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ok how do I approach this?? update here!!

NinaChris07 Posted:

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Did she even sound remorseful?

chrissyandvin Posted:

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no she wasn't but my other friend was very remorseful!! made me feel better!

Blu-ize Posted:

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There's no upside for people to do that on purpose. It costs them money too. Maybe they don't have their act together or they are somewhat selfish, but this has happened before and it will happen again. Checks will bounce.

You may want to have a conversation with your friends. Leave FH out of it. He is no being helpful by putting pressure on you. Does he really think you're going to tell them off?

This is not about the money...get to the heart of the matter and you will be able to see things more clearly.
enjft Posted:

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Chrissy, i would not have these girls in my BP. Not only did they bounce a check but they are costing you money on top of ur wedding bills. I have two friends that I have known for 15 years that i had to give the boot to recently. Unfortunately when weddings come around so do their true colors...

mskittynj Posted:

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Well if these 2 girls have been your good friends you should have no problems just letting them know what happened. I would also let them know about the fee. Maybe it's just me but if someone is my friend I just tell them striaght out. Good Luck!!!
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