NWR: Fh and his attitude extremely LONG UPDATE:

Original post by Jesses Girl

Aug 29, 2007 09:34 AM

Last night i get home after 8 but i didnt go to the gym bc fh was home i wanted to spend time with him...have some 'fun' before I shower and get ready for bed.
He askes if im hungry but im dieting...i said 'ya but im not sure what i should eat'
FH: 'want me to order something?'
me: I dont have cash on me its ok
FH:'me either, want me to make you sometihng'
me: no, what are you going to make?...all i can really eat is tuna or eggs. ( said it just like that ...not me not nasty...just...like it is)
and i put some protein shakes in the fridge...

he got this attitude:
FH:y are u sarcastic im just tryin to be nice...

im like what are you talkin bout..im not being sarcastic..i was just tellin u there is nothing that you can make for me...only tuna n eggs...

he continued to argue with me until 8:45...when i did nothing wrong and wasnt being nasty...so i said thanks..i just ge thome...i deal with this for about a 1/2 hour...i have to shower...so i showered...blew out my hair...took my book and went to bed...
I planned on coming home and having some fun alone time...i brought him brownies from the show...i was like in such a good mood to see him since its his like only nite off this week.

fast foward to today:

he calls me...did you pay this bill yet?
i say no bc its not due yet and i get paid tomorrow
fh: (nasttttttty) FINE then im writing out a check and sending it today..all im askin if u paid it yet...

i said...why are you being like this i told you i get paid tomorrow ill take care of it..its not due yet...

its DUE MONDAY! he says (nasty)

i said but i pay it online...i can do it tomorrow...

fh: why cant you just tell me yes or no..i said well i was lettin u kno i kno its due soon not yet but i will pay it bc i get paid tomorrow.

He is so fast to accuse me of being sarcastic..n nasty...but like..i wasnt at all..im at work..not wanting people to hear my business...

2 days in a row...i dunno what his problem is.

UPDATE:

He called to apologize. He felt bad that today had to start that way and he didnt mean it and didnt want it to ruin my day. He said he was sorry and he loved me.

Jesses Girl Posted: Aug 29, 2007 10:54 AM

Re: NWR: Fh and his attitude extremely LONG UPDATE:

Posted by Espo22

Posted by Jesses Girl

[

see this sound similar to what he would do..
man o man i would have done the same as you! like seriously let me go aloneeeeee instead of you freakin out!

but here is an update:

Fh just called to tell me he is sorry for that and he didnt mean it...and he wants me to have a good day and not have it start out that way...he said 'I feel bad about it and im sorry'

now i feel better!

yeah i cant take the whole freaking out thing, its like seriously calm down, freaking out wont help the situation.

awwww see, yeah if we just say you're being an a** leave me alone they actually think about it, rather than if we just kept arguing about it...then they always feel bad.

Glad he called

me too, im glad!

thanks for listenin and reading this crapppp!!

dancinmyazoff Posted: Aug 29, 2007 10:54 AM

Re: NWR: Fh and his attitude extremely LONG UPDATE:

Posted by Super2star

Dont worry...maybe he is just PMSing...I swear...I think guys get it too!!!

I was FOR REAL going to write the exact same thing!

Diane 'try' not to sweat it, it happens with all guys. Rocco definitely has hit bittchy days...believe me! I allow him his bittchy days cause I know he deals with me on my bittchy days too. I know I'm not really helping but even boys get a little menstrual sometimes

cherish83 Posted: Aug 29, 2007 10:59 AM

Re: NWR: Fh and his attitude extremely LONG UPDATE:

Yay! That was nice of him. SO glad he called and now you can enjoy your day!

ant n tilde Posted: Aug 29, 2007 11:09 AM

Re: NWR: Fh and his attitude extremely LONG UPDATE:

glad to hear it worked out!!

Mizzdimple Posted: Aug 29, 2007 11:12 AM

Re: NWR: Fh and his attitude extremely LONG UPDATE:

wow did everyone get into fights last night! hahah

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Aug 29, 2007 11:15 AM

Re: NWR: Fh and his attitude extremely LONG UPDATE:

Ugh- sorry he is being a cranky a$$.

At least he apologized though.

I think men reall do have male PMS

davenjess Posted: Aug 29, 2007 11:30 AM

Re: NWR: Fh and his attitude extremely LONG UPDATE:

Posted by Jesses Girl

Posted by Espo22

i will. im totally going to do that..im not going to call thru out the day

let him feel bad

yeah its better off...Fh freaked out on sat bc at 5pm we had to go upstate for his aunts birthday party but we had a bunch of errands to run first and he was annoyed bc he wouldnt get to relax this past weekend...well we go to the postoffice to pick up HIS package bc he is a shopaholic and we were there for an hour...then after he was like 'we wont have time to finish everything and was freaking out' even though i said YES we do...he kept getting an attitude telling me why couldnt i have bought the shower gift for HIS friends fiancee last week or sometime before that and just kept having a hissy fit...we stopped quickly at his house to eat something and he kept going nuts and getting an attitude. MEANWHILE he was looking at their registry online and said he likes going to buy things off registries...After him saying for the millionth time how he wish he was just able to relax and said OMG i will go alone seriously its not a big deal, nobody said you HAD to go, you're the one telling me you like to do this.

he felt bad so he was like no im coming, and i said PLEASE i WANT to go alone now...seriously im more mellow and all this freaking out about OMG we dont have time and going nuts had me so stressed...he goes to get in the car still and im like SERIOUSLY let me go alone...Thank god bc i needed time to myself at that moment lol.

He text me while i was gone to apologize and again when i came back...The problem was that he wanted to relax and all along didn't want to drive out to LI and felt bad to tell me or for me to go alone which made him more aggitated and took it out on me...I told him if he wouldve just said from the beginning 'do you mind going alone' there would've been no problem, bc he knows i never have a problem with things like that.

HE ALWAYS does that and i told him he needs to tell me once something bothers him, bc he is a person who worries too much and over analyzes and drives himself crazy and then drives me crazy.

WOW sorry that ended up being longer than expected, but point is guys use other things to get mad about rather than what is really bothering them

see this sound similar to what he would do..
man o man i would have done the same as you! like seriously let me go aloneeeeee instead of you freakin out!

but here is an update:

Fh just called to tell me he is sorry for that and he didnt mean it...and he wants me to have a good day and not have it start out that way...he said 'I feel bad about it and im sorry'

now i feel better!

Maybe he got some midol or chocolate? Men have their periods' too....they really do...

ETA - i hope you know i didn't mean that in a mean way....

Jesses Girl Posted: Aug 29, 2007 12:17 PM

Re: NWR: Fh and his attitude extremely LONG UPDATE:

Posted by davenjess

[
but here is an update:

Fh just called to tell me he is sorry for that and he didnt mean it...and he wants me to have a good day and not have it start out that way...he said 'I feel bad about it and im sorry'

now i feel better!

Maybe he got some midol or chocolate? Men have their periods' too....they really do...

ETA - i hope you know i didn't mean that in a mean way....

i would never take that in a mean way at all!