NWR: Fh and his attitude extremely LONG UPDATE:

Last night i get home after 8 but i didnt go to the gym bc fh was home i wanted to spend time with him...have some 'fun' before I shower and get ready for bed.
He askes if im hungry but im dieting...i said 'ya but im not sure what i should eat'
FH: 'want me to order something?'
me: I dont have cash on me its ok
FH:'me either, want me to make you sometihng'
me: no, what are you going to make?...all i can really eat is tuna or eggs. ( said it just like that ...not me not nasty...just...like it is)
and i put some protein shakes in the fridge...

he got this attitude:
FH:y are u sarcastic im just tryin to be nice...

im like what are you talkin bout..im not being sarcastic..i was just tellin u there is nothing that you can make for me...only tuna n eggs...

he continued to argue with me until 8:45...when i did nothing wrong and wasnt being nasty...so i said thanks..i just ge thome...i deal with this for about a 1/2 hour...i have to shower...so i showered...blew out my hair...took my book and went to bed...
I planned on coming home and having some fun alone time...i brought him brownies from the show...i was like in such a good mood to see him since its his like only nite off this week.

fast foward to today:

he calls me...did you pay this bill yet?
i say no bc its not due yet and i get paid tomorrow
fh: (nasttttttty) FINE then im writing out a check and sending it today..all im askin if u paid it yet...

i said...why are you being like this i told you i get paid tomorrow ill take care of it..its not due yet...

its DUE MONDAY! he says (nasty)

i said but i pay it online...i can do it tomorrow...

fh: why cant you just tell me yes or no..i said well i was lettin u kno i kno its due soon not yet but i will pay it bc i get paid tomorrow.

He is so fast to accuse me of being sarcastic..n nasty...but like..i wasnt at all..im at work..not wanting people to hear my business...

2 days in a row...i dunno what his problem is.



UPDATE:

He called to apologize. He felt bad that today had to start that way and he didnt mean it and didnt want it to ruin my day. He said he was sorry and he loved me.

Don't stress it maybe he had a bad day yesterday. I know FH sometimes acts like he is PMS'ing and i just and stick to myself. Things will get better soon

i just...i dont get it

i was being nice. even tho i was out at 6:30 in the am...home at 8:15 in the pm...

i was still happy to see him...brownies in tow...wanting to have some sex!

yah i guess it could be the PMS.

Men have their mood swings too.. Don't worry about it.. Hope today is better for you!

it sounds like you need a lot of these:



just kill him with kindness -- maybe he is on the rag lol

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Posted by yelley77

it sounds like you need a lot of these:



just kill him with kindness -- maybe he is on the rag lol

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haha thanks...i know..it just makes me angry bc now we wont spend time together until sunday...he ruined last nite for me.
its over and i was fine when i got up today

but then that phone call i was like what am i doing wrong?

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Posted by cherish83



Men have their mood swings too.. Don't worry about it.. Hope today is better for you!

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thanks hun

im fine other than that...just wish he hear himself when he speaks to me.

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Posted by MikeandJess

have you asked him if he's menstruating?

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i should...since men do that to us.

bastid.

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Posted by Jesses Girl

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Posted by cherish83



Men have their mood swings too.. Don't worry about it.. Hope today is better for you!

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thanks hun

im fine other than that...just wish he hear himself when he speaks to me.

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You did absolutely nothing wrong. Does he know that all you can still eat is tuna or eggs?

awwwwwwwww i am so sorry Diane

i think guys get their period too, only they just get the mood swings lol. He is probably stressed out about something else, this is how guys get out their frustration, they dont talk about the real problem at hand or what is really on their minds so they'll argue about stupid things.

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Posted by Jesses Girl

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Posted by yelley77

it sounds like you need a lot of these:



just kill him with kindness -- maybe he is on the rag lol

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haha thanks...i know..it just makes me angry bc now we wont spend time together until sunday...he ruined last nite for me.
its over and i was fine when i got up today

but then that phone call i was like what am i doing wrong?

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I hate when you let it go and they carry it over to the next day!!! It's like, ok, let it go

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Posted by yelley77

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Posted by Jesses Girl

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Posted by yelley77

it sounds like you need a lot of these:



just kill him with kindness -- maybe he is on the rag lol

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haha thanks...i know..it just makes me angry bc now we wont spend time together until sunday...he ruined last nite for me.
its over and i was fine when i got up today

but then that phone call i was like what am i doing wrong?

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I hate when you let it go and they carry it over to the next day!!! It's like, ok, let it go

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and if we do that forget it, were the nags but when they do it i guess its something else

AWWWW sorry babe, FH's SUCKKK when they have attitutes

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Posted by cherish83

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Posted by Jesses Girl

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Posted by cherish83



Men have their mood swings too.. Don't worry about it.. Hope today is better for you!

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thanks hun

im fine other than that...just wish he hear himself when he speaks to me.

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You did absolutely nothing wrong. Does he know that all you can still eat is tuna or eggs?

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haha like i was just tryin to say hey...i cant eat that bowl of pasta...thats all he could have made for me anyway!! i need protein.. GR

he knows i wont eat like that that late at ntie...and i knew he was being sweet..so i was being nice back too

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Posted by Super2star

Dont worry...maybe he is just PMSing...I swear...I think guys get it too!!!

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that is sooo true! I think it has to do with the moon too and last night was a full moon (i think)! don't worry they just have their moments sometimes- with mine, i just let him blow off steam and then usually later he tells me that his mom annoyed him or something happened at work- most men are just not great communicators.

thanks girls..this post was really to get it out...bc its eating me up...