opinion on strip clubs - YOU VOTE!

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Posted by lilqtpie2181

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Posted by DNicholes

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Posted by afrodyt2000

don't really care. I mean I know he's with me for a reason. If he was going to cheat, he won't need a strip club to do it.

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Agreed....

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my thoughts exactly... i have even been t a stip club with FH.. believe me it is not what u see on TV. 95% of the night all the guys sat around watching sports.
Even when I wasn't there they did the same thing ( very close sources have given me feedback, early on in the relationship)
Ladies, trust ur men...they are withyou for a reason!!!
Now tell me they were getting stippers in a hotel and I would put my foot down. Those w*ores go a little too far and rub up against anything that breathes.

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Umm...if your man wanted to watch sports he'd go to a sports bar...NOT a strip club. They go there for one reason and thats to watch the girls, not the TV (they could do that at home).

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Posted by angnick

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Posted by afrodyt2000

You know for all the ladies that feel insecure, I feel really bad that you feel that way. You are all beautiful and intelligent that's what made your fh attracted to you and then propose to marry you. I think most men will not do something to ruin that relationship and the future that they have planned with you. I guess part of the reason why I'm not worried about this is because fh and I have been together for 8.5 years already, our sex life is still great and he still acts like a horny teenage by around me most of the time. So I know he's not looking for some 'action' anywhere else. I feel like being insecure can really hurt you own self esteem and sometimes make your fh tired of telling you how beautiful and great you are if you won't believe it so I decided I'd just believe it myself! lol

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WOW Well said, i totally agree with you!!!!!!!1

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Tjats what I was trying to say!! I have been to one a few times and they are not THAT bad. Like i said orivate room are differnt. those gilrs have no limits and do whatever they want even when theya re told not to.. i have seen this with my own eyes.. but my fellow brides.. dont sweat it... its not a big deal and most men in there just got to hang out cuz it s aguy place. no females other than the people working there. Sometimes regualr bars in my opinion are worse!!

Well I mind him going alone with his guy friends.. but if hes with me its fine

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Posted by Mandyin2007

My FH knows I will leave him if he goes for his bachelor party.

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LOL.......I said the same thing to my FH

I have no problem with them at all. Maybe it's easy for me to say bc FH is not into them. He thinks the girls are 'dirty.'

I've actually offered to take him for his bday and he wanted no part of it. I've actually had a good time with some of my girlfriends at female strip clubs. No not into chicks, a good friend of mine bartended at an upscale club and we would drink for free.

Believe me, these chicks are NOT interested in any of our FH's unless you are engaged to a wealthy Japanese business man
Who ever has the largest fist full of $$$ is where there interest is!

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Posted by AeroJenn

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Posted by lilqtpie2181

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Posted by DNicholes

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Posted by afrodyt2000

don't really care. I mean I know he's with me for a reason. If he was going to cheat, he won't need a strip club to do it.

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Agreed....

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my thoughts exactly... i have even been t a stip club with FH.. believe me it is not what u see on TV. 95% of the night all the guys sat around watching sports.
Even when I wasn't there they did the same thing ( very close sources have given me feedback, early on in the relationship)
Ladies, trust ur men...they are withyou for a reason!!!
Now tell me they were getting stippers in a hotel and I would put my foot down. Those w*ores go a little too far and rub up against anything that breathes.

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Umm...if your man wanted to watch sports he'd go to a sports bar...NOT a strip club. They go there for one reason and thats to watch the girls, not the TV (they could do that at home).

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I guess when u have grown up in a family of boys u see things differntly. U kinda have the inside scoop on things... MOST guys don't go there looking for A$$...they go there to hang out withtheir boys in a 'boys club.'
Like I said... I have been to a few of them with FH and have seen what my guy and other guys are like in there...
When u actually go to one then u can judge...but let me just tell u that lots of girls ( who have no interest inthe game) go to sports bars on big sports nights in order to pick up guys... I would be more worried about the girls in there than in a strip club,

absolutely can't stand this sort of thing~ i was reading another post on how the groomsmen wanted strippers, got the groom wasted, left after they had their fun and the groom ended getting a bit more than just a raunchy lap dance. the bride found out, got incredibly upset and well what can you do?

you can trust your man all you want but hey we're all human, still subject to temptation and even if you're strong enough not to be, ur groomsmen may not be looking out for the groom, much less you.

*why* open the door to problems like this in your future marriage? it's one night of fun or maybe more but seriously, consequences?? can you guarantee 110% that nothing would happen? i think the issue is if why you'd want to do this sort of thing in the first place....

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Posted by RobbsWifey

How do you feel about your FH going to a strip club, whether it's for his bachelor party or one of his friends bachelor party?

I am very insecure about that whole issue and hate them.

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I feel the same way a couple of yrs ago fh went to one and i wouldnt go near him for a week lol.Mostly bc i used to e very thin now i put on some weight after 2 kids and it bothers me when he see's other thin naked girls I know its imature but i cant help it

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Posted by D's Girl

Does not bother me at all.

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Agreed, plus womenn go to strip clubs too.

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Posted by afrodyt2000

You know for all the ladies that feel insecure, I feel really bad that you feel that way. You are all beautiful and intelligent that's what made your fh attracted to you and then propose to marry you. I think most men will not do something to ruin that relationship and the future that they have planned with you. I guess part of the reason why I'm not worried about this is because fh and I have been together for 8.5 years already, our sex life is still great and he still acts like a horny teenager by around me most of the time. So I know he's not looking for some 'action' anywhere else. I feel like being insecure can really hurt you own self esteem and sometimes make your fh tired of telling you how beautiful and great you are if you won't believe it so I decided I'd just believe it myself! lol

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Well said!