Official 30+ Brides (previously 40+ thread)

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Posted by Future Mrs H

I was speaking to FH about card boxes yesterday. I told him that I really didnt want it. He likes the idea. So i am going to go by his opinion and get a card box. I was looking at some of them. I really didnt like those elaborate 3 tiered one but I came across this which I kinda liked. What do you guys think

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very pretty

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Posted by Ray8183

Was CP's a big deal for you. I'm not a flower person, so I was thinking of taking the ones RH was giving me free? I'm not giving them away so is that a bad idea?

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We are using the silk cp's from the RH. Rather spend that money on HM.

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Posted by Karsav7096

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Posted by Ray8183

Was CP's a big deal for you. I'm not a flower person, so I was thinking of taking the ones RH was giving me free? I'm not giving them away so is that a bad idea?

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We are using the silk cp's from the RH. Rather spend that money on HM.

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I can understand that. My problem with a lot of things other brides are spending on I can use the money for things e.g. mortage, a vacation for next year, making improvement on the house. That's just me. Both of our families only care about is food and music.

We got married a year ago. We were both 51 years old. (First wedding for both of us).

Random thoughts.....or possibly advice???

My MOH was my best friend from college. My DH's BM was his best friend from college. That was our BP.

I walked about 3/4 of the way down the aisle and my DH met me there. We walked to the altar together...hand in hand.

I didn't wear a veil. I had my hair half up and half down. I wore a comb with real flowers that coordinated with my bouquet. My MOH also wore a comb with real flowers that coordinated with our bouqeuets.

BM wore a vest that matched the MOH's dress.

We didn't do the garter thing.

For part of the reception, we had classical musicians. For the rest of the reception, we had a band. We didn't have rock and roll or high-volume music. Most of the guest were older than us and wouldn't have appreciated loud music.

My father passed away about 8 years ago, so obviously we didn't have the father/daughter dance. But, I thought that my DH should have the mother/son dance. He did.

We had under 100 guests...just those people that meant the most to us through the years.

Hope this helps the brides-to-be or at least gives you something to think about when making your decisions.

Also, we did not do the card cage or box. I bought a pretty bag (with drawstring) with a claddagh on it (which was also on our invitations).

We did not send out STD's. We relied on word-of-mouth.

We went to Jackson Hole WY for our honeymoon. We bought a photograph by a famous Jackson Hole photograper and that was our wedding gift to each other. It's a rememberance of our honeymoon and is hung in the hall right outside our bedroom.

Sorry if I'm babbling too much.....

Hi Ladies-
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!! I just checked in before deserts.I really dont want this thread to die. I am getting alot of useful info from all of you. It seems like we all pretty much want the same things and have the same ideas. Lets keep it going!!!!

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Posted by Future Mrs H

Hi Ladies-
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!! I just checked in before deserts.I really don't want this thread to die. I am getting a lot of useful info from all of you. It seems like we all pretty much want the same things and have the same ideas. Lets keep it going!!!!

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I know, I'm trying to keep it alive. What type of dress are we looking for? I not into spending thousands of dollars for the dress, I was thinking of wearing a cocktail evening dress (long) and for the reception a party dress I can dance in. Both dresses I will wear again. Any thoughts?

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Posted by Ray8183

No DeeDee1013 that's great. Us brides to be need all the help we can get. Ladies, what was your favorite part of the reception?

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That's a good (hard!) question...not sure, maybe the cake cutting?? I did a seashell theme and had 'Jaws' as our cake-cutting song lol :) I liked it because we got to taste the cake and it was soooo good, tasted just like the cake did at the tasting!!! I was so relieved it wasn't awful and dried out (I've had a lot of bad wedding cake in my life lol!).

Ladies, what kind of cake did you have/will you have?? :)

Ours was chocolate and vanilla alternating layers w/chocolate mousse and raspberry filling. Sorry to blab on and on about cake...I must be hungry

As for dresses I bought an A-line dress by Demetrios at Macy's Bridal Salon by Demetrios. A-line dresses are great-they are partially fitted on top so they are feminine and also hide your tummy lol!!!!!!! I went to a trunk show and saved 15%. I tried on about 15-16 dresses at different stores before I found it.

eta dress post and for spelling

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Posted by DeeDee1013

I walked about 3/4 of the way down the aisle and my DH met me there. We walked to the altar together...hand in hand.

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I LOVE this idea just made me tear up at the thought!!!!!

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by Future Mrs H

Hi Ladies-
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!! I just checked in before deserts.I really don't want this thread to die. I am getting a lot of useful info from all of you. It seems like we all pretty much want the same things and have the same ideas. Lets keep it going!!!!

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I know, I'm trying to keep it alive. What type of dress are we looking for? I not into spending thousands of dollars for the dress, I was thinking of wearing a cocktail evening dress (long) and for the reception a party dress I can dance in. Both dresses I will wear again. Any thoughts?

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Me too....trying to respond to all the new posts and keep it going
I love the idea of two different dresses...esp if you can wear them both again, that's a big plus !!

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Posted by Future Mrs H

I am looking for an A line dress under $600. My sil/moh and I went to look a few weeks back and I found 2 I liked. The pics are in my album. What do you all think?

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I like them both but I think I like the sesond one better...I love the detail on the side waist Which one RU leaning towards? Or will you keep looking?

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Posted by Ray8183

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Posted by Future Mrs H

Hi Ladies-
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!! I just checked in before deserts.I really don't want this thread to die. I am getting a lot of useful info from all of you. It seems like we all pretty much want the same things and have the same ideas. Lets keep it going!!!!

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I know, I'm trying to keep it alive. What type of dress are we looking for? I not into spending thousands of dollars for the dress, I was thinking of wearing a cocktail evening dress (long) and for the reception a party dress I can dance in. Both dresses I will wear again. Any thoughts?

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I say...go with whatever dress you want...whatever gives you that 'this is the dress' moment when you try it on.

I searched this website for plus-sized wedding dresses and found Alfred Angelo. I went to the Alfred Angelo website and searched. I found a dress that looked nice and was the style that I had in mind...not too much beading, lace sleeves, a short train, and a sweetheart neckline. According to the website, it was sold at a bridal shop in Lynbrook. I went to the store and they had the dress in my size. The woman took that dress and a few similar dresses into the dressing room. I tried on the Alfred Angelo dress first...and knew in an instant that it was 'my' dress....the dress that I was meant to buy. I walked out of the dressing room and went to where my Mom was sitting. I could see by the look on her face that she felt the same way.

I tried on the other dresses...but none of them compared to the first dress.

Go with your heart!!!!!