OK-Weddings off! Anyone looking to have a party June 1st NRC will be open

Original post by LuckyMe

Feb 22, 2008 07:07 PM

Well I did what I could with no help from DH at all. So without going crazy. I have called everyone in the BP already and told them and offered to pay for their gowns. I let my family know. I have also left a message at the NRC and DJ as well as called the limo company who may let my daughter use the contract for a car for her prom.
Does anyone know if the NRC will sue me for the balance being that my wedding was in 3months? Im sooooo humiliated, embarassed and just crushed for more reasons then the finances. I had alot more written but deceided to erase it only because without knowing me personally I dont think you'd understand where Im coming from and I would only seem mean and bitter. I can say that this has opened my eyes to alot of things and right now I have no intention on moving the date for the fifth time. Im done and just need to recoupe. I have 5 gowns I have to pay for and my wedding gown which Im sure should be in soon for what should've been my first fitting.
Thank You all for your advice, help and just lending an ear through my 4yrs. of membership on LIW and I wish you all the best and happiness with your weddings and futures.

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medic6809 Posted: Feb 25, 2008 11:46 AM

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LuckyMe Posted: Feb 25, 2008 12:37 PM

Re: OK-Weddings off! Anyone looking to have a party June 1st NRC will be open

Getting my revenge this morning Im making him do everything I usually do and he has to finish it all by 3pm when the 5yr old has to get off the bus. Good luck being me buddy

SylvieB Posted: Mar 03, 2008 04:42 PM

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I'm just adding my 2 cents here, but first I want to say I'm really sorry your going through this. I've been there, done that w/ my ex. He was not abusive but he was sooo irresponsible and I couldn't see myself having a good life w/ this man the way he was.

I was like you, going to school, we had 2 children, and I worked and maintained the home. The day I found the courage to leave was the absolute best thing I ever did. I'm not saying that's what's right for you but you really need to think about the quality of life your going to have. Me, personally, I couldn't do it.

I look at how hard my husband works and I thank God everyday that I made that move.

Good Luck to you!!!

LuckyMe Posted: Mar 03, 2008 10:19 PM

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Posted by SylvieB

I'm just adding my 2 cents here, but first I want to say I'm really sorry your going through this. I've been there, done that w/ my ex. He was not abusive but he was sooo irresponsible and I couldn't see myself having a good life w/ this man the way he was.

I was like you, going to school, we had 2 children, and I worked and maintained the home. The day I found the courage to leave was the absolute best thing I ever did. I'm not saying that's what's right for you but you really need to think about the quality of life your going to have. Me, personally, I couldn't do it.

I look at how hard my husband works and I thank God everyday that I made that move.

Good Luck to you!!!

Thanks so much! Im glad it all worked in your favor. I dont think that's for me but I def. have felt that way. Please always feel free to add your 2 cents because good or bad if I didnt want advice I wouldnt have asked or vented on here Thanks again.