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NWR: My cat died today! ETA- Help!

Original post by shelly3950

she fell out the window 5 flights. I just got to work when FH called me adn didn't know what to do. I found a hospital near our house and I went there. At first it looked good, but then she took a turn for the worse. She was 6 years old. I am so sad. how do I deal with this and my wedding is so close? I loved her so much. I miss her.
Butterflybride Posted:

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Wow....that's really upsetting...I'm so sorry to hear that....
ckgmwedding Posted:

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I am so sorry- that is horrible
bogiedmb41 Posted:

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I'm so sorry for you, I know how it feels to lose a pet
heidla Posted:

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I am so sorry!!! I lost one of my cats a few months ago.
alexlynn7 Posted:

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so, so sorry...

honeybee Posted:

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i'm so sorry!!! i have 2 cats and i would be so devastated if that happened. still you have to get married.. despite it all, it'll still be one of the happiest days of your life. good luck!!
dukies1 Posted:

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My dog died on may 15. I had to put him down. He was my best friend for 12 yrs, I got him at 5 weeks. I know exactly how you feel. All I can say is... It still hurts and you are going through many different emotions. You will have good days and bad. Take care of yourself. Take time to cry. You need to mourn. I still cry every now and then, how could you not. This is supposed to be the happiest time of your life, I'm sorry your going through this now. For me- it did put a damper on things but, Thank God I have the planning and the happy times to get me through this. Try to enjoy and embrace this special time in your life, You gave your cat many happy times. It was just a terrible accident. Im so sorry.
zaley Posted:

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I am so sorry for you
KathleenG Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear this!!
DrmnBlnd Posted:

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I am SO sorry.....
mskimmy98 Posted:

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OH I am so sorry to hear this... I know how much you must of loved her and you gave her a good life while she was here and that is what matters.

molly25 Posted:

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That is so sad.. I'm sorry for your loss...

neesiepie Posted:

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OH NO! I am so sorry! I feel awful hearing that! Poor kitty.
I hope you are ok. Not much I can say....just sending you lots of
chris'bride Posted:

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I am sooooo sorry to hear that
palebride Posted:

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I am so sorry!
A few months ago, my little kitty got really sick and I was terrified I would lose him. I don't know what I would do if I had - I've had him for 14 years......I've known him longer than my husband!
I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better.....
maybride2004 Posted:

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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. :(

It will take some time to get over your cat.
But whatever you decide to do, just know that you will always keep a special place in your heart for him.

keep your head up, things will get better in time.
sharon188 Posted:

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Oh so sad!! I am so sorry for the loss of your kitty.


Nothing else I can say except I am so sorry......
shelly3950 Posted:

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THank you girls for all your words of support.

I am having so much trouble concentrating on the wedding. I am just so sad. We booked the honeymoon yesterday, but I am not nearly as excited as I was before. With my wedding only 5 weeks away, this is so hard on me.

In addition to the losses of my dad and my grandparents whom I all lost in the last 10 years, I am dealnig with this. I am just so sad. I am so excited to marry FH, but I just can't get my heart into the wedding that I always wanted. Almost everything else is done, but I just don't seem to be getting over this (I know, it hasn't even been a week yet).
I don't know what to do.

Has anyone else gone through something like this before thier wedding?
divabride Posted:

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Hon, your wedding will be wonderful. Dont worry about that, now. Just take your time with everything. Your still grieving which is totally understandable. If you need wedding help, we are here for you. Maybe you can ask your BM's to help you out a bit. I was thinking about you during the weekend. I hope your ok.
FLaCaTaCa Posted:

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I feel so bad for you!!!! It is ok to grieve! I can only imagine what you are going through!
Just cry it out and spill whatever you need to say on here. In a couple of weeks you get to wear a big dress and be a bride!!! Think happy thoughts! I am so sorry and I am here if you need to talk. You have FM!

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