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Ordering BM dresses w/out seeing them?
lillian771 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 08:40 PM+
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Ordering BM dresses w/out seeing them?

I went to Burton's tonight w/ my MOH to see her wedding gown and try on the BM dress I'll wear for her wedding.

While I was there I asked if they carried the Jim Hjelm dress I plan on having for my BM's. They don't have it, but can order it for $35 less than the other stores I've seen it in. Do you think its a good idea to order w/out seeing it there?

I don't know why but it makes me a little nervous...
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MsKitty1274 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 08:42 PM+
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Re: Ordering BM dresses w/out seeing them?

Hmmm. I wouldn't. If you'd tried it on or seen it at another store, maybe.
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Dooodles Posted: Oct 13, 2004 08:58 PM+
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Re: Ordering BM dresses w/out seeing them?

Have you tried it on at another store? If they show you a picture and guarantee the style number, I wouldn't think it is a bad idea. Check the BBB first for any complaints. If they are okay, I would go for it.
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eogara Posted: Oct 13, 2004 09:04 PM+
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Re: Ordering BM dresses w/out seeing them?

Ooooh, I would NOT do that. Call around to see where you can see the dress in person and then order it from wherever is cheapest - that place or somewhere else. But think of how many times you've seen something you thought you'd love, only to put it on and HATE it. Now multiply that by the number of BMs you have... I'd definitely check it out in person.

What's the style number? My girls are wearing a Jim Hjelm and I got them from RK Bridal - they have a big selection. I'm going there on Friday and can check to see if they have it for you.
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Laura1976 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 09:18 PM+
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Re: Ordering BM dresses w/out seeing them?

go to another store and try it on there. Thats what I did. I'm also nervous, because no store carries my dress in the color I want. I'm getting in light blue with a black middle.
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lillian771 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 09:23 PM+
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Re: Ordering BM dresses w/out seeing them?


Posted by Dooodles

Have you tried it on at another store? If they show you a picture and guarantee the style number, I wouldn't think it is a bad idea. Check the BBB first for any complaints. If they are okay, I would go for it.



Thanks everyone for your feedback. I realize I worded my question wrong. My MOH tried it on at Centereach Bridal and it looked great, so that part's out of the way. I've seen it at several stores for $210. Burton's doesn't carry it but can order it...for only $175. Should I go for it?
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Laura1976 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 09:24 PM+
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Re: Ordering BM dresses w/out seeing them?

oh, ok. Yes, go for it. Its the same dress regardless of where you order it.
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eogara Posted: Oct 13, 2004 09:27 PM+
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Re: Ordering BM dresses w/out seeing them?


Posted by lillian771


Posted by Dooodles

Have you tried it on at another store? If they show you a picture and guarantee the style number, I wouldn't think it is a bad idea. Check the BBB first for any complaints. If they are okay, I would go for it.



Thanks everyone for your feedback. I realize I worded my question wrong. My MOH tried it on at Centereach Bridal and it looked great, so that part's out of the way. I've seen it at several stores for $210. Burton's doesn't carry it but can order it...for only $175. Should I go for it?



Oh!! Yes, go for it then. I thought you were going to order a dress you've never seen. Whew!
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lillian771 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 09:28 PM+
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Re: Ordering BM dresses w/out seeing them?

Thanks! i hope you find your dress in the colors you want!
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