making $2000 a year or $200,000 a year and you will always hear the same thing 'I need more $'. It's just the way people are.

No matter how skinny someone is, they will always see themselves as ...'if only I can loose one more lb'

But in the same aspect if someone looking in from the outside will usually judge the person based on his/her personality, what they believe in, what they do for others, before they make their opinions about a person based on salary (or weight)

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Posted by grkbarbie

i say im fat all the time. and i def dont do it for attention. i gained 40 lbs and every1 from my past that has recently seen me goes'omg u gained so much weight' do i sometimes cry? yes. did i do something about it? yes.

i also have a 2nd job where every girl is a size zero. im known as the 'bigger girl'. my manager even asked if i was preggers at one point.

so when u sit and point fingers(prob at me) and roll ur eyes when i say im fat...dont. we ALL have insecurities.

we're ALL women here(except for john,hes half ) and we vent about everything..

but PLEASE do NOT feel insecure about meeting any of us. no1 is perfect and no1 sits there and grills any1 up and down. if they did.. theyll get a quick kick in the face by me. i promise

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I have a kim kardashian booty. I love my a$$. I complain sometimes b/c my butt gets in the way sometimes I just work out like an animal b/c I like to use it as venting thingy. And ITA with Barb, I also promise to jump in and Hadouken and Sonic Boom their butts if someone has something nasty to say about anyone. I don't like judgemental people... it makes me sad...

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Posted by Sandradv121

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Posted by grkbarbie

i say im fat all the time. and i def dont do it for attention. i gained 40 lbs and every1 from my past that has recently seen me goes'omg u gained so much weight' do i sometimes cry? yes. did i do something about it? yes.

i also have a 2nd job where every girl is a size zero. im known as the 'bigger girl'. my manager even asked if i was preggers at one point.

so when u sit and point fingers(prob at me) and roll ur eyes when i say im fat...dont. we ALL have insecurities.

we're ALL women here(except for john,hes half ) and we vent about everything..

but PLEASE do NOT feel insecure about meeting any of us. no1 is perfect and no1 sits there and grills any1 up and down. if they did.. theyll get a quick kick in the face by me. i promise

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I have a kim kardashian booty. I love my a$$. I complain sometimes b/c my butt gets in the way sometimes I just work out like an animal b/c I like to use it as venting thingy. And ITA with Barb, I also promise to jump in and Hadouken and Sonic Boom their butts if someone has something nasty to say about anyone. I don't like judgemental people... it makes me sad...

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and omg i am jealous u have a kardasian a$$???

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Posted by KRISTIND

reading this made me just reach for a box of chocolates.....

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I want chocolate!!!!! Lol...

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Posted by KRISTIND

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Posted by Sandradv121

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Posted by grkbarbie

i say im fat all the time. and i def dont do it for attention. i gained 40 lbs and every1 from my past that has recently seen me goes'omg u gained so much weight' do i sometimes cry? yes. did i do something about it? yes.

i also have a 2nd job where every girl is a size zero. im known as the 'bigger girl'. my manager even asked if i was preggers at one point.

so when u sit and point fingers(prob at me) and roll ur eyes when i say im fat...dont. we ALL have insecurities.

we're ALL women here(except for john,hes half ) and we vent about everything..

but PLEASE do NOT feel insecure about meeting any of us. no1 is perfect and no1 sits there and grills any1 up and down. if they did.. theyll get a quick kick in the face by me. i promise

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I have a kim kardashian booty. I love my a$$. I complain sometimes b/c my butt gets in the way sometimes I just work out like an animal b/c I like to use it as venting thingy. And ITA with Barb, I also promise to jump in and Hadouken and Sonic Boom their butts if someone has something nasty to say about anyone. I don't like judgemental people... it makes me sad...

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and omg i am jealous u have a kardasian a$$???

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Ok its not as Perky... but its there :) I like it its who I am... Hence my wedding dress... trumpet to enhance the 'feature'...

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Posted by Sandradv121

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Posted by KRISTIND

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Posted by Sandradv121

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Posted by grkbarbie

i say im fat all the time. and i def dont do it for attention. i gained 40 lbs and every1 from my past that has recently seen me goes'omg u gained so much weight' do i sometimes cry? yes. did i do something about it? yes.

i also have a 2nd job where every girl is a size zero. im known as the 'bigger girl'. my manager even asked if i was preggers at one point.

so when u sit and point fingers(prob at me) and roll ur eyes when i say im fat...dont. we ALL have insecurities.

we're ALL women here(except for john,hes half ) and we vent about everything..

but PLEASE do NOT feel insecure about meeting any of us. no1 is perfect and no1 sits there and grills any1 up and down. if they did.. theyll get a quick kick in the face by me. i promise

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I have a kim kardashian booty. I love my a$$. I complain sometimes b/c my butt gets in the way sometimes I just work out like an animal b/c I like to use it as venting thingy. And ITA with Barb, I also promise to jump in and Hadouken and Sonic Boom their butts if someone has something nasty to say about anyone. I don't like judgemental people... it makes me sad...

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and omg i am jealous u have a kardasian a$$???

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Ok its not as Perky... but its there :) I like it its who I am... Hence my wedding dress... trumpet to enhance the 'feature'...

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come over for some chocolate i wanna see it!!!

I just hope you all understand where im coming from . The reasoa of my post was to explain that I am hesitant about G2G or whatnot because now I know what you would really be thinking.

I was not trying to cause drama, we get enough of that with the fakers so just know i wasnt trying in to invalidate anyone's feeling, but state mine

Dont be hesitant about coming to any of the G2G's at all.

I have never been one of those skinny girls, have always been on the chubby side or fat. Last year I decided this was it and I'm doing something about it and worked my @ss off to lose almost 60 pounds and I still don't consider myself a skinny girl. I don't complain that I am fat and will never ask FH if i look fat-because thats not the type of person that i am.

Now for the girls that complain about being fat on here, some of them I am friends with off the computer and when we hang out, I yell at them for saying these comments.

So don't hold back from saying these things on here and don't be afraid to come to the G2G's. Even if you think its going to be akward to come to them, just come, through yourself into them and have fun