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One of my BM's just ruined my shower surprise***Update***

Original post by kimnsteve

So we work together and she just came in and said .....guess what i just got ur shower invite in the mail ...and whose house are they having it at because it didnt say a name !

so now i know that its coming in the next couple of months and the only place it could be is at my mom's house because she has a huge backyard!

ughhhhhhhhh


************ok so I just dont get it ...last night when i got home from work about 4 people called me to tell me how beautiful my shower invites are!!! umm hellooooo
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kimnsteve Posted:

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bump for update

GinaBambina08 Posted:

Re: One of my BM's just ruined my shower surprise***Update***


Posted by kimnsteve

So we work together and she just came in and said .....guess what i just got ur shower invite in the mail ...and whose house are they having it at because it didnt say a name !

so now i know that its coming in the next couple of months and the only place it could be is at my mom's house because she has a huge backyard!

ughhhhhhhhh


************ok so I just dont get it ...last night when i got home from work about 4 people called me to tell me how beautiful my shower invites are!!! umm hellooooo
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A lot of people are clueless! Especially if they haven't been to too many weddings..
MayWeddingGrl Posted:

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I guess they didn't realize it was a surprise unless the invitation specifically states it will be a surprise. sometimes people just don't know any better. Sorry that your surprise was ruined, but at least now you can look forward to it!
snwb08 Posted:

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did it say surprise on the invitation? so many people know about their showers these days that I think unless the invite says it's a surprise people take for granted that you know about it.

i know about mine, but i wish i didn't b/c my mom is literally telling me EVERYTHING that they are planning and I'm like STOP!
Mici n KC Posted:

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Does it not say 'It's a Surprise' on the invite?

Kimbalina Posted:

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Posted by Mici n KC

Does it not say 'It's a Surprise' on the invite?


that was going to be my question!
Future Mulligan Posted:

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Posted by Kimbalina


Posted by Mici n KC

Does it not say 'It's a Surprise' on the invite?


that was going to be my question!



mine too! maybe it doesnt say its a surprise
Julybride08 Posted:

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Maybe it's a plan to throw you off??

Ilovebriani Posted:

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Posted by Future Mulligan


Posted by Kimbalina


Posted by Mici n KC

Does it not say 'It's a Surprise' on the invite?


that was going to be my question!



mine too! maybe it doesnt say its a surprise



that's what i was thinking..i actually had to remind my sister to write that on my invites! And she was like, 'oh wow...good thing you said that otherwise I wouldnt have thought to write that!' SOmetimes ppl dont write it on the invite b/c they assume ppl will know it's a surprise...but this day and age, it isnt always a surpruse, lol!

Dont worry though, like the other girls said, i'm sure you knew your shower would e coming up in the next few months, and no matter what you will still be surprised! I had ideas my shower was coming, and i was pretty on target with it all, but i was still so surprised when i saw how many freakin ppl were there and how beautiful everything was! You will be surprised too, even if its not about the date or place!
Ilovebriani Posted:

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also, look at it this way...at least now you know they have the ball running and they are on top of things, lol.

with my shower the whole time i kept asking FH....'do you think they sent the invites yet? 'DId they pick a place?' etc, etc.....i wanted to make sure it was planned in enough advance, lol. you are lucky you didnt have to remind anyone!
kimnsteve Posted:

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i dont know if they put it on thie invite bc I havent seen it ....but still.. with any showers i wnet to unless i knew they werent a surprise i would never say anything to that person

madseason Posted:

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my mom ruined my shower for me - and shes throwing it.

Go figure - people dont think
LeeLee111 Posted:

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One of my bridesmaids started talking to me about it and I was like 'I dont know anything!!' A lot of people think the brides know about it these days.

Mici n KC Posted:

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Posted by kimnsteve

i dont know if they put it on thie invite bc I havent seen it ....but still.. with any showers i wnet to unless i knew they werent a surprise i would never say anything to that person



Unfortunately not every one is that bright!

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