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OMG I CAN NOT BELIEVE I AM POSTING THIS! MY WEDDING REVIEW AND PICS!!! UM, 23 pages long!

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LIW. I have a love/hate relationship with LIW. There are times I used to get so frustrated I wouldn’t post for a while, I couldn’t stand the drama. Then one time a psycho bride posted about me, a whole thread dedicated to just me and my florist and I got so many FMs, and made so many friends because of that, I was addicted ever since. To that psycho bride, I have to give my sincerest thanks. I made friends with Eroxgirl because of it, who just went to my wedding and a quite few others like Jenndale ;). Point being, sometimes there will be a few people you roll your eyes at, or maybe even make fun of, (myself included, I’m sure) and yes I did turn into one of those girls who makes friends on this website and they go to each others weddings, but there are truly amazing people on here. If I could, I would have invited a lot more. Anyone who doesn’t use the website to its complete capacity is truly missing out. I can only hope I can begin to help each and every bride as they have helped me.


The days leading up to my wedding, actually the weekend, I would never take back or re-do. When I get nervous, my stomach will hurt, but this was like I had food poisoning. Every time I tried to bite into something or drink anything, my stomach would surge and I would secretly spit it out. It was horrible. I tried to explain it to my husband, but he of course took it personally thinking it had to do with getting married, but really I have no idea why I was so anxious, nervous, whatever it was. I wasn’t scared of rain, it was gorgeous out, I had faith in all my vendors, and I wasn’t really having wedding nightmares, I don’t know what it was. The only thing I was thinking is that there would be a terrorist attack or a car accident that was the only nervous dreams I had. I think because when a wedding has problems it always makes top news, and I didn’t want to be one of those articles. I could picture it all in my head, the NY Times wedding announcement, pics of us at our rehearsal, our engagement photos, and then something tragic. I guess it just comes along with being a bride, but I wouldn’t want to experience that ever again.


East End Cigar- 246 Larkfield Road East Northport, NY 11731 631-754-6639. Groomsmen and Reader gifts- Turns out the owner works at my husband’s precinct. These were our Groomsmen gifts and they were SUCH a hit! Everyone loved the hand rolled cigars and thought it was such a great idea. I’m not about knickknacks especially now that we live in our little apartment so we wanted to give out something good, manly, but useful. My husband of course didn’t’ give the owner any direction so he took it all upon himself to create these little gift boxes, complete with cutter. Not only did he create the gift boxes, but he made us little bands! Absolutely wonderful on every end. Price, service and thoughtfulness. He even has a handroller, but we didn't have time in the reception to add one. He had the best prices I could find for everything on Long Island.




American Girl Place- $90.00+- This store is the most chaotic place I have ever been. Not in a bad way, just a million little girls screaming they wanted every doll in the store. It’s their only flagship store, on 5th Ave, except for one in Chicago. I took the little doll dress I had bought at Stratsburg and put it on the Kit doll. It fit perfectly and looked awesome! So many guests commented on ‘the custom dress’ and the Kit doll and how cute they were together.
franksbride Posted:

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Holy wedding!!!! You were a GORGEOUS bride and those proofs you've shown us are by far, some of the best I've ever seen.

Congratulations!!! You truly were a princess bride!!!
bethsiar Posted:

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Still getting some more...
cluelessbride Posted:

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Beth have you thought about being model? You are so gawjus!

WeezieNY Posted:

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AWESOME AWESOME
YOU ARE GORGEOUS
KEEP THE PICS COMING.

I LOVE YOUR VEIL.
I WISH I NEW ABOUT THAT I WOULD HAVE GONE WITH THE KIND OF VEIL. VERY IMPRESSIVE, AND MY MOM IS A SEAMSTRESS AND DIDNT MENTION TO ME I HAVE TO CALL HER.
bethsiar Posted:

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Thanks Weezie!

DH complained I didnt post any of him LOL.









bethsiar Posted:

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This is in the bridal suite:


Evan making a funny face:




bethsiar Posted:

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Just want to repeat! I LOVE my bo-k!!!!

lullabella Posted:

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GORGEOUS!~!~! I have so many favorites, I can't chose. Buddy is so adorable in his TUX!!!!

bethsiar Posted:

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FOund another one:






So cute!
wowlifeisgood Posted:

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OMG, your pictures are amazing. I will echo what everyone else has --one word---breathtaking...

I am so happy to see your pictures. I am doing a heart boquet too. I met with my florist months and months ago. I have never seen anyone do it before and I am so excited to show him your pictures. The bO-K IS STUNNING. Do you have any close up pics of it.

Congrats again.
Shea Posted:

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did u do rose petal cones?

bethsiar Posted:

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Hi Shea! Did you see my answer to your corset post?

Yup we used rose petal cones, my MIL made them. Im pretty sure that she just took paper and rolled it, then glued the edges and tied ribbon around it-but I will ask and find out for you!
futuremrspfm Posted:

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I have to say again how amazing your pictures are!

Shea Posted:

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thanks so much beth! and yes, i did get the corset post....i am going to go to marys and if i dont find anything, i am going to order the one u did...i just like trying them on to see if i get the 'LIFT' i need!!!

~Jess
bethsiar Posted:

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Thanks futuremrspfm!!!!
Jess- that sounds like a great plan. The only thing with Mary's is that their corsets aren't real steel boned so I dont know how sucessful they would be in lifting, I would love to find out so let me know what happens!














Shea Posted:

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ok beth - i know you are going to think i am a nutcase but you said you put cups in your dress too?!
so you wore a corset and then over the corset were cups in the dress??


did the corset 'lift' you? like did you have clevage? all the ones i have tried on have yet to give me cleavage!!
bethsiar Posted:

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yeah thats exactly what they did. I had the corset on, and then the cups were sewn into the dress.
It definitly lifted me up and gave me just enough where it was femine w. out looking trashy. Have you gone for your first fitting yet? Maybe you could ask the seamstress.

Here are some more corset pics, never mind how nervous I look:







Shea Posted:

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no, my dress is in and i haven't gone for a fitting because i need a stinkin' corset!! i remember when i bought the dress that they said they would put cups in but i know that's not going to give me any lift like a corset

Shea Posted:

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so what do you think??
think i should just buy it!



also beth, let me know about the bells!!!

ooh, also beth, did you have a wedding card holder?
bethsiar Posted:

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shea, seriously when I held the victorias secret corset compared to the meschantes there was a HUGE difference. I guess the boning in the VS one is aluminum and not steel, I dont know, but it was much lighter. Of course its also much more expensive to get the real deal than the VS one.

One of my BMs had her very talented Mom make me a card box holder that matched my dress- it is stunning. I Love it. YOu defintly need to have one so people can just put the card in if you don't get to go see them.


I'll tell you how many bells I have after my sister counts them for me (they are at my parents house) Here is the website:
Ring for a kiss bells



Here is another getting ready shot:

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