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October Brides!
melhunny46
Posted: Aug 13, 2014 03:34 PM+

Posted: Aug 13, 2014 03:34 PM
October Brides!
I am so stressed!! I don't want to forget anything! AHHHHH
bridejackson22
Posted: Aug 26, 2014 11:44 AM+

Posted: Aug 26, 2014 11:44 AM
October Brides!
Has anybody else felt like they are in limbo? I can't print my day of stationary till I get the final headcount which we start stalking people in a week for that. But we need to know how many to print. Also to do escort cards and seating. So I feel like with the little time life I have spent the last 2 or 3 weeks in this limbo waiting period not able to move forward. I don't like it. Anyone else feel that way?
coffeeisgreen
Posted: Aug 26, 2014 12:00 PM+

Posted: Aug 26, 2014 12:00 PM
Re: October Brides!
Posted by bridejackson22
Has anybody else felt like they are in limbo? I can't print my day of stationary till I get the final headcount which we start stalking people in a week for that. But we need to know how many to print. Also to do escort cards and seating. So I feel like with the little time life I have spent the last 2 or 3 weeks in this limbo waiting period not able to move forward. I don't like it. Anyone else feel that way?
Yep!! 100%.
JaimeLin
Posted: Aug 26, 2014 12:17 PM+

Posted: Aug 26, 2014 12:17 PM
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Yes is terrible because I have a feeling the seating chart is going to be a nightmare so I wish I could start it now. I barely have any rsvps so I'm going to have top track everyone down and then try to tackle the seating chart. Oh and did I mention find one to be made.
ldequatro
Posted: Aug 26, 2014 01:06 PM+

Posted: Aug 26, 2014 01:06 PM
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Same here!! I'm so anxious!! There's a lot w can't do until we have the final head count, and my RSVP date is next Friday.. I still don't have a lot of answers!!
bridejackson22
Posted: Aug 26, 2014 03:45 PM+

Posted: Aug 26, 2014 03:45 PM
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I'm so glad I am not the only one who feels this way. I am getting super anxious cause we are getting close now and it's like a brick wall. I originally wanted to do a seating chart. I scrapped the idea after driving myself insane for 2 weeks trying to come up with a cute movie theme one that would be also functional being in alphabetical order. I eventually just said eff it I am doing the cards, cause I can print them at home and add my own custom spin to them (plus running out of time and patience at this point lol). Same I have my rsvp date next Saturday we have 90 confirmed but there is still 60 responses we are still waiting for I'm like really? There is a stamp on it, its labeled all you have to do is check yes or no. lol
Alimm729
Posted: Aug 26, 2014 04:12 PM+

Posted: Aug 26, 2014 04:12 PM
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Omg, everyone always said the RSVP is the worst part, but I was seriously not prepared for how sh*tty it was going to make me feel!! Like, why don't you want to come to my wedding?! Write your name on the damn card and stick it in the mailbox! It's not hard!!!!!
ldequatro
Posted: Aug 26, 2014 04:45 PM+

Posted: Aug 26, 2014 04:45 PM
October Brides!
I don't get it either.. I gave you the damn stamp!! JUST CHECK YES OR NO, AT THIS POINT I DO NOT CARE and send it!!!! grrrrrrrr.. It's like, you knew about this last year when I sent you the save the date.. if you haven't made up your mind by now please spare me LOL
jlr5585
Posted: Aug 26, 2014 06:13 PM+

Posted: Aug 26, 2014 06:13 PM
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Its just people's nature....its annoying, but people like to wait to the last minute or they forget. I know I'll be tracking people down after my RSVP date.
Futuremrskennedy
Posted: Aug 26, 2014 06:54 PM+

Posted: Aug 26, 2014 06:54 PM
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it's literally the most annoying thing and it stresses me out to the max. I wanted to send b list invites but its getting down to the wire where im like well I know this person said they were coming and I don't have a response card from them but i'll just check them as yes and then like trying to figure out who isn't coming so I can send b list invites. it's so lameee haha
ldequatro
Posted: Aug 26, 2014 09:13 PM+

Posted: Aug 26, 2014 09:13 PM
October Brides!
I checked my mailbox today.. ONE rsvp, and it's a NO from my boss, I'm kinda surprised and sad.. I wish they would put a reason why they aren't coming lol
bridejackson22
Posted: Aug 27, 2014 10:56 AM+

Posted: Aug 27, 2014 10:56 AM
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Ugh thank god we will all be past this rsvp bs soon. Then on to stalking said slackers. I just want to get on with this already lol. I know the people who haven't responded yet the majority are probably no's but just god send it back not that hard and seriously its stamp don't waste my 46cents please lol.
ldequatro
Posted: Aug 27, 2014 04:31 PM+

Posted: Aug 27, 2014 04:31 PM
October Brides!
Eeep!! Just finished finalizing our vows and sent them to the officiant.. it's getting real!!!
JaimeLin
Posted: Aug 28, 2014 12:29 PM+

Posted: Aug 28, 2014 12:29 PM
October Brides!
I'm worried all my rsvp slackers are no's and ill be way under my minimum and have no one come to my wedding =(
Alimm729
Posted: Aug 28, 2014 12:31 PM+

Posted: Aug 28, 2014 12:31 PM
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Aw. I'm sure that's not it. In the words of my little brother 'i'm sure people will come. they're just not used to mailing stuff or something' hahahaha!! he's so cute.
Belle21
Posted: Aug 28, 2014 01:21 PM+

Posted: Aug 28, 2014 01:21 PM
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I'm glad everyone seems to be a little anxious at this point!I don't even care if I'm under the minimum. I just want the responses back. I have lost all patience and I just want to be married already! I swore I would not become a bridezilla, but I am headed down a dark path and I'm a little afraid for anyone that gets in my way!
coffeeisgreen
Posted: Aug 28, 2014 08:59 PM+

Posted: Aug 28, 2014 08:59 PM
Re: October Brides!
Posted by Belle21
I'm glad everyone seems to be a little anxious at this point!
I don't even care if I'm under the minimum. I just want the responses back. I have lost all patience and I just want to be married already! I swore I would not become a bridezilla, but I am headed down a dark path and I'm a little afraid for anyone that gets in my way!
LOL!
coffeeisgreen
Posted: Aug 28, 2014 09:02 PM+

Posted: Aug 28, 2014 09:02 PM
Re: October Brides!
Posted by Alimm729
Aw. I'm sure that's not it. In the words of my little brother 'i'm sure people will come. they're just not used to mailing stuff or something' hahahaha!! he's so cute.
Aww he is adorable. He's right, lol.
bridejackson22
Posted: Aug 29, 2014 01:49 PM+

Posted: Aug 29, 2014 01:49 PM
Re: October Brides!
Posted by Belle21
I'm glad everyone seems to be a little anxious at this point!
I don't even care if I'm under the minimum. I just want the responses back. I have lost all patience and I just want to be married already! I swore I would not become a bridezilla, but I am headed down a dark path and I'm a little afraid for anyone that gets in my way!
Yess! This is me right now. I have lost all patience so there are no F's left to give lol. So I was short with my mom the other day cause I just had a really long stressful day at work went to her house to see if we got any rsvp's and the second I walk through the door in my face asking me questions telling me I need to make a decision I actually yelled at her and said I can't make any decisions right now cause I can't even think straight. I'm a women on edge I swear lol.
ldequatro
Posted: Aug 29, 2014 08:56 PM+

Posted: Aug 29, 2014 08:56 PM
October Brides!
I DID NOT GET ONE RSVP TODAY!! :( What the heck!!! I'm still missing 42 RSVP's and my cut off is the 5th..and YES some of them are family!! LOLWelcome New Vendors
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