One more BM?? I need help..

AMJA Posted: Jan 10, 2007 03:04 PM

One more BM?? I need help..

Ok, I need help in deciding this.

I have become very close with one of my friends since the summer. I sort of feel bad not asking her to be a BM since she is one of my closest friends right now. And she's helping me alot btw planning my bachlorette party, coming to SoBe for it..

As of right now I have 8 BM's, and 1 Jr. BM.

I hate to make it sound like it's a number thing, like 10 girls is just too many. Shouldn't it be everyone that matters to you? I love allllll my bridesmaids dearly, and couldn't imagine not having one of them be apart of our special day.

I feel like I definetly want to give her a gift like the rest of my BM's, and should I just give her a corsage or something the day of?

So should I ask her? And would her dress come in time for April??????

TIA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ntunison Posted: Jan 10, 2007 03:11 PM

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I would ask her! it's your wedding day and you want to shae it with people special to you... but think about whether they are a long time friend

FH wants to add his sister's boyfriend since they have gotten to be really good friends. I have no objection but i asked him to think about whether he thinks they'll be friends a year from now...

KellyS15 Posted: Jan 10, 2007 03:18 PM

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It sounds like you are only worried about the particulars of asking her. To me it seems as though you want her in the wedding party. I would ask!!!

brittny817 Posted: Jan 10, 2007 03:21 PM

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I think I would just ask her. If she's been this helpful it's not like she's going to become a burden once she's in the BP. Who cares how many people are in it as long as they are all special to you. I say why not

AMJA Posted: Jan 10, 2007 03:22 PM

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That's just it.. we've known eachother for a while, but were never really close friends until this past July.

I hope we will be longtime friends.. but one never knows what can happen in the future. I had a friend who recently turned.. and I don't see her anymore... so.. I guess you can never tell.

MF9282 Posted: Jan 10, 2007 04:26 PM

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If u want her and she has been incredibly supportive and helpful go for it don't worry about the number. Also if you give her a corsage day of (very nice thought) when people ask why what does she say? Ya know? I helped a lot. Go for it ask her !!

PegaLega Posted: Jan 10, 2007 10:01 PM

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I get the feeling you definitely want her to be a part of it-SO ASK!!! I had this problem with one of my girls, I didnt know how to go about asking her and I wound up randonly bringing it up and I guess she caught onto what i was going to ask her and she started jumping up and down like a lunatic saying YES YES YES OF COURSE!

I say if you get a jump on it and put a rush on her dress it will come in in time for April
Good Luck