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Official African American Brides Thread
Tetelove
Posted: Oct 04, 2009 06:27 PM+

Posted: Oct 04, 2009 06:27 PM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
Posted by CandP2011
Ladies , I need a christian church near Westbury Manor. please help!
I'm having a church issue also. I really want to get married in the church that my parents got married in but FH is really not feeling the idea. You see he has a serious issue with the 'decor' of the church. You see, as you walk into my church one of the first things that you see is the walls are covered in wheel chairs, walkers, canes and thousands of other items on the walls of the church.(I know what your thinking.lol) My church does this to symbolize the miracles/healings that have taken place there. Now i have grown up in the church and Im very used to the decor of the church but FH is like 'NO'!!! FH is really not feeling it. FH is Catholic and Im Christian so its really hard for him to understand this whole idea. Now our differences in religion has never been a BIG issue before and we actually make fun over it.
I really want to get married in my church and the more i think about it, it seems like a must. FH thinks it would be easier on guests to have it at one place and because he doesn't like the whole idea of canes on walls(which I totally get.) but I'm very frustrated.
What do you ladies think? Are there any other similar issues?Below are pictures of my church. As well as how the side walls sort of look. Other than the 'stuff on the walls' of the church, it is a BEAUTIFUL church. Thanks ladies,
Tiffany
CandP2011
Posted: Oct 05, 2009 12:16 AM+

Posted: Oct 05, 2009 12:16 AM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
ooo boy... we have time but not really.. church do take offense when looking for reception halls before church.. :(
Tetelove
Posted: Oct 05, 2009 05:15 PM+

Posted: Oct 05, 2009 05:15 PM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
Posted by CandP2011
ooo boy... we have time but not really.. church do take offense when looking for reception halls before church.. :(
They really do. My uncle is a pastor and he feels that couples should do marriage counseling ensuring that they will be able to marry in that church.
Tetelove
Posted: Oct 08, 2009 08:23 PM+

Posted: Oct 08, 2009 08:23 PM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
I was wondering what song my fellow AA brides will be using for their first dance?FH and I were thinking about 'At last' by Etta James
Ray8183
Posted: Oct 08, 2009 08:36 PM+

Posted: Oct 08, 2009 08:36 PM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
Hi everyone.
First dance: Best Thing That Ever Happened To Me by Gladys Knight
Tetelove
Posted: Oct 08, 2009 08:38 PM+

Posted: Oct 08, 2009 08:38 PM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
Posted by Ray8183
Hi everyone.![]()
First dance: Best Thing That Ever Happened To Me by Gladys Knight
That was my late Aunt's favorite song!!
Ray8183
Posted: Oct 08, 2009 08:49 PM+

Posted: Oct 08, 2009 08:49 PM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
I think the words are fitting for us.
Posted by Tetelove
Posted by Ray8183
Hi everyone.![]()
First dance: Best Thing That Ever Happened To Me by Gladys Knight
That was my late Aunt's favorite song!!![]()
Edit for spelling.
jayepyt
Posted: Oct 08, 2009 09:47 PM+

Posted: Oct 08, 2009 09:47 PM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
i think its gonna be spend my life with you eric benet and tamia
MrsK2b
Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:18 PM+

Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:18 PM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
I'm thinking about Halo by Beyonce if not For you by Kenny Latimore
futuremrsjc2010
Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:19 PM+

Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:19 PM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
TeteloveI was wondering what song my fellow AA brides will be using for their first dance?
FH and I were thinking about 'At last' by Etta James
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Awww we were thinking about that song too :)
MrsDR2010
Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:48 PM+

Posted: Oct 08, 2009 10:48 PM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
Posted by Tetelove
Posted by jayepytive heard great and bad reviews about her she is a lil on the expensive side
Posted by Tetelove
What do you ladies think of M*I*A. I heard that she does great work......
I wonder if anyone has recent quotes from her?
Her prices depends on how many people are using her services. My sister had a really large BP and she paid I think 150 or 170 I don't remember but not more than that. She did an AMAZING job with all the girls and my sister. I have a few pics in my album.
Golden
Posted: Oct 09, 2009 09:42 AM+

Posted: Oct 09, 2009 09:42 AM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
Hey Ladies!!!I'm sooo loving this thread!
FH and I have chosen two songs:
1. Golden by Chrisette Michele (last song)
2. Close To You by Cece and Bebe Winans (first song)
MBerkGlenn- I love your make up trial. Very nice. I wanted to do airbrush too, how much did she charge you, you can FM me if you'd like...
...Ooo, can't wait to bounce ideas off this thread. Also check out this site for black weddngs
Golden
Posted: Oct 09, 2009 09:48 AM+

Posted: Oct 09, 2009 09:48 AM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
Found this list...hope it helps if anyone is undecided:Bride & Groom First Dance or Ceremony Music
'Giving Self Over To You' - Jennifer Hudson view video
'You Complete Me' - Keshia Coles view video
'So Beautiful' - Musiq Soulchild view video
'For You I Will' - Monica - view video
'Everytime I Close My Eyes' by Baby Face - view video
'I Do Wedding Song' by Boyz II Men - view video
'I was made to love her' by Steve Wonder - view video
'Spend My Life With You' by Eric Benet - view video
'Nothing has even felt like this' by Will Downing & Rachel Ferrell
'For You' by Kenny Lattimore - view video
'Never' by Jaheim - view video
'I'm in Love' by Kem
'Forever You and Me' by Gerald Levert
'For Always' by Tyrese view video
'All You've Given' by Carl Thomas
'Wild Horses' by Alicia Keys and Adam Levine - view video
'No One' by Alicia Keys - view video
'If This World Were Mine' by Luther Vandross & Sheryl Lynn - view video
'Down on Bend and Knee' by Boyz II Men
'All My Tomorrows' by Kenny Latimore
'Is This The Way Love Feels' by Chrisette Michele -view video
'Happily Ever After' by Case - view video
'My Love, Sweet Love' by Patti LaBelle (Waiting to Exhale Sound Track)
““Tonight, I Celebrate My Love” – Peabo Bryson & Roberta Flack
'When We Get Married” by Larry Graham
'When I First Saw You” by Jamie Foxx & Beyonce (Dream Girls Sound Track) - view video
“You” by Jesse Powell - view video
'Endless Love' by Lionel Richie & Diana Ross - view video
'Inseparable' by Natalie Cole - view video
'At Last' by Etta James
'Endless Love' by Luther Vandross & Mariah Carey - view video
'I Do' by Kenny Latimore and Chante Moore
'All the Man I Need' by Whitney Houston - view video
'Adore U' by Prince
'Cherish the Day' by Sade - view video
'Here and Now' by Luther Vandross - view video
'Forever Mine' by O'Jays
'Love' by Musiq - view video
'From Now On' by Regina Belle and Glenn Jones
'For You' by Kenny Latimore
'Latest and Greatest Inspiration' by Teddy Pendagrass
'You & I' by Stevie Wonder - view video
'I Believe In Me & You” by Whitney Houston - view video
'Three Times A Lady' by Lionel Richie - view video
'The Lady In My Life' by Michael Jackson - view video
'Flying Without Wings' by Ruben Studdard - view video
'You Don't Have To Cry' by Kenny Lattimore & Shante Moore - view video
'When I said I Do' by Kenny Latimore & Shante Moore
'With You I'm Born Again' by Kenny Lattimore & Shante Moore - view video
'God Must Love You' by Baby Face - view video
'All My Life' by K.C. & JoJo - view video
'One In A Million' by Larry Graham - view video
'Amazing' by Luther Vandross
'You Bring Me Joy' by Anita Baker - view video
Gospel
'Because of You' - Commissioned
'One Love' - Commissioned
'Since I found You' by Vicki Winans
'With You' - Donnie McClurkin
'The Wedding Song” - John P. Kee
'The One He Kept For Me' - Maurette Brown Clarke
'You're the One' - Hill Hallerin/Lisa Shipman
'With This Ring' - Duawne Starling
'Rainbow Maker' - Joel Kibble/Karima Kibble
'You And I' - Donald Hayes
'God's Greatest Gift' - Kelli Williams/Chris Willis
'When Boy Meets Girl' - Tiffany Palmer
'All That's Left To Say' - Marvin Sapp
'I Believe In Love' - Maurette Brown-Clark
'With This Ring' - Duawne Starling
'I Do' - Nu Wave
'Count It All Joy' - BeBe & CeCe Winans
'Love Of My Life' - BeBe & CeCe Winans
'Don't Let Me Walk This Life Alone' - BeBe & CeCe Winans
'Lord, I Lift Her Up' - Jesse Campbell (Sacred Love CD)
'You Are My Ministry' - Shirley Murdock
Golden
Posted: Oct 09, 2009 11:00 AM+

Posted: Oct 09, 2009 11:00 AM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
Posted by M_Berk-Glenn
Posted by Tetelove
Posted by GradeA
I was just thinking of using my own beautician and calling MAC and seeing if they can come to my hotel the morning of
I was thnking about doing that also. I didnt know that MAC could come to your home though. If they can, that would be great. I'm really interested in airbrush makeup. I wonder if they do it there at MAC.
I dont think MAC uses airbrush
I have pics in my album of my make up trial with airbrush....the woman is a bit expensive but you get what you pay for.
I didnt wash my face for 3day and it remained flawless (I also wore it to a funeral and cried my eyes out...it did not run!!!!)
It was done by Lilly from Bridalgal
bridalgal.com she is in the city but she will travel to you
I saw the fees on her site. Pricey but it looks great!!!
Danielle41209
Posted: Oct 09, 2009 06:28 PM+

Posted: Oct 09, 2009 06:28 PM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
This is a great list!I was thinking of using Jennifer Hudson's song for our 1st dance.
Anything you'd recommend for walking into the church and leaving the church?
Tetelove
Posted: Oct 09, 2009 08:49 PM+

Posted: Oct 09, 2009 08:49 PM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
Posted by Danielle41209
This is a great list!
I was thinking of using Jennifer Hudson's song for our 1st dance.
Anything you'd recommend for walking into the church and leaving the church?
'Forever' by R-Kelly
Ray8183
Posted: Oct 11, 2009 01:57 PM+

Posted: Oct 11, 2009 01:57 PM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
How many of us are getting married at the RH? The reason I am asking is because I have too many in my family who are different religions and My family is all about the drama so I am getting married at the RH just so I don't have to listen and have the service I want.
jayepyt
Posted: Oct 11, 2009 02:34 PM+

Posted: Oct 11, 2009 02:34 PM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
iam much less stress and iam saying money no limos
Posted by Ray8183
How many of us are getting married at the RH? The reason I am asking is because I have too many in my family who are different religions and My family is all about the drama so I am getting married at the RH just so I don't have to listen and have the service I want.
Ray8183
Posted: Oct 11, 2009 03:01 PM+

Posted: Oct 11, 2009 03:01 PM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
I agree, plus it's all in one location.
Posted by jayepytiam much less stress and iam saying money no limos
Posted by Ray8183
How many of us are getting married at the RH? The reason I am asking is because I have too many in my family who are different religions and My family is all about the drama so I am getting married at the RH just so I don't have to listen and have the service I want.
jayepyt
Posted: Oct 11, 2009 03:05 PM+

Posted: Oct 11, 2009 03:05 PM
Re: Official African American Brides Thread
yea so much better for me
Posted by Ray8183I agree, plus it's all in one location.
Posted by jayepytiam much less stress and iam saying money no limos
Posted by Ray8183
How many of us are getting married at the RH? The reason I am asking is because I have too many in my family who are different religions and My family is all about the drama so I am getting married at the RH just so I don't have to listen and have the service I want.
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