Official African American Brides Thread

Original post by PoeticJustice

Oct 05, 2006 05:28 PM

Okay ladies, I love all of the LIW Girls, but I thought it was time that we have a thread dedicated to African American Brides, so that we could discuss wedding and non-wedding related issues that are significant and or relate to women of color. So to start the thread off, could everyone introduce themselves? I am Landra...

gemini515 Posted: May 23, 2007 03:12 PM

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Posted by enjft

Posted by gemini515

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Posted by gemini515

Is anybody doing crypacks?

Nope. This is one thing I saw no use for as well as pretensious (sp?) no offense to anyone doing it.

Hey Chica! Yeah I speak to her on myspace. She claims she coming up for the wedding. Got to see this one!

I went to a tasting at CB last week. Everything was so tasteful!

Hey Hall Twin,
Long Time no see
Girl, I am not offended at all. I loved the idea and thought is was cute. Have you spoken to Simone lately.

She told me the same. I cant wait to really get deep into the wedding planning. Next month I have appt w/ CB vendors (photographers, limo, and florist} Can you recommend anyone

enjft Posted: May 23, 2007 03:20 PM

Re: Official African American Brides Thread

Posted by gemini515

Posted by enjft

Posted by gemini515

Posted by enjft

Posted by gemini515

Is anybody doing crypacks?

Nope. This is one thing I saw no use for as well as pretensious (sp?) no offense to anyone doing it.

Hey Chica! Yeah I speak to her on myspace. She claims she coming up for the wedding. Got to see this one!

I went to a tasting at CB last week. Everything was so tasteful!

Hey Hall Twin,
Long Time no see
Girl, I am not offended at all. I loved the idea and thought is was cute. Have you spoken to Simone lately.

She told me the same. I cant wait to really get deep into the wedding planning. Next month I have appt w/ CB vendors (photographers, limo, and florist} Can you recommend anyone

I swear by Duet. Their pics are out of control as well as u get alot for the price. I have personally seen them work 2 weddings and I was not disappointed. I have a personal love for Flower Michele as well. He works with all budgets. I have tons of pics in my album.

I was booked with Royalty and only went with someone different cause I wanted newer cars.

enjft Posted: May 23, 2007 03:21 PM

Re: Official African American Brides Thread

Posted by gemini515

Posted by enjft

Posted by gemini515

Posted by enjft

Posted by gemini515

Is anybody doing crypacks?

Nope. This is one thing I saw no use for as well as pretensious (sp?) no offense to anyone doing it.

Hey Chica! Yeah I speak to her on myspace. She claims she coming up for the wedding. Got to see this one!

I went to a tasting at CB last week. Everything was so tasteful!

Hey Hall Twin,
Long Time no see
Girl, I am not offended at all. I loved the idea and thought is was cute. Have you spoken to Simone lately.

She told me the same. I cant wait to really get deep into the wedding planning. Next month I have appt w/ CB vendors (photographers, limo, and florist} Can you recommend anyone

O BTW most CB vendors are priced through the roof. FYI

Mrs.D08 Posted: May 23, 2007 05:48 PM

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I am not doing:
No e-party
No rehearsal dinner
No sand ceremony
No hand ceremony (I don't even know what this is)
No cry packs (I've never been to a wedding where the guests was hysterically crying no offense to anyone)
No dollar dance
No petal cones
No ribbon wands
No 'other' picture location
No ribbon wand
No OOT packs
No wish bowl
No extras from DJ
No vienesse table
No chocolate fountain
No bathroom baskets
No specialty drinks
No table cameras
No alcohol
No jumping the broom
No dyeable shoes for anybody
No cake smashing
No chicken dance
No anniversary dance
No photo booths
No receiving line
I don't want nothing thrown at us

Shell84 Posted: May 23, 2007 09:36 PM

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Posted by Mrs.D08

I am not doing:

No alcohol

Wow, no alcohol?

MrsJones2B Posted: May 23, 2007 10:16 PM

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why so many 'not doings' ?
any reason ?

missgwife Posted: May 23, 2007 10:50 PM

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Posted by MrsJones2B

why so many 'not doings' ?
any reason ?

I was wondering the same thing

Mrs.D08 Posted: May 23, 2007 11:11 PM

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It wasn't necessary for me.

Mrs.D08 Posted: May 23, 2007 11:12 PM

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Posted by Shell84

Posted by Mrs.D08

I am not doing:

No alcohol

Wow, no alcohol?

FH and I don't drink. It is a christian wedding and the majority of my guest don't drink.

MrsJones2B Posted: May 23, 2007 11:31 PM

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That's true

none of that stuff is really necessary.

I just find them all fun to do. Plus I want amuse my guest.

But you are SO right

Mrs.D08 Posted: May 23, 2007 11:35 PM

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I'm doing alot of things that I'm sure my guest have never seen.
I'm doing:
photocube
WE DO letters
votives
groom cake
basketball team garter
cookie favors
etc

charisma Posted: May 23, 2007 11:46 PM

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i'm doing crypacks..so easy i ordered vellum envelopes,printed monogram on front added some ribbon...bought travel tissue from $1 store (about 10pks in a pack) and put 2 pcs in each envelope..thats it, one of the easiest DIY projects anybody can make....and no way am i offended by the people who don't think them necessary, i don't either, i just think they are cute
here they go

Mrs.D08 Posted: May 23, 2007 11:53 PM

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It looks great and sounds so easy.

charisma Posted: May 23, 2007 11:57 PM

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trust me it is

Mrs.D08 Posted: May 24, 2007 12:01 AM

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I noticed where yor having ur reception. I've been to weddings there and it was great. The food and service was good and the place is gorgeous. I was in the bridal party and the bridal suite is awesome. It's so big and as soon as the guest walked in the door they were served with drinks. You'll enjoy your day.

gemini515 Posted: May 24, 2007 09:39 AM

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Posted by charisma

wow you make it sound so easy. Thank you so much. I am going to attempt to make these crypacks. Your crypacks looks wonderful. Thank you again

charisma Posted: May 24, 2007 09:52 AM

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Posted by Mrs.D08

I noticed where yor having ur reception. I've been to weddings there and it was great. The food and service was good and the place is gorgeous. I was in the bridal party and the bridal suite is awesome. It's so big and as soon as the guest walked in the door they were served with drinks. You'll enjoy your day.

thank you for confirmation...i am with my hall, and everytime i hear something about them its always A++++++++

monelwookie Posted: May 24, 2007 02:17 PM

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Posted by monelwookie

I am actually going to sit down and do a TO DO list now, before i go crazy

so here is a copy of my to do list so far:

WEDDING CHECK LIST

Church/Ceremony

Finalize ceremony details with Father Pitor
Make programs
Buy aisle runner, and tulle to decorate church
Buy more rose petals for decorating
Buy/make pew bows

Reception

Make menu
Order place cards and table numbers
Buy/make OOT bags, and items to put in bags
Make candy bar bags
Buy candy for candy bar, and Lindt chocolate for favors
Print (at work or Kinko’s) wedding activity book for kids (about 20)
Finalize menu with sterling
Order taper candles for guest tables
Make/buy card box for money
Finish up final guest list (based on R.S.V.P)

Other

Mail out hotel information and directions to OTT guests
Go makeup shopping with Jamela
Have a makeup trial with Jamela
Buy weave for hair extensions
Buy Crest white strips for teeth
Get my “something old” and “something borrowed”
Finish up gifts for BM, GM, FG, and Mariusz’ parents
Buy bra for to wear under wedding gown

monelwookie Posted: May 24, 2007 02:35 PM

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Posted by gemini515

Posted by charisma

wow you make it sound so easy. Thank you so much. I am going to attempt to make these crypacks. Your crypacks looks wonderful. Thank you again

WOW great job, you gotta let me know how you made this cry back.

Shell84 Posted: May 24, 2007 08:13 PM

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Posted by Mrs.D08

Posted by Shell84

Posted by Mrs.D08

I am not doing:

No alcohol

Wow, no alcohol?

FH and I don't drink. It is a christian wedding and the majority of my guest don't drink.

ok, makes sense. Are you having a cash bar for the guests that do drink or completely no alcohol. Are you doing champagne or you're toating with something else.
most of my friends don't drink, but i'm still having alcohol.