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Posted by Jesaroo2

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesses Girl

what im saying is sometimes, i dunno whether people are jealous or not but they make me feel like im not welcome...(and my real friends who are on here feel it too sometimes)

and matilde, i do care how my real friends feel too (obviously) but when you want advice from other people and you dont get as many answers as you would hope (sometimes no answers)...but people post things that can be irrelevant and they get ridiculous amount of answers back...it seems like its a popularity contest instead of a board for advice.

im glad that you guys are seeing my point.

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i agree...whenever i post something i always notice the same people respond every time and most of the time i get not many responses at all..and the botw thing makes me feel even worse..does that bother anyone?

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why does the BOTW bother you??

That I think is pretty fair...

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i think its a popularity contest to be very honest...it honestly makes mee feel like im not part of this in any way and that is a way of throwing it in others faces..look at my posts- 6000!!!...i help people everyday!!!! practically! and im not even nominated once..it makes me feel awful11!!!

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Posted by ant n tilde

i guess the people i am 'cliquey' with are the girls that i know in real life - bc well, i have known them for like 20 years so i just care about them more then the girls i have never met before lol

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that is understandable though lol nobody will hold that against you...if i had my close friends on here then yeah that would be different.

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesses Girl

what im saying is sometimes, i dunno whether people are jealous or not but they make me feel like im not welcome...(and my real friends who are on here feel it too sometimes)

and matilde, i do care how my real friends feel too (obviously) but when you want advice from other people and you dont get as many answers as you would hope (sometimes no answers)...but people post things that can be irrelevant and they get ridiculous amount of answers back...it seems like its a popularity contest instead of a board for advice.

im glad that you guys are seeing my point.

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i agree...whenever i post something i always notice the same people respond every time and most of the time i get not many responses at all..and the botw thing makes me feel even worse..does that bother anyone?

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You actually brought this up before kristin, the whole people not responding thing i remember so guess others feel the same way...I pay attention to your posts lol and i am more than sure MANY girls on here like you

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aw thanks denise!! its good to know that some girls are paying attention!!

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesaroo2

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesses Girl

what im saying is sometimes, i dunno whether people are jealous or not but they make me feel like im not welcome...(and my real friends who are on here feel it too sometimes)

and matilde, i do care how my real friends feel too (obviously) but when you want advice from other people and you dont get as many answers as you would hope (sometimes no answers)...but people post things that can be irrelevant and they get ridiculous amount of answers back...it seems like its a popularity contest instead of a board for advice.

im glad that you guys are seeing my point.

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i agree...whenever i post something i always notice the same people respond every time and most of the time i get not many responses at all..and the botw thing makes me feel even worse..does that bother anyone?

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why does the BOTW bother you??

That I think is pretty fair...

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i think its a popularity contest to be very honest...it honestly makes mee feel like im not part of this in any way and that is a way of throwing it in others faces..look at my posts- 6000!!!...i help people everyday!!!! practically! and im not even nominated once..it makes me feel awful11!!!

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oh sorry u feel like that...im sure u will be nominated before 2008 though! I never thought I would. And the girl I nominated I really feel like she deserved it and I relate to her alot since I know how it feels to deal with a year deployment...I just felt like it would make her feel better since her FH is leaving for a year :(

And who she nominated it deserved it also! and so do u! so im sure u will be nominated soon!

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Posted by ant n tilde

i guess the people i am 'cliquey' with are the girls that i know in real life - bc well, i have known them for like 20 years so i just care about them more then the girls i have never met before lol

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yes agreed

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Posted by Jesaroo2

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesaroo2

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesses Girl

what im saying is sometimes, i dunno whether people are jealous or not but they make me feel like im not welcome...(and my real friends who are on here feel it too sometimes)

and matilde, i do care how my real friends feel too (obviously) but when you want advice from other people and you dont get as many answers as you would hope (sometimes no answers)...but people post things that can be irrelevant and they get ridiculous amount of answers back...it seems like its a popularity contest instead of a board for advice.

im glad that you guys are seeing my point.

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i agree...whenever i post something i always notice the same people respond every time and most of the time i get not many responses at all..and the botw thing makes me feel even worse..does that bother anyone?

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why does the BOTW bother you??

That I think is pretty fair...

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i think its a popularity contest to be very honest...it honestly makes mee feel like im not part of this in any way and that is a way of throwing it in others faces..look at my posts- 6000!!!...i help people everyday!!!! practically! and im not even nominated once..it makes me feel awful11!!!

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oh sorry u feel like that...im sure u will be nominated before 2008 though! I never thought I would. And the girl I nominated I really feel like she deserved it and I relate to her alot since I know how it feels to deal with a year deployment...I just felt like it would make her feel better since her FH is leaving for a year :(

And who she nominated it deserved it also! and so do u! so im sure u will be nominated soon!

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aw thanks!! but i don't know..hopefully..

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesaroo2

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesses Girl

what im saying is sometimes, i dunno whether people are jealous or not but they make me feel like im not welcome...(and my real friends who are on here feel it too sometimes)

and matilde, i do care how my real friends feel too (obviously) but when you want advice from other people and you dont get as many answers as you would hope (sometimes no answers)...but people post things that can be irrelevant and they get ridiculous amount of answers back...it seems like its a popularity contest instead of a board for advice.

im glad that you guys are seeing my point.

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i agree...whenever i post something i always notice the same people respond every time and most of the time i get not many responses at all..and the botw thing makes me feel even worse..does that bother anyone?

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why does the BOTW bother you??

That I think is pretty fair...

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i think its a popularity contest to be very honest...it honestly makes mee feel like im not part of this in any way and that is a way of throwing it in others faces..look at my posts- 6000!!!...i help people everyday!!!! practically! and im not even nominated once..it makes me feel awful11!!!

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im sorry you feel that way!! its just supposed to be a fun thing! your such a sweet heart and ive really liked taking to you on here and at the GTGs... each bride will get their turn as the BOTW!! noone is allowed to be it twice!

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Posted by Soon2BMrsD

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesaroo2

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesses Girl

what im saying is sometimes, i dunno whether people are jealous or not but they make me feel like im not welcome...(and my real friends who are on here feel it too sometimes)

and matilde, i do care how my real friends feel too (obviously) but when you want advice from other people and you dont get as many answers as you would hope (sometimes no answers)...but people post things that can be irrelevant and they get ridiculous amount of answers back...it seems like its a popularity contest instead of a board for advice.

im glad that you guys are seeing my point.

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i agree...whenever i post something i always notice the same people respond every time and most of the time i get not many responses at all..and the botw thing makes me feel even worse..does that bother anyone?

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why does the BOTW bother you??

That I think is pretty fair...

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i think its a popularity contest to be very honest...it honestly makes mee feel like im not part of this in any way and that is a way of throwing it in others faces..look at my posts- 6000!!!...i help people everyday!!!! practically! and im not even nominated once..it makes me feel awful11!!!

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im sorry you feel that way!! its just supposed to be a fun thing! your such a sweet heart and ive really liked taking to you on here and at the GTGs... each bride will get their turn as the BOTW!! noone is allowed to be it twice!

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aw thanks meg! your very sweet also! and thanks for the encouragement~

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Posted by Jesses Girl

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Posted by Jesaroo2

Oh I def feel like this ALOT!

this site def has little cliques...but whatever it doesnt matter ..

I do feel like somtimes that in a post I will write a comment to the orignal poster...and they will comment back to everyone except me...if that makes sense

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yup same here. haha

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I hear ya, I know NOT to expect some people to post back to what I post, and thats fine. I tried to be nice and comment when they post on diffrent services they have used or what not,,, but I get nothing in return
OH WELL!

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Posted by Soon2BMrsD

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesaroo2

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesses Girl

what im saying is sometimes, i dunno whether people are jealous or not but they make me feel like im not welcome...(and my real friends who are on here feel it too sometimes)

and matilde, i do care how my real friends feel too (obviously) but when you want advice from other people and you dont get as many answers as you would hope (sometimes no answers)...but people post things that can be irrelevant and they get ridiculous amount of answers back...it seems like its a popularity contest instead of a board for advice.

im glad that you guys are seeing my point.

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i agree...whenever i post something i always notice the same people respond every time and most of the time i get not many responses at all..and the botw thing makes me feel even worse..does that bother anyone?

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why does the BOTW bother you??

That I think is pretty fair...

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i think its a popularity contest to be very honest...it honestly makes mee feel like im not part of this in any way and that is a way of throwing it in others faces..look at my posts- 6000!!!...i help people everyday!!!! practically! and im not even nominated once..it makes me feel awful11!!!

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im sorry you feel that way!! its just supposed to be a fun thing! your such a sweet heart and ive really liked taking to you on here and at the GTGs... each bride will get their turn as the BOTW!! noone is allowed to be it twice!

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i agree - I think Kristin is such a sweet person and you are helping people atleast I notice you help people. And I know for me today was hard to nominate a BOTW. I feel jeanette deserved it and that is why I nominated her...but I also feel so many other people on her deserve it just as much but unfortunately you can only nominate 1 BOTW . I think it is a fair thing but dont feel discouraged you will get BOTW!!!! I am rooting for you lol

Kristin-You are such a sweet person and just remember your help never goes unnoticed...as least on my part!!

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Posted by cbcf

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Posted by Soon2BMrsD

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesaroo2

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Posted by Bride 2 Be

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Posted by Jesses Girl

what im saying is sometimes, i dunno whether people are jealous or not but they make me feel like im not welcome...(and my real friends who are on here feel it too sometimes)

and matilde, i do care how my real friends feel too (obviously) but when you want advice from other people and you dont get as many answers as you would hope (sometimes no answers)...but people post things that can be irrelevant and they get ridiculous amount of answers back...it seems like its a popularity contest instead of a board for advice.

im glad that you guys are seeing my point.

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i agree...whenever i post something i always notice the same people respond every time and most of the time i get not many responses at all..and the botw thing makes me feel even worse..does that bother anyone?

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why does the BOTW bother you??

That I think is pretty fair...

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i think its a popularity contest to be very honest...it honestly makes mee feel like im not part of this in any way and that is a way of throwing it in others faces..look at my posts- 6000!!!...i help people everyday!!!! practically! and im not even nominated once..it makes me feel awful11!!!

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im sorry you feel that way!! its just supposed to be a fun thing! your such a sweet heart and ive really liked taking to you on here and at the GTGs... each bride will get their turn as the BOTW!! noone is allowed to be it twice!

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i agree - I think Kristin is such a sweet person and you are helping people atleast I notice you help people. And I know for me today was hard to nominate a BOTW. I feel jeanette deserved it and that is why I nominated her...but I also feel so many other people on her deserve it just as much but unfortunately you can only nominate 1 BOTW . I think it is a fair thing but dont feel discouraged you will get BOTW!!!! I am rooting for you lol

Kristin-You are such a sweet person and just remember your help never goes unnoticed...as least on my part!!

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aw thanks catie! its comforting to hear that..i least i know i'm not ignored..but i totally hear what your saying and i agree!

well i just want to say - back to the OP

Diane, regardless of whether it is intentional or not I am sorry that you feel that way ( and the other girls also) and I hope that you continue to post bc i love talking with you on here

ahh see!

look how this post had all these girls open up and say they were kind of feeling the same way.

and i too try to post as much as i can and if i missed ur post, it wasnt on purpose. im on most of the time at work.

but see we all feel this way a lil. and im glad that we all got a chance to talk bout it. we are pretty cool people who are going wedding planning crazy...

we shouldnt make the others feel left out. and its not about highschool petty crap...ur right about that!

i feel a group hug and maybe a verse of Koom Bai Ah (sp?) )those are me singing!

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Posted by Jesses Girl

what im saying is sometimes, i dunno whether people are jealous or not but they make me feel like im not welcome...(and my real friends who are on here feel it too sometimes)

and matilde, i do care how my real friends feel too (obviously) but when you want advice from other people and you dont get as many answers as you would hope (sometimes no answers)...but people post things that can be irrelevant and they get ridiculous amount of answers back...it seems like its a popularity contest instead of a board for advice.

im glad that you guys are seeing my point.

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But that can also depend (and I think it usually does) on the day and time of post. Example, if you post something on the weekend, it may not get bumped because you have 100 girls posting, who they booked, etc..

If I ever get a bad vibe, I usually take a few days off of this site..and remember, use it to help me plan..not to browse drama when I could be at the gym

Hope everyone had a great weekend!

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Posted by gfield101

But that can also depend (and I think it usually does) on the day and time of post. Example, if you post something on the weekend, it may not get bumped because you have 100 girls posting, who they booked, etc..

If I ever get a bad vibe, I usually take a few days off of this site..and remember, use it to help me plan..not to browse drama when I could be at the gym

Hope everyone had a great weekend!

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u are soo very right!

and i had a great one. drank with the girls and the FH...