NWR: Girls, what do you think about this?Confused!!

shellnroc Posted: Nov 29, 2005 09:46 PM

NWR: Girls, what do you think about this?Confused!!

My FH's very good friend (who lives out of state) sent me an email this evening stating he wants to talk to me about FH. But he doesn't want me to tell Fh that he sent me this email and if we talk on the phone not to tell him.
Hmmmmm...is this strange to you????

Let me add that we have spoke on the phone on other occasions since I consider him a friend to me now as well. But alot of times he knocks FH to me.

I don't know what to do. He is also suppose to be FH's Best man.

Please, tell me what you girls think. I don't know who else to tell about this.

Thanks!

Michelle

jellybean1420 Posted: Nov 29, 2005 09:49 PM

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I would talk to him and see what he has to say. Maybe he wants to discuss his bachelor party or something wedding related with you. i wouldn't let him put FH down....but I definetely would see what he has to say.

CrescentBride606 Posted: Nov 29, 2005 09:49 PM

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I WOULD TELL MY FH...no secrets...no lies...we try at least!

SIBride06 Posted: Nov 29, 2005 09:50 PM

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That would KILL ME.. Just knowing that he has to talk to me about my FH - I would go bizzerk wondering what he has to tell me.

shellnroc Posted: Nov 29, 2005 09:51 PM

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Posted by jellybean1420

I would talk to him and see what he has to say. Maybe he wants to discuss his bachelor party or something wedding related with you. i wouldn't let him put FH down....but I definetely would see what he has to say.

No I don't think it's about a bachelor party. The way he made it sound in the email was he wasn't sure he was going to be his friend anymore.

missgwife Posted: Nov 29, 2005 09:54 PM

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Posted by jellybean1420

I would talk to him and see what he has to say. Maybe he wants to discuss his bachelor party or something wedding related with you. i wouldn't let him put FH down....but I definetely would see what he has to say.

I agree, see what he wants, if he starts to bad mouth FH, tell him to kiss your a.., if he was a true friend, he would have told you before you got engaged.

beautyq115 Posted: Nov 29, 2005 09:56 PM

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Posted by SIBride06

That would KILL ME.. Just knowing that he has to talk to me about my FH - I would go bizzerk wondering what he has to tell me.

I agree!

lacey&mark Posted: Nov 29, 2005 09:59 PM

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wierd situation. i would definitely talk to him and see what he has to say. you'll figure out what to do/tell fh when you know what this is about. goodluck ~ lacey

MrsH1156 Posted: Nov 29, 2005 10:18 PM

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It sounds very strange and it makes me question what kind of friend he is to your FH. I would talk to him because NOT would drive me crazy as well. There is no way I wouldn't tell my FH though. FM if you need to talk!