OK, so I posted a while ago that my guy cousin got engaged and will be getting married almost 2 months earler than we will, stealing my spotlight!! But I am coping. Now.... mutha f%&$er is planning his eparty 6 weeks from now, which is hello MY E PARTY! So my mom called my aunt and told her, I just sent out the invites yesterday. She said nothing has been set in stone with them but she will try to postpone it. What the F*ck!!! I was so damn pissed, and so was FH. The wedding is one thing, but the damn eparty too... come on....
ZeppsGirl
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I swear that I was going to title my own FIRST BRIDEZILLA moment.
Fh and I had reservations to go to Villa for their bridal showcase tonight. FH calls and we arent on the list...he decides to go to work instead and work over time.
I call and we are on the list he just wasnt forceful at all. i think that with things like this you need to be assertive, I guess it is something that FH lacks. So now I am mad at him because I was hoping to see some DJs and floral designs tonight but without him i really dont want to make any decisions.
He never even thinks that he is wrong and I am really mad at him right now. hey i am Italian I need to make my point when i know I am right but instead he is just like doo- di -doo I dont know.
Drive me nuts!!!!!!
soon2BMrsMcD
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Posted by ZeppsGirl
I swear that I was going to title my own FIRST BRIDEZILLA moment.
Fh and I had reservations to go to Villa for their bridal showcase tonight. FH calls and we arent on the list...he decides to go to work instead and work over time.
I call and we are on the list he just wasnt forceful at all. i think that with things like this you need to be assertive, I guess it is something that FH lacks. So now I am mad at him because I was hoping to see some DJs and floral designs tonight but without him i really dont want to make any decisions.
He never even thinks that he is wrong and I am really mad at him right now. hey i am Italian I need to make my point when i know I am right but instead he is just like doo- di -doo I dont know.
Drive me nuts!!!!!!
Same here!! I'm like lets do this....lets do that... and he's like....um...ok..sure...la di da!!
You're not the only one, I think men in general are just like that!!
sassygirl9
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I'm sure it might be annoying. I would be too, but don't let someone ruin your moment. You will still have a fun e party. Don't let someone ruin what it's all about. You and him. everyone that assists will be there for you. caligilinnyc
Belongs2DanBuckley
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DUDE!!!! I WOULD FLIP MY SH!T!!!!
That's F'd up man! Regulate!
TakingtheLongWay
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Posted by Belongs2DanBuckley
DUDE!!!! I WOULD FLIP MY SH!T!!!!
That's F'd up man! Regulate!
Regulate!! That is too funny! I totally forgot about that word! I'm soooo using it tomorrow at work!!
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Posted by ZeppsGirl
I swear that I was going to title my own FIRST BRIDEZILLA moment.
Fh and I had reservations to go to Villa for their bridal showcase tonight. FH calls and we arent on the list...he decides to go to work instead and work over time.
I call and we are on the list he just wasnt forceful at all. i think that with things like this you need to be assertive, I guess it is something that FH lacks. So now I am mad at him because I was hoping to see some DJs and floral designs tonight but without him i really dont want to make any decisions.
He never even thinks that he is wrong and I am really mad at him right now. hey i am Italian I need to make my point when i know I am right but instead he is just like doo- di -doo I dont know.
Drive me nuts!!!!!!
Same here!! I'm like lets do this....lets do that... and he's like....um...ok..sure...la di da!!
You're not the only one, I think men in general are just like that!!
Eh sometimes they really don't realize it, i know because I do that. Its like you have all these things on your mind and you dont realize time is running out lol...My FH had to keep telling me uhmmm would you set up appointments to go see RH's lol, until i was finally like ok ok, but in my head it was like ok we need a down payment and i wanna do more research or a bunch of other things...Same thing with our e-party invitations, he kept bothering me denise order them order them and then when they came he had to remind me over and over to do them lol.
Kimbalina
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I would have called myself, and yelled....although that would get me nowhere!
ZeppsGirl
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Oh I share in your anger. Are you kidding me...I dont know what I would do to deal with this situation. Im italian hot blood for everyone. Gosh keep going and forget about their plans!!!
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Posted by TakingtheLongWay
Posted by Belongs2DanBuckley
DUDE!!!! I WOULD FLIP MY SH!T!!!!
That's F'd up man! Regulate!
Regulate!! That is too funny! I totally forgot about that word! I'm soooo using it tomorrow at work!!
Regulate.. LMAOOOOOO You are too funny.....
Seriously it truly is messed up... maybe talk to your cousin personally???
rysie
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We had our first meeting of the minds and saw each other's visions for certain things and a few didn't match up too well!! IE: The word Photographer brings out his evil side!!!! And of course there were silly things I didn't understand and agree with but at the end of the day we worked things out!
Well - except the P word - he's sensitive about it!! Hence why I'm going on a photog hunt this weekend prior to the WOTY and on Sunday!!!!!
