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cets1290 Posted: Jan 16, 2014 08:35 PM+

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Posted: Jan 16, 2014 08:35 PM

omg my FH's bachelor party...

invite list is 28 people!!!!!! I'm starting to get a little nervous now because there are alot of guys he wants invited that aren't exactly the best influences... My FH made it very clear that he doesn't want anyone 'hired' if you know what I mean, but I have a feeling that his wishes are going to be ignored now because a few of these guys are like notorious for partying and some of the stories i've heard just totally gross me out....

I still can't believe how many people he's inviting though lol...I just hope he comes back alive

ReadyToBeAMrs Posted: Jan 16, 2014 09:13 PM+

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MissToMrs Posted: Jan 16, 2014 09:20 PM+

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Lol i told fh he can do what he wants. I don't mind I trust him and it's his night. He's been to bachelor parties before and everyone's wife/fiance/girlfriend flipped they went to a strip club. Honestly I don't get why everyone gets all worked up. If you trust your man completely it's just stupid fun for them!

cets1290 Posted: Jan 16, 2014 09:20 PM+

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hahah thankfully my FH really stressed to his best friend that he really didn't want that. he said he wants to get drunk and play poker lol- His best man is such a nice guy and would totally not book anything because I don't think he would want it either, but a few of his other friends would totally do it without anyone else knowing about it. Oh well, all i can do is hope for the best. I just don't want to know what happens that weekend, i'd rather he just keep it to himself lol

cets1290 Posted: Jan 16, 2014 09:22 PM+

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Re: omg my FH's bachelor party...

Posted by MissToMrs

Lol i told fh he can do what he wants. I don't mind I trust him and it's his night. He's been to bachelor parties before and everyone's wife/fiance/girlfriend flipped they went to a strip club. Honestly I don't get why everyone gets all worked up. If you trust your man completely it's just stupid fun for them!

agreed- I see nothing wrong with staring at them- but he was in another guys bridal party 2 years ago and that guy went into the 'champagne room' in the strip club which is basically a private room and alot goes on. I'm not ok with that!

luckyerialc Posted: Jan 16, 2014 09:26 PM+

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Re: omg my FH's bachelor party...

Posted by cets1290

Posted by MissToMrs

Lol i told fh he can do what he wants. I don't mind I trust him and it's his night. He's been to bachelor parties before and everyone's wife/fiance/girlfriend flipped they went to a strip club. Honestly I don't get why everyone gets all worked up. If you trust your man completely it's just stupid fun for them!

agreed- I see nothing wrong with staring at them- but he was in another guys bridal party 2 years ago and that guy went into the 'champagne room' in the strip club which is basically a private room and alot goes on. I'm not ok with that!

Eek! I would kill him! Lol

cconaty94 Posted: Jan 16, 2014 10:14 PM+

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Re: omg my FH's bachelor party...

Posted by ReadyToBeAMrs

I told FH no strippers and I am going to threaten anyone hosting his bachelor party. I really don't get how it's appropriate to celebrate getting married by looking at other naked women. Something about that just doesn't add up to me! 'I'm so glad to be committing to this wonderful woman for the rest of my life so I think we should go see some random nude chicks!' Really?

I totally agree. I understand they see it as a 'last dose of freedom' but I always say to FH, umm, during the last 6 years that we have been dating have you ever been 'free' enough to look at naked girls? Um no. He hasn't been free for a long time

coffeeisgreen Posted: Jan 16, 2014 10:31 PM+

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Posted: Jan 16, 2014 10:31 PM

Re: omg my FH's bachelor party...

Posted by ReadyToBeAMrs

I told FH no strippers and I am going to threaten anyone hosting his bachelor party. I really don't get how it's appropriate to celebrate getting married by looking at other naked women. Something about that just doesn't add up to me! 'I'm so glad to be committing to this wonderful woman for the rest of my life so I think we should go see some random nude chicks!' Really?

I COULD NOT AGREE WITH YOU MORE!!!!! I've been saying this for forever. Not that my FH wants that kind of party but we have discussed the topic of them in the past and I've always said what you said.

Nicole0317 Posted: Jan 17, 2014 08:45 AM+

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Re: omg my FH's bachelor party...

Posted by cets1290

Posted by MissToMrs

Lol i told fh he can do what he wants. I don't mind I trust him and it's his night. He's been to bachelor parties before and everyone's wife/fiance/girlfriend flipped they went to a strip club. Honestly I don't get why everyone gets all worked up. If you trust your man completely it's just stupid fun for them!

agreed- I see nothing wrong with staring at them- but he was in another guys bridal party 2 years ago and that guy went into the 'champagne room' in the strip club which is basically a private room and alot goes on. I'm not ok with that!

I agree. My FH is going to Vegas and they are def seeing strippers which I am okay with. Plus I may go see some male ones myself! Anything past that is a completely different story!

Terriechick Posted: Jan 17, 2014 10:19 AM+

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Re: omg my FH's bachelor party...

Posted by MissToMrs

Lol i told fh he can do what he wants. I don't mind I trust him and it's his night. He's been to bachelor parties before and everyone's wife/fiance/girlfriend flipped they went to a strip club. Honestly I don't get why everyone gets all worked up. If you trust your man completely it's just stupid fun for them!

Same here.. I am pretty sure they will most likely end up there and all his groomsmen are married. I am not worried and I know they will all have a ball.. FH has 36 people I think confirmed for his Bachelor party.. so my MOH says..

We are all in cohoots on it becuase we are starting out an afternoon of Boys vs Girls paint ball and heading our own way after.

ajunebride14 Posted: Jan 17, 2014 12:29 PM+

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I'm glad that I'm not the only one! My FH says that he keeps telling his best man that he doesn't want anything crazy but they always say that it's not the groom, it's his friends that want to go nuts. I've basically given up on fighting it because I definitely won't win this one.

emmac Posted: Jan 17, 2014 12:47 PM+

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I'm ok with FH going to a strip club but I am not ok with them hiring a stripper to come to someone's house, those ones are basically prostitutes. Besides FH is such a germafob I know he wouldn't go near any of those girls.

guitarstikibars Posted: Jan 17, 2014 02:37 PM+

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Posted: Jan 17, 2014 02:37 PM

Re: omg my FH's bachelor party...

Posted by MissToMrs

Lol i told fh he can do what he wants. I don't mind I trust him and it's his night. He's been to bachelor parties before and everyone's wife/fiance/girlfriend flipped they went to a strip club. Honestly I don't get why everyone gets all worked up. If you trust your man completely it's just stupid fun for them!

this!!! i want my FH to get strippers - he's always so reserved, i want him to have fun!

stargazer092014 Posted: Jan 17, 2014 04:23 PM+

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Posted: Jan 17, 2014 04:23 PM

Re: omg my FH's bachelor party...

Posted by cconaty94

Posted by ReadyToBeAMrs

I told FH no strippers and I am going to threaten anyone hosting his bachelor party. I really don't get how it's appropriate to celebrate getting married by looking at other naked women. Something about that just doesn't add up to me! 'I'm so glad to be committing to this wonderful woman for the rest of my life so I think we should go see some random nude chicks!' Really?

I totally agree. I understand they see it as a 'last dose of freedom' but I always say to FH, umm, during the last 6 years that we have been dating have you ever been 'free' enough to look at naked girls? Um no. He hasn't been free for a long time

Agreed to both!!! I also don't understand why seeing chicks dance around naked is considered 'fun', but maybe that's just me...

Brunettelizzie29 Posted: Jan 17, 2014 04:52 PM+

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My FH is going to Vegas for his bachelor with his friends & bridal party..I'm not worried because I trust him and I want him to have a great time with his boys...he even tells me of co-workers and friends asking him if they can go too LOL

Beebs1616 Posted: Jan 21, 2014 07:57 AM+

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Posted: Jan 21, 2014 07:57 AM

omg my FH's bachelor party... - Long Island Weddings

I'm seeing naked men so I can't be mad if he's seeing naked chicks. But we just saw Wolf of Wall Street and the bachelor party was crazy in it. It made me nervous so I turned to my FH and said 'yours better not be anything like that!'

Beebs1616 Posted: Jan 21, 2014 07:57 AM+

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Posted: Jan 21, 2014 07:57 AM

omg my FH's bachelor party... - Long Island Weddings

I'm seeing naked men so I can't be mad if he's seeing naked chicks. But we just saw Wolf of Wall Street and the bachelor party was crazy in it. It made me nervous so I turned to my FH and said 'yours better not be anything like that!'

Beebs1616 Posted: Jan 21, 2014 07:57 AM+

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Posted: Jan 21, 2014 07:57 AM

omg my FH's bachelor party... - Long Island Weddings

I'm seeing naked men so I can't be mad if he's seeing naked chicks. But we just saw Wolf of Wall Street and the bachelor party was crazy in it. It made me nervous so I turned to my FH and said 'yours better not be anything like that!'

Beebs1616 Posted: Jan 21, 2014 07:57 AM+

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Posted: Jan 21, 2014 07:57 AM

omg my FH's bachelor party... - Long Island Weddings

I'm seeing naked men so I can't be mad if he's seeing naked chicks. But we just saw Wolf of Wall Street and the bachelor party was crazy in it. It made me nervous so I turned to my FH and said 'yours better not be anything like that!'