After re-reading this, I already know that some people are going to come back and say that you have become 'real' friends with some of these people and they are not just internet friends...if thats the case...talk about this when you meet for coffee and stop clogging the boards!
minniebride14
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Debbie, please, no one is looking to fight; and, no one is telling Stef how to feel - and I am not picking sides (I'm way too old for that kind of crap). I was simply saying it's nothing terrible, and she should take it as a form of flattery rather than anything negative, and just end it there. At the end of the day, who really cares if 10 people have the same program?! The same people are not going to be at Curly's wedding that were at Stef's. Incidentally, you should take your own advice as far as people having the 'right to feelings', as you believe so strongly this is about.
minniebride14
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I just read your second post; Debbie, then why are YOU clogging the boards? Lighten up and smile a little; life's way too short to be so angry and hostile.
fleeflee
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Since its gone this far I'll add my 2 cents. (yes, I know that's all its worth.) I am one of the people who FM'd Sonicstef to offer support. I did it privately because I didn't want to add to the drama. Now I'll make it public. I hate that we're all taking sides - and I agree with Yabbo that the two people that this directly involves are NOT the ones that are dragging it on and on. Who can deny that Stef is wonderfully creative and extremely helpful? We know that she's not mean spirited. She's just stating her opinion (as we all are) and looking for support. She was hurt by a vendors actions and looked to us for support, same as every one of us has done when we feel we were wronged.
My FM to Stef: *** on a side note, while I won't contribute to the 'drama' on the public board, I will tell you privately that I would feel the same way if I were in your position. Your taste and detail are impeccable and you have every right to be defensive of your hard work and creations. I truly appreciate your suggestions/critiques/guidance ... help.***
Curly -- I'm sorry you're going through this. I don't think any of this is your fault. I do feel that I need to publicly thank and support Stef, as I feel she is being treated terribly. ...and thats all I have to say about that.
