NWR: Did you ever notice....

never anyone I know.

although I occasionally think about starving myself. then I see food. and well, you know, I eat it.

you see that happen to people close to you?

No not anybody close to me just generally speaking. I hear people talk sometimes and just think to myself that it sounds crazy. Like I will see somebody out that looks like they weigh 100lbs soaking wet and I will hear them say that they cant eat anything fattening, they have to eat salads so they dont gain 2 pounds. Then I think to myself that they look like they need to gain about 15 pounds in order to look healthy.

I most definitely have met people like that. It worries me especially when people stop looking healthy.

As a side note....on Tues. Fh and I went to The Cheesecake Factory in Westbury and the hostess was soooooo thin. I mean almost anorexic looking. It was very scary. I saw her next to a regular looking thin girl and you could really see the stark difference between them. JMO

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Posted by Soon2beMrsC

No not anybody close to me just generally speaking. I hear people talk sometimes and just think to myself that it sounds crazy. Like I will see somebody out that looks like they weigh 100lbs soaking wet and I will hear them say that they cant eat anything fattening, they have to eat salads so they dont gain 2 pounds. Then I think to myself that they look like they need to gain about 15 pounds in order to look healthy.

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I have seen people out like this too. It's almost as if they are more concerned about a number on a scale rather then their health.

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Posted by Mici n KC

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Posted by Soon2beMrsC

No not anybody close to me just generally speaking. I hear people talk sometimes and just think to myself that it sounds crazy. Like I will see somebody out that looks like they weigh 100lbs soaking wet and I will hear them say that they cant eat anything fattening, they have to eat salads so they dont gain 2 pounds. Then I think to myself that they look like they need to gain about 15 pounds in order to look healthy.

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I have seen people out like this too. It's almost as if they are more concerned about a number on a scale rather then their health.

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Yea they would rather the scale say a low number then look healthy. I was out to lunch yesterday and could hear these stick thin girls at the next table talking about how they had to tone up an lose a pound or two so their thighs didnt touch. Give me a break they looked like a bag of bones to begin with.

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Posted by bluekat16

I most definitely have met people like that. It worries me especially when people stop looking healthy.

As a side note....on Tues. Fh and I went to The Cheesecake Factory in Westbury and the hostess was soooooo thin. I mean almost anorexic looking. It was very scary. I saw her next to a regular looking thin girl and you could really see the stark difference between them. JMO

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That is what I mean it is nice to be thin but there is a point where it is too thin and it just doesnt look good anymore

i know a few people like that. and i see it all the time in magazines. some of the celebrities just look SICK

i'm happy with the way i am now. i COULD lose more weight but i look and feel healthy now so i just stay positive about where i am

i know some girls who are naturally like that, one girl is rail thin and she eats ALOT and all the time. But i do know what you mean, if they are healthy then thats fine but some go too far and put their health at risk. I dont know thats crazy though...i do know people who think OMG i am so fat meanwhile infact they are TOO skinny, and then wont eat alot, meanwhile im like ok you can eat a cheeseburger right now and you wont gain weight.

Its crazy, and i just hope these girls arent hurting themselves. I mean listen we all worry about weight, im not one to talk. But also when i was losing weight, i had to stop at one point bc i thought i was getting too skinny(wow wish that was my problem now hahahaha) and everyone kept pointing it out too but i also like to have curves so when i do lose weight i like to focus on waist, abs and arms and also get toned. But everybody likes different things.

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Posted by Espo22

i know some girls who are naturally like that, one girl is rail thin and she eats ALOT and all the time. But i do know what you mean, if they are healthy then thats fine but some go too far and put their health at risk. I dont know thats crazy though...i do know people who think OMG i am so fat meanwhile infact they are TOO skinny, and then wont eat alot, meanwhile im like ok you can eat a cheeseburger right now and you wont gain weight.

Its crazy, and i just hope these girls arent hurting themselves. I mean listen we all worry about weight, im not one to talk. But also when i was losing weight, i had to stop at one point bc i thought i was getting too skinny(wow wish that was my problem now hahahaha) and everyone kept pointing it out too but i also like to have curves so when i do lose weight i like to focus on waist, abs and arms and also get toned. But everybody likes different things.

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Totally agree about the toning. I want to have a nice shape!

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Posted by Espo22

i know some girls who are naturally like that, one girl is rail thin and she eats ALOT and all the time. But i do know what you mean, if they are healthy then thats fine but some go too far and put their health at risk. I dont know thats crazy though...i do know people who think OMG i am so fat meanwhile infact they are TOO skinny, and then wont eat alot, meanwhile im like ok you can eat a cheeseburger right now and you wont gain weight.

Its crazy, and i just hope these girls arent hurting themselves. I mean listen we all worry about weight, im not one to talk. But also when i was losing weight, i had to stop at one point bc i thought i was getting too skinny(wow wish that was my problem now hahahaha) and everyone kept pointing it out too but i also like to have curves so when i do lose weight i like to focus on waist, abs and arms and also get toned. But everybody likes different things.

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You are right, toning is the key. Skinny and curvy is good but some of these girls look like they have little boy bodies because they are so thin

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Posted by Soon2beMrsC

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Posted by Espo22

i know some girls who are naturally like that, one girl is rail thin and she eats ALOT and all the time. But i do know what you mean, if they are healthy then thats fine but some go too far and put their health at risk. I dont know thats crazy though...i do know people who think OMG i am so fat meanwhile infact they are TOO skinny, and then wont eat alot, meanwhile im like ok you can eat a cheeseburger right now and you wont gain weight.

Its crazy, and i just hope these girls arent hurting themselves. I mean listen we all worry about weight, im not one to talk. But also when i was losing weight, i had to stop at one point bc i thought i was getting too skinny(wow wish that was my problem now hahahaha) and everyone kept pointing it out too but i also like to have curves so when i do lose weight i like to focus on waist, abs and arms and also get toned. But everybody likes different things.

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You are right, toning is the key. Skinny and curvy is good but some of these girls look like they have little boy bodies because they are so thin

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i actually wish i was even more curvy lol, so i want the opposite hahahaha.

you mean, like nicky hilton?

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Posted by KarinAmanda

you mean, like nicky hilton?

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OMG look at her knees

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by KarinAmanda

you mean, like nicky hilton?

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OMG look at her knees

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seriously, she looks sick

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Posted by KarinAmanda

you mean, like nicky hilton?

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She actually has some kind of shape. I am talking more like nicole ritchie a while back....she was just so thin, had dark circles under her eyes and was so pasty pale. I dont know why you would want to look like that.

I have a bm who has suffered with anorexia since she was a teen. Right now, she is doing ok , but still says things like ' oh i have a tummy now or I am all flab ( she is MAYBE 110 at most! ) and I am like girl you don't look like you just came out of a concentration camp anymore !

I remember about 2 years ago i made her get on the scale because i knew she wasn't eating and she kept insisting that she was 100 pounds ( she ws 87 ) . scary stuff. i tell her that she looks sick not thin when she gets bad and when she looks
' normal ' ( still pretty skinny, but not sick) i tell her how good she looks so she doesn't think she is fat !