So, my cousin 'A' is getting married to his fiance 'M' 7/7/07. Our family is not very fond of 'M'. She is not a very nice person. Her bridal shower is this Sunday in NJ. I just checked her registries (BBB & Target) and there is like nothing purchased off either of them. The shower is 3 days away. So, I started calling my family members and apparantly, my aunt and I from LI are the only ones from our side of the family going to the shower! I cant believe that. I called up all my other aunts, etc. trying to figure out why nobody is going....they said it is because they dont like her. HOW RUDE IS THAT. Even if you dont like her.....we all love our cousin/newphew 'A' and we should support him by going to the shower!
Ilovebriani
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Posted by korndoggie
I was going to say the same thing about the gift giving. If I can't go to something I usually send a gift, but sometimes I'll make it so it sends a couple days after the shower because I don't want to ruin the surprise.
It's just polite. Half of the couple is still family!
that's true....and with the gifts...they are really for both the bride and groom. so it is not fair to the groom either. that is just really disrespectful!
B22
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that's awful. I come from a REALLY BIG family and my mother has ALWAYS rolled her eyes when it comes to bridal shower, baby showers etc etc...
Its FAMILY... you have the right frame of mind .. you love your cousin. its only HER shower b/c she is the woman.