This is kinda long but I just need to vent. My FH was going somewhere with his friend who FYI I dont like. I was fine with it when he called me at 5:15 to tell me I was upset cause i had just finished cooking us dinner but I was like okay. Well it is now 10 and he isnt home and calls to say he wont be coming over cause hes in PA and hes 2 hours away and just left there now. *** is he doing in PA first of all and why is it when I aske him to go to the mall with me after work he is to tired but when hes friend asks him its fine and he drove and he always tells me hes to tired to do anything. I am so upset I dont know to be mad at him or worried that he will get home okay..... im here in tears and then he has his friend call me on speaker so i couldnt say anything i wanted to . . . although when he said he loves me i said thanks and then he was like why do i feel bad and i was like cause you should. . . hes said we see eachother everyday so whats the big deal about not seeing him for a day. . . i cant believe he said that i feel awful when i dont see him like a piece of me is missing. . . obviously he doesnt care. . . i mean when we are married he will see me everyday and now im wondering if that is gonna be to much for him ..... i dont know im so sad yet Im so mad that he can make me feel like this. . . . like i dont matter. . . . ladies what would you do....?
qtdimps23
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im sorry hon. let him have his day and dont call him. when he gets home have him over and talk to him face to face about what you just wrote. you needs to know exactly how you feel.
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Okay me and my FH have been together 8 years. For the last 5 he usually sleeps here and I have become so used to that , that I cant fall asleep without him laying next to me and he knows that. . . i went out with my cousin a few weeks ago and i was home by 8 and he was so mad that i went out. . . . . . . . that was my cousin and we went out to take care of the wedding invitations . . . . we werent in PA. . .that is what bothers me. . . . . I have no clue why he was there. . . .
qtdimps23
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this is the kinda thing u need to talk to him about. u needs to know how you feel.
LuckiestGirl
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yea i have told him and he sayd I dont understand . . . . . its like the other day we were out and he was walking next to me and i was telling him a story next thing i know im talking to no one cause he stopped to talk to someone he knew and when i said you could have told me you were going to stop and all he said was you have eyes you didnt see i was like um we were walking and i was in the missle of telling you a story and then he started to yell at me. . . he was never like this he was always so conciderate of me and my feelings untill the last couple of months i dont know if he is nervous or second thinking about us or i dunno......but this isnt the man who asked me to marry him and i hate it
