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NWR: Fh and his attitude extremely LONG UPDATE:

Original post by Jesses Girl

Last night i get home after 8 but i didnt go to the gym bc fh was home i wanted to spend time with him...have some 'fun' before I shower and get ready for bed.
He askes if im hungry but im dieting...i said 'ya but im not sure what i should eat'
FH: 'want me to order something?'
me: I dont have cash on me its ok
FH:'me either, want me to make you sometihng'
me: no, what are you going to make?...all i can really eat is tuna or eggs. ( said it just like that ...not me not nasty...just...like it is)
and i put some protein shakes in the fridge...

he got this attitude:
FH:y are u sarcastic im just tryin to be nice...

im like what are you talkin bout..im not being sarcastic..i was just tellin u there is nothing that you can make for me...only tuna n eggs...

he continued to argue with me until 8:45...when i did nothing wrong and wasnt being nasty...so i said thanks..i just ge thome...i deal with this for about a 1/2 hour...i have to shower...so i showered...blew out my hair...took my book and went to bed...
I planned on coming home and having some fun alone time...i brought him brownies from the show...i was like in such a good mood to see him since its his like only nite off this week.

fast foward to today:

he calls me...did you pay this bill yet?
i say no bc its not due yet and i get paid tomorrow
fh: (nasttttttty) FINE then im writing out a check and sending it today..all im askin if u paid it yet...

i said...why are you being like this i told you i get paid tomorrow ill take care of it..its not due yet...

its DUE MONDAY! he says (nasty)

i said but i pay it online...i can do it tomorrow...

fh: why cant you just tell me yes or no..i said well i was lettin u kno i kno its due soon not yet but i will pay it bc i get paid tomorrow.

He is so fast to accuse me of being sarcastic..n nasty...but like..i wasnt at all..im at work..not wanting people to hear my business...

2 days in a row...i dunno what his problem is.



UPDATE:

He called to apologize. He felt bad that today had to start that way and he didnt mean it and didnt want it to ruin my day. He said he was sorry and he loved me.

Jesses Girl Posted:

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Posted by futuremrsfab

Posted by Super2star

Dont worry...maybe he is just PMSing...I swear...I think guys get it too!!!
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that is sooo true! I think it has to do with the moon too and last night was a full moon (i think)! don't worry they just have their moments sometimes- with mine, i just let him blow off steam and then usually later he tells me that his mom annoyed him or something happened at work- most men are just not great communicators.


hes not at all..and usually hes never in a mood thats why i was shocked.

i mean..he knew i wanted to spend time..i even told him that today and hes like yah but u showered and went to bed...i said you were fightin with me..you kinda killed the mood. like he still tries to blame me for the nite not goin well.
LuvMyAlfonse Posted:

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Posted by Super2star
Dont worry...maybe he is just PMSing...I swear...I think guys get it too!!!


ditto! men are moody!

he'll get over it...

Super2star Posted:

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Posted by futuremrsfab

Posted by Super2star

Dont worry...maybe he is just PMSing...I swear...I think guys get it too!!!
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that is sooo true! I think it has to do with the moon too and last night was a full moon (i think)! don't worry they just have their moments sometimes- with mine, i just let him blow off steam and then usually later he tells me that his mom annoyed him or something happened at work- most men are just not great communicators.


yeah it was a full moon last night...I didnt think of that!!!
Jesses Girl Posted:

Re: NWR: Fh and his attitude extremely LONG

Posted by Super2star

Posted by futuremrsfab

Posted by Super2star

Dont worry...maybe he is just PMSing...I swear...I think guys get it too!!!
]

that is sooo true! I think it has to do with the moon too and last night was a full moon (i think)! don't worry they just have their moments sometimes- with mine, i just let him blow off steam and then usually later he tells me that his mom annoyed him or something happened at work- most men are just not great communicators.


yeah it was a full moon last night...I didnt think of that!!!


interesting...i bet that was it!!
fl2008 Posted:

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they PMS worse then us. hes probably just stressed and its a lot of pressure right now with the cost of everything. and probably you wanting to diet and not eating the way maybe u guys used to. also maybe not spending time together. FH does that to me all the time, ur not gonna eat blah blah blah and theni eat to appease him ugggghhhh!!!!!

also he fights with me if he doesnt get to see me. which makes no sense bc if you dont see me often why are you fighting when now you finally do get to see me. i tel lyou the mentality on these men lol. but its us we are nasty lmao right.

sorry menat to give u advice and i vented too lol
Jesses Girl Posted:

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Posted by fl2008

they PMS worse then us. hes probably just stressed and its a lot of pressure right now with the cost of everything. and probably you wanting to diet and not eating the way maybe u guys used to. also maybe not spending time together. FH does that to me all the time, ur not gonna eat blah blah blah and theni eat to appease him ugggghhhh!!!!!

also he fights with me if he doesnt get to see me. which makes no sense bc if you dont see me often why are you fighting when now you finally do get to see me. i tel lyou the mentality on these men lol. but its us we are nasty lmao right.

sorry menat to give u advice and i vented too lol


haha its ok thanks tho!! at least all our men act like this at some point.

thats y im like i could have come home changed n left to go to the gym...but i didnt..i wanted to see him..for him to argue bout NOTHING! haha what a punk!
cherish83 Posted:

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Men have their mood swings too.. Don't worry about it.. Hope today is better for you!


thanks hun

im fine other than that...just wish he hear himself when he speaks to me.


You did absolutely nothing wrong. Does he know that all you can still eat is tuna or eggs?


haha like i was just tryin to say hey...i cant eat that bowl of pasta...thats all he could have made for me anyway!! i need protein.. GR

he knows i wont eat like that that late at ntie...and i knew he was being sweet..so i was being nice back too


My FH gets like that too. He doesnt realize that I dont like to eat past a certain time especially food like that. Men just dont get it. Have you spoken to him yet?
Jesses Girl Posted:

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My FH gets like that too. He doesnt realize that I dont like to eat past a certain time especially food like that. Men just dont get it. Have you spoken to him yet?


yah when he called me to say something bout the bill..and i hung up on him..2 times..and when he called me again i said im at work..this is 2 days in a row n its not fair...i didnt do anything and i dont kno why ur actin this way...

i said its not fair that you do this esp when my boss is in the other room and i cant say anything.

and he said fine..and i said fine bc i expected an apology but he is stubborn.
cherish83 Posted:

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Ugh!! I'm sorry. Will you see him at all later? Maybe you can work things out in person

Jesses Girl Posted:

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nope..i have 3 shows today and he leaves at 6pm for work.

its fine..ill just let it blow over i guess...

i just hate it bc u kno when im wrong i admit it and apologize...he doesnt do that.
cherish83 Posted:

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Posted by Jesses Girl

nope..i have 3 shows today and he leaves at 6pm for work.

its fine..ill just let it blow over i guess...

i just hate it bc u kno when im wrong i admit it and apologize...he doesnt do that.



I'm sure it'll blow over and things will be fine. But it IS annoying when they are all stubborn and don't realize when they are wrong when the jump down our throats when we are
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Jesses Girl

nope..i have 3 shows today and he leaves at 6pm for work.

its fine..ill just let it blow over i guess...

i just hate it bc u kno when im wrong i admit it and apologize...he doesnt do that.


now that you said what you had to say to him, just ignore him for now and let him think about it and he'll feel bad.
Jesses Girl Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

Posted by Jesses Girl

nope..i have 3 shows today and he leaves at 6pm for work.

its fine..ill just let it blow over i guess...

i just hate it bc u kno when im wrong i admit it and apologize...he doesnt do that.


now that you said what you had to say to him, just ignore him for now and let him think about it and he'll feel bad.


i will. im totally going to do that..im not going to call thru out the day

let him feel bad
ant n tilde Posted:

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I am sorry babe - I am sure he will get over whatever is bothering him soon!
kristi313 Posted:

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See this just proves our case that guys get it too! He obviously is having a 'moment' Kill him with kindness, he'll feel bad. You definitely did nothing wrong.
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Jesses Girl

nope..i have 3 shows today and he leaves at 6pm for work.

its fine..ill just let it blow over i guess...

i just hate it bc u kno when im wrong i admit it and apologize...he doesnt do that.


now that you said what you had to say to him, just ignore him for now and let him think about it and he'll feel bad.


i will. im totally going to do that..im not going to call thru out the day

let him feel bad


yeah its better off...Fh freaked out on sat bc at 5pm we had to go upstate for his aunts birthday party but we had a bunch of errands to run first and he was annoyed bc he wouldnt get to relax this past weekend...well we go to the postoffice to pick up HIS package bc he is a shopaholic and we were there for an hour...then after he was like 'we wont have time to finish everything and was freaking out' even though i said YES we do...he kept getting an attitude telling me why couldnt i have bought the shower gift for HIS friends fiancee last week or sometime before that and just kept having a hissy fit...we stopped quickly at his house to eat something and he kept going nuts and getting an attitude. MEANWHILE he was looking at their registry online and said he likes going to buy things off registries...After him saying for the millionth time how he wish he was just able to relax and said OMG i will go alone seriously its not a big deal, nobody said you HAD to go, you're the one telling me you like to do this.

he felt bad so he was like no im coming, and i said PLEASE i WANT to go alone now...seriously im more mellow and all this freaking out about OMG we dont have time and going nuts had me so stressed...he goes to get in the car still and im like SERIOUSLY let me go alone...Thank god bc i needed time to myself at that moment lol.

He text me while i was gone to apologize and again when i came back...The problem was that he wanted to relax and all along didn't want to drive out to LI and felt bad to tell me or for me to go alone which made him more aggitated and took it out on me...I told him if he wouldve just said from the beginning 'do you mind going alone' there would've been no problem, bc he knows i never have a problem with things like that.

HE ALWAYS does that and i told him he needs to tell me once something bothers him, bc he is a person who worries too much and over analyzes and drives himself crazy and then drives me crazy.

WOW sorry that ended up being longer than expected, but point is guys use other things to get mad about rather than what is really bothering them
Jesses Girl Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

i will. im totally going to do that..im not going to call thru out the day

let him feel bad


yeah its better off...Fh freaked out on sat bc at 5pm we had to go upstate for his aunts birthday party but we had a bunch of errands to run first and he was annoyed bc he wouldnt get to relax this past weekend...well we go to the postoffice to pick up HIS package bc he is a shopaholic and we were there for an hour...then after he was like 'we wont have time to finish everything and was freaking out' even though i said YES we do...he kept getting an attitude telling me why couldnt i have bought the shower gift for HIS friends fiancee last week or sometime before that and just kept having a hissy fit...we stopped quickly at his house to eat something and he kept going nuts and getting an attitude. MEANWHILE he was looking at their registry online and said he likes going to buy things off registries...After him saying for the millionth time how he wish he was just able to relax and said OMG i will go alone seriously its not a big deal, nobody said you HAD to go, you're the one telling me you like to do this.

he felt bad so he was like no im coming, and i said PLEASE i WANT to go alone now...seriously im more mellow and all this freaking out about OMG we dont have time and going nuts had me so stressed...he goes to get in the car still and im like SERIOUSLY let me go alone...Thank god bc i needed time to myself at that moment lol.

He text me while i was gone to apologize and again when i came back...The problem was that he wanted to relax and all along didn't want to drive out to LI and felt bad to tell me or for me to go alone which made him more aggitated and took it out on me...I told him if he wouldve just said from the beginning 'do you mind going alone' there would've been no problem, bc he knows i never have a problem with things like that.

HE ALWAYS does that and i told him he needs to tell me once something bothers him, bc he is a person who worries too much and over analyzes and drives himself crazy and then drives me crazy.

WOW sorry that ended up being longer than expected, but point is guys use other things to get mad about rather than what is really bothering them


see this sound similar to what he would do..
man o man i would have done the same as you! like seriously let me go aloneeeeee instead of you freakin out!

but here is an update:

Fh just called to tell me he is sorry for that and he didnt mean it...and he wants me to have a good day and not have it start out that way...he said 'I feel bad about it and im sorry'

now i feel better!
xXxNovember08xXx Posted:

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yey///

see he can realize he was beign a bit ch

pms.. men...

humph
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Jesses Girl

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see this sound similar to what he would do..
man o man i would have done the same as you! like seriously let me go aloneeeeee instead of you freakin out!

but here is an update:

Fh just called to tell me he is sorry for that and he didnt mean it...and he wants me to have a good day and not have it start out that way...he said 'I feel bad about it and im sorry'

now i feel better!


yeah i cant take the whole freaking out thing, its like seriously calm down, freaking out wont help the situation.

awwww see, yeah if we just say you're being an a** leave me alone they actually think about it, rather than if we just kept arguing about it...then they always feel bad.

Glad he called
mrspalomino148 Posted:

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aw at least he realized and apologized!

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