sorry so late today girls...just been dragging all day!! But here it is...
What is the one thing about wedding planning you could do without???
for me it would be the constat criticism from others...what should be written, what should be bought, who should be invited...literally just gives me a headache...This is MY day and the money is coming out of MY account so I can do whatever I want...
(sorry for the mini rant)
FutureJOC
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hmmmm paying the vendors?
mtk1605
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hmmmm paying the vendors?
yes i wish they were all free!!!!!!
SoonToBeMrsCali
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Inviting guests, or rather who to invite. I wish there was a way to see a radar on who is TRULY happy for you.
justnicethings
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FMIL and now even my own mom are constantly giving me their two cents about what I should add to my registry. I wasn't born yesterday, and I've been cooking for 15 years now, I know what I need. I'm a designer and extremely visual, I know what I want my bedroom to look like. I know what vases I want. AHHH. And i get so ridiculously angry and start yelling for no reason. My poor mom.
Other than that, it's been pleasant!
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All the waiting to get married. I started planning in October, and wish I got married in November. I just want it to be here already
Other than that, everything has been great to date *knocking on wood*
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Inviting guests, or rather who to invite. I wish there was a way to see a radar on who is TRULY happy for you.
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All the waiting to get married. I started planning in October, and wish I got married in November. I just want it to be here already
Other than that, everything has been great to date *knocking on wood*
i pretty much did this and it still is not comng fast enough lol
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sorry so late today girls...just been dragging all day!! But here it is...
What is the one thing about wedding planning you could do without???
for me it would be the constat criticism from others...what should be written, what should be bought, who should be invited...literally just gives me a headache...This is MY day and the money is coming out of MY account so I can do whatever I want...
(sorry for the mini rant)
the same! FMIL needs to back off! This is would be 80% less stressful if she didn't constantly butt in
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What is the one thing about wedding planning you could do without???
for me it would be the constat criticism from others...what should be written, what should be bought, who should be invited...literally just gives me a headache...This is MY day and the money is coming out of MY account so I can do whatever I want...
(sorry for the mini rant)
same here! its like you read my mind
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Deciding on who to invite and who not to. I dont want to invite just because I have to. I dont need negativity or bad thoughts at my wedding.
Money issues and paying vendors I can do without to...lol
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sorry so late today girls...just been dragging all day!! But here it is...
What is the one thing about wedding planning you could do without???
for me it would be the constat criticism from others...what should be written, what should be bought, who should be invited...literally just gives me a headache...This is MY day and the money is coming out of MY account so I can do whatever I want...
(sorry for the mini rant)
the same! FMIL needs to back off! This is would be 80% less stressful if she didn't constantly butt in
AGREED!!!!!!!!
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alll the claws that have come out.... the people who feel the need to be nasty or catty just for the sake of it....or people who feel the need to be like *omg I'm doing this for *my* wedding when its over a year away and mine is 2 months away!
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Posted by FutureJOC
hmmmm paying the vendors?
yes i wish they were all free!!!!!!
Wahoo free vendors!
JTG4EVER
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i could do without people disagreeing with me haha
FutureMrsRP
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All the waiting to get married. I started planning in October, and wish I got married in November. I just want it to be here already
Other than that, everything has been great to date *knocking on wood*
Agreed!!! The waiting is KILLING me! We got engaged in April of 2009!!! I'm not a fan of the long engagement LOL
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sorry so late today girls...just been dragging all day!! But here it is...
What is the one thing about wedding planning you could do without???
for me it would be the constat criticism from others...what should be written, what should be bought, who should be invited...literally just gives me a headache...This is MY day and the money is coming out of MY account so I can do whatever I want...
(sorry for the mini rant)
Exactly this! I'm so fed up with everyones opinions; I've had it! Seriously someone always has something to say. Tell me if I'm being ridiculous...I told FH that when the photographer takes the formal pics of him and the GM, I dont want them having beer bottles in their hands bc it looks trashy. My mom had to jump in and tell me that I cant make rules and be so demanding and that FH should have a say in things too. What?! Was that such an unbelievable request to have nice formal pics of the BP?!
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I could totally do without all the stress!!
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The cost deff and the annoying opinions on what you should do when you didnt even ask in the first place.