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NWR: Sex! well maybe it is WR

Original post by emomma17

I am not sure about you guys but I am exhausted, almost every night there is somewhere to run to, phone calls to make, something to wrap, cut, glue and let's not forget all the household chores blah blah blah...FH is working OT almost every night, getting home late....I feel like the whole 'getting it on' situation has been put to the back burner. We are trying to make time for each other but really there isn't any! Friday night was supposed to be our date night we were shot, ordered food bc it was pouring and got into bed at 8:30 ... we both passed out! Is anyone else going through this, is it normal?!!!!!
RisiLeigh Posted:

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We definitely had this problem before the wedding b/c we didn't live together, and he works nights, so we only saw each other a couple of nights a week! That part hasn't changed with us getting married - I sleep with the dog 4 out of 7 nights a week LOL! It's hard to squeeze it in b/c of our totally opposite schedules! And today, he just left me for a week for training in Jamaica! When he gets back there will definitely be activity going on!
jillyb97 Posted:

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Posted by emomma17

Posted by jillyb97

What about in the morning...before work...that's always a change


LOL I wish he gets up at 4:30 am!!!!


ugh...that doesn't sound fun at all!!! save that for the weekends then!
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by wifetobe

Im not trying to be the 'all knowing' about this by far!!! But I actually get annoying doing it at the end of the night b/c of all your reasons.. too tired.. too much going on.

Just want to stress that it is 'doable' (PUN DEF INTENDED )

it's important to try and stay connected..

Seriously...in the shower. or when he gets home is the best time for me!!!!


i feel the same way, sometimes it does become too routine to just do it before bed, and always in your bed. Plus late at night you are tired, or if you eat a big meal you feel all nasty and bloated lol.
jennandrolo Posted:

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i totally feel ya! im knocked out by 1am leaving DH to play video games all night. our schedules are totally opposite right now so we never see each other. luckily in 2 weeks his schedule changes so we'll see each other all the time
emomma17 Posted:

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Posted by KK Holiday

Posted by emomma17

Posted by jillyb97

What about in the morning...before work...that's always a change


LOL I wish he gets up at 4:30 am!!!!


mine too!! please i'd sleep through the entire thing


I think if he tried to touch me at 4:30 I would be like the exorsist!
Sharron70 Posted:

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Posted by wifetobe

The trick is to do it the min you both get home from work!!! Before dinner is made.. before everything else that has to be done. You can make it a quicky.. doesn't need to be this hour long event!!!

I get home before FH so I surprise him by being in naughty outfit when he gets home.. we get to it..then we've got the rest of the night to do our things!!!!!

HTH!!

That's what me and FH do! The minute I walk in the door he grabs my hand and off we go. If we're too tired after that to eat dinner? Ah well, we could both use to lose a few lbs

But yes, it's VERY normal. And yeah, we 'miss each other' but when we do find time when we're not unconcious, it makes it so much better
GinaZ Posted:

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I think its normal. Its almost like time for it comes in waves. but its def important to really try to make time- but dont fret when it just doesnt happen for a little.

FutureMrs.T Posted:

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Sometimes it helps to send text messages to each other throughout the day hinting to getting some action at night...that way you are thinking about it all day, first thing on your mind when you get home and you are anticipating it.......it helps!

agraydc Posted:

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FH promised each other to always put our relationship 1st!!!! even in the bedroom!!!
and its worked for the last 5 years
we do change it up alot..... times and rooms and outfits
and definitely do the texting dirty talk...anticipation is half the foreplay
kslmbuggie Posted:

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morning sex does wonders 2 jumpstart your day. set your alarm 30 mins earlier & get yourself some action a few days a week.

Mici n KC Posted:

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It's definitely not just you.

Dana Z to Be Posted:

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Posted by emomma17

I am not sure about you guys but I am exhausted, almost every night there is somewhere to run to, phone calls to make, something to wrap, cut, glue and let's not forget all the household chores blah blah blah...FH is working OT almost every night, getting home late....I feel like the whole 'getting it on' situation has been put to the back burner. We are trying to make time for each other but really there isn't any! Friday night was supposed to be our date night we were shot, ordered food bc it was pouring and got into bed at 8:30 ... we both passed out! Is anyone else going through this, is it normal?!!!!!


So normal... It's been so long for us. My FH is a Lawyer and his hours are just CRAZY!!! For the past month he has not gotten home until 11:00-11:30 every night. I miss it and I miss him. Maybe I just might have try and stay awake and catch him on the way in...lol
wundmoretime Posted:

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Yes, FH crashed last night. Also, I had surgery at the end of July and FH would not touch me, he was afraid to hurt me (to much movement). Now it is pure exhaustion. It has been a quiet few weeks, probably close to 2 months.

wundmoretime Posted:

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Posted by emomma17

Posted by KK Holiday

Posted by emomma17

Posted by jillyb97

What about in the morning...before work...that's always a change


LOL I wish he gets up at 4:30 am!!!!


mine too!! please i'd sleep through the entire thing


I think if he tried to touch me at 4:30 I would be like the exorsist!


Sometimes in the middle of the night is the best. We snuggle and things heat up. It can be 2 am and we were asleep but it happens. You can sleep afterwards. It is not like you have to stay up. Think how much you would surprise him.
FutureMrsCarrieri Posted:

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I think if he tried to touch me at 4:30 I would be like the exorsist!




LOL
Wifeynella Posted:

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i can relate 1000%. We are both working our butts off and neither one of us have been up to par health-wise for a while either.

if FH doesn't fall asleep on the couch by 9:15pm, it must be a full moon. tonight he was in bed at 8pm.

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