This past week I moved to Long Island and started a new job.....job is great, new place is ok...but almost every night i have been emotional at some point or another about the move and all the transitions and the stress. So tonight to top it all off FH went out to dinner with some friends for dinner and I had a lot to do at home so I couldn't go.
So FH left at like 6:30 acting like he really wanted me to come and all and seemed like he didn't even want to go because he wasn't in the mood. After they were going to eat I knew they would all end up back at someone's house to play Rock Band...which is fine who cares. But NOW over 6 hrs later i have NO CALL, NO TEXT nothing. This is my first week in this apartment and the 2nd time being alone here and i am so mad right now. Maybe i am overreacting. But what the heck is wrong with sending a text or something since you seemed like you really wanted me to come in the first place.
It's bad enough i have no one around because I just moved here from Westchester...so he has his friends and i get to sit with my computer. I am so depressed I was tempted to drive back home tonight.
Ohhh and he always pulls the 'fine see this is why i can never go out and i wont go out anymore because you always pull something' Am I wrong for wanting at least a text while im home alone all night??
lovebear7800
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i don't think your wrong. anytime my FH goes out he never text or calls me and i get so mad. thank god he doesn't go out too much.
Nechama1
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Boys are stupid. But you have to let them know what you want, they can't read your mind. And what seems obvious to us as to what is proper behaviour is not obvious to them.
You have to train them. (God, that sounds terrible. If a man said that I would prob beat him! You know what I mean!!)
For a relationship to work, you need to vocalize your needs. Let him know what you need, assure him that you DO trust him, you just want communication.
bluekat16
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You are going through a lot of life changing events in your life right now. I can totally relate, the only thing I haven't done yet is move out to LI. However I just awwitched jobs ad I'm selling my apt. so I can move to LI. Even with those two steps I've felt like crying and emotional about it.
I do think your FH shuold've communicated with you somehow, but boys when they are with their hobbies/games etc. they get so imersed and are stupid and forget. Not to excuse him because you should be his frst priority. My FH is addicted to WOW and it's just really irritating, he ahs gotten much better with it.
Just know that you're not alone. If you ever need to chat I'm just an FM away
Kerin2804
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I am so sorry you feel bad. You have to tell FH that you would like him to give you a call or a text or else he will not know....men are different in that respect.
LI is a great place to live once you get to know where you are. Perhaps a GPS like Magellan would help you. I have lived here my entire life and FH & I bought one together as a christmas gift.
By the way... I am getting married at WSCC too !! FH & I are going to Sandals, St. Lucia for our honeymoon.
