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Posted by Jesaroo2

um ew ...that annoys me that someone said somthing bad about your hall...milleridge is amazing...

someone will always have somthing negative to say, but common sense why would u come on a wedding board and diss a RH..people obviously have booked that hall on here..

the only negative comments I like are somthing that can help me better my experiance with the place or company

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Thanks jess! I was really annoyed, it was more than once too. lol I told FH and he told me step back from the keyboard before I implode (it's been a stressful week)

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Posted by Jesaroo2

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Posted by ant n tilde

i honestly didn't know it bothered people when we chat about NWR things - i feel bad now bc i posted a bunch of stuff ( even just today ) that was NWR. . . i just like sharing things on here and chatting about everything - not just weddings

i always try to respond to WR posts - although i will admit if it is a post that says 'I booked my DJ' and 20 people already said Congrats! I may just skip it

or if it is something i dont have an opinion on - or even something i dont like, i dont want to upset anybody so i will skip that too

half the time i dont even pay attention to WHO is posting it until after i read it so its really more about the content then the poster

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it doesnt bother me at all...I feel like I post more NWR topics..and now I feel bad...for example when izzy was sick..I was so worried and I needed a place to vent...hmm now I may think twice about doing that, i dont want to make people mad.

I agree on that if someone posts a topic and they already have 10 congrats replys..I dont reply either

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i pleed guilty as well.. im a huge NWR poster but thats cuz theres only so much wedding stuff i can talk about and i feel 'at home' here so i like to talk about whats going on in life... so i may cut back on the nwr stuff i didnt know it botherd people. i post as much as i can but i dont read through each and every thread so that may be the reason i dont reply. i pick and choose by the subject not by the poster.. im not that good to know who everyone is... i only know the few girls ive meet at the GTGs.

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Posted by MikeandJess

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Posted by Jesaroo2

um ew ...that annoys me that someone said somthing bad about your hall...milleridge is amazing...

someone will always have somthing negative to say, but common sense why would u come on a wedding board and diss a RH..people obviously have booked that hall on here..

the only negative comments I like are somthing that can help me better my experiance with the place or company

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Thanks jess! I was really annoyed, it was more than once too. lol I told FH and he told me step back from the keyboard before I implode (it's been a stressful week)

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wow I have never seen anything bad said about milleridge im suprised...and its somthing id notice since its your RH and we r getting married on the same day..

some people r so rude though

I think the first point is getting confused on here...its not that we get upset that people chat about NWR stuff - that fine, i think we have all done that before
like for example, a few months ago i posted a question about sandals in St lucia and i got about 3 replies
or another example....i posted that i had ordered my BM jewelry and was so excited - i got 2 replies
someone else had the same thread going and there was literally like 50 replies...it just seems strange to me

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Posted by MikeandJess

I agree, there was some girl on here talking smack about my hall and it made me so angry. There are nice ways to say things and there are ways of just being plain rude. I'm still convinced someone let her drink and type

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typing while intoxicated...pretty funny

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Posted by MikeandJess

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Posted by Jesaroo2

um ew ...that annoys me that someone said somthing bad about your hall...milleridge is amazing...

someone will always have somthing negative to say, but common sense why would u come on a wedding board and diss a RH..people obviously have booked that hall on here..

the only negative comments I like are somthing that can help me better my experiance with the place or company

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Thanks jess! I was really annoyed, it was more than once too. lol I told FH and he told me step back from the keyboard before I implode (it's been a stressful week)

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eh i know how you feel...sometimes people have made comments about either my RH, or things that i am doing and you just want to go off, i have responded a couple of times but sometimes its just not worth it, depends how i feel that day lol.

Hey i am sure the same people who have negative things to say about things you are doing or using, you can find things they're doing that you dont like.

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Posted by jenn122397

I think the first point is getting confused on here...its not that we get upset that people chat about NWR stuff - that fine, i think we have all done that before
like for example, a few months ago i posted a question about sandals in St lucia and i got about 3 replies
or another example....i posted that i had ordered my BM jewelry and was so excited - i got 2 replies
someone else had the same thread going and there was literally like 50 replies...it just seems strange to me

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i didnt see about the BM jewelry! i would have been excited about that too!

i am sorry that you feel this way too Jenn - i know you have had some experiences with this in the past

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Posted by MikeandJess

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Posted by Jesses Girl

what im saying is sometimes, i dunno whether people are jealous or not but they make me feel like im not welcome...(and my real friends who are on here feel it too sometimes)

and matilde, i do care how my real friends feel too (obviously) but when you want advice from other people and you dont get as many answers as you would hope (sometimes no answers)...but people post things that can be irrelevant and they get ridiculous amount of answers back...it seems like its a popularity contest instead of a board for advice.

im glad that you guys are seeing my point.

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I 100% know what you mean. And I have noticed the cattiness on here, I vent through FM and then blow it off, if you ever need to do that feel free to FM me. I'm not going to let a few catty comments (or no comments at all, lol) ruin all the helpful wedding planning ideas and advice I get from this site. And no you are not alone!!

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thanks!!! haha this was totally not to sound like a lame-o either. i just want you all to know that i wanted to mention it bc i knew for sure there were others.

i kno the catty-ness will ALWAYS occur...but whats funny is it usually happens with single girls. we are all happily taken we dont have to compete!!!

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Posted by Jesses Girl

what im saying is sometimes, i dunno whether people are jealous or not but they make me feel like im not welcome...(and my real friends who are on here feel it too sometimes)

and matilde, i do care how my real friends feel too (obviously) but when you want advice from other people and you dont get as many answers as you would hope (sometimes no answers)...but people post things that can be irrelevant and they get ridiculous amount of answers back...it seems like its a popularity contest instead of a board for advice.

im glad that you guys are seeing my point.

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i agree...whenever i post something i always notice the same people respond every time and most of the time i get not many responses at all..and the botw thing makes me feel even worse..does that bother anyone?

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Posted by Jesses Girl

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Posted by MikeandJess

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Posted by Jesses Girl

what im saying is sometimes, i dunno whether people are jealous or not but they make me feel like im not welcome...(and my real friends who are on here feel it too sometimes)

and matilde, i do care how my real friends feel too (obviously) but when you want advice from other people and you dont get as many answers as you would hope (sometimes no answers)...but people post things that can be irrelevant and they get ridiculous amount of answers back...it seems like its a popularity contest instead of a board for advice.

im glad that you guys are seeing my point.

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I 100% know what you mean. And I have noticed the cattiness on here, I vent through FM and then blow it off, if you ever need to do that feel free to FM me. I'm not going to let a few catty comments (or no comments at all, lol) ruin all the helpful wedding planning ideas and advice I get from this site. And no you are not alone!!

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thanks!!! haha this was totally not to sound like a lame-o either. i just want you all to know that i wanted to mention it bc i knew for sure there were others.

i kno the catty-ness will ALWAYS occur...but whats funny is it usually happens with single girls. we are all happily taken we dont have to compete!!!

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U dont sound lame. You are right

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesses Girl

what im saying is sometimes, i dunno whether people are jealous or not but they make me feel like im not welcome...(and my real friends who are on here feel it too sometimes)

and matilde, i do care how my real friends feel too (obviously) but when you want advice from other people and you dont get as many answers as you would hope (sometimes no answers)...but people post things that can be irrelevant and they get ridiculous amount of answers back...it seems like its a popularity contest instead of a board for advice.

im glad that you guys are seeing my point.

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i agree...whenever i post something i always notice the same people respond every time and most of the time i get not many responses at all..and the botw thing makes me feel even worse..does that bother anyone?

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why does the BOTW bother you??

That I think is pretty fair...

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesses Girl

what im saying is sometimes, i dunno whether people are jealous or not but they make me feel like im not welcome...(and my real friends who are on here feel it too sometimes)

and matilde, i do care how my real friends feel too (obviously) but when you want advice from other people and you dont get as many answers as you would hope (sometimes no answers)...but people post things that can be irrelevant and they get ridiculous amount of answers back...it seems like its a popularity contest instead of a board for advice.

im glad that you guys are seeing my point.

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i agree...whenever i post something i always notice the same people respond every time and most of the time i get not many responses at all..and the botw thing makes me feel even worse..does that bother anyone?

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You're my BOTW kristen

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesses Girl

what im saying is sometimes, i dunno whether people are jealous or not but they make me feel like im not welcome...(and my real friends who are on here feel it too sometimes)

and matilde, i do care how my real friends feel too (obviously) but when you want advice from other people and you dont get as many answers as you would hope (sometimes no answers)...but people post things that can be irrelevant and they get ridiculous amount of answers back...it seems like its a popularity contest instead of a board for advice.

im glad that you guys are seeing my point.

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i agree...whenever i post something i always notice the same people respond every time and most of the time i get not many responses at all..and the botw thing makes me feel even worse..does that bother anyone?

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You actually brought this up before kristin, the whole people not responding thing i remember so guess others feel the same way...I pay attention to your posts lol and i am more than sure MANY girls on here like you

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Posted by ant n tilde

i honestly didn't know it bothered people when we chat about NWR things - i feel bad now bc i posted a bunch of stuff ( even just today ) that was NWR. . . i just like sharing things on here and chatting about everything - not just weddings

i always try to respond to WR posts - although i will admit if it is a post that says 'I booked my DJ' and 20 people already said Congrats! I may just skip it

or if it is something i dont have an opinion on - or even something i dont like, i dont want to upset anybody so i will skip that too

half the time i dont even pay attention to WHO is posting it until after i read it so its really more about the content then the poster

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Yeah I wrote something before on NWR topics get more activity, I dont mind NWR topics, sometimes they are good to get away from the WR stuff and for when we are bored at work, lol NWR topics are great. Not to be a baby but I posted that I booked my florist on the BHB and 08 brides and I only got 3 posts on the 08 board which is soo happening all the time. ?? I got a couple of posts from BHB. If someone else posted that they booked their florist or vendor everyone will jump to respond. I really can give 2 S*** but I am going to post my vendors so other brides can benefit from my experiences of course thats what we do and thats what LIW is here for. Popular or not popular, Im not in HS, I will keep on planning away

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesses Girl

what im saying is sometimes, i dunno whether people are jealous or not but they make me feel like im not welcome...(and my real friends who are on here feel it too sometimes)

and matilde, i do care how my real friends feel too (obviously) but when you want advice from other people and you dont get as many answers as you would hope (sometimes no answers)...but people post things that can be irrelevant and they get ridiculous amount of answers back...it seems like its a popularity contest instead of a board for advice.

im glad that you guys are seeing my point.

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i agree...whenever i post something i always notice the same people respond every time and most of the time i get not many responses at all..and the botw thing makes me feel even worse..does that bother anyone?

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Me too. I don't ever expect to be nominated.

I think that this board just kind of emulates real life. There are 'cliques' and there are jealous girls that want to put people down. There are people that get along great, and people that don't like others. I do feel like there is an 'in-crowd'(for lack of a better term) and they all respond more to each other's posts, but I doubt that it's a malicious thing. I don't post as often as a lot of you girls, I just don't come on the computer that much I guess, and yeah it's kind of annoying when I'm looking for help and no one responds, but I'll usually just go post whatever it is on BHB and I'll get responses there. Don't worry too much about, really, it's just a message board

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Posted by Mrs.D08

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesses Girl

what im saying is sometimes, i dunno whether people are jealous or not but they make me feel like im not welcome...(and my real friends who are on here feel it too sometimes)

and matilde, i do care how my real friends feel too (obviously) but when you want advice from other people and you dont get as many answers as you would hope (sometimes no answers)...but people post things that can be irrelevant and they get ridiculous amount of answers back...it seems like its a popularity contest instead of a board for advice.

im glad that you guys are seeing my point.

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i agree...whenever i post something i always notice the same people respond every time and most of the time i get not many responses at all..and the botw thing makes me feel even worse..does that bother anyone?

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Me too. I don't ever expect to be nominated.

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I didnt expect to either...I dont think im clicky with kimbalina at all...so u will be suprised when u are nominated also!

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Posted by chrispar

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

yes feel that way too sometimes..your not the only one, and i too have thought about just giving up on this..

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No way you cant....you have been so helpful to me and everyone else...plus we are getting married in the same month...but I know what you mean

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aw thanks christine!! you made me smile!