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Posted by Smiles111
maybe you'll luck out and they won't come. That way, you're only out the cost of the extra invites, you haven't insulted anyone, and hopefully you won't have to deal with them at the reception.
we'll cross our fingers for you!
Posted by vixchik
Posted by sarahradio5
Posted by STBMrsDaniRella
oh god sarah!! you got yourself in a real pickle... i hate to say it but i think there is no way around this one. i think you have to just try as hard as you can to invite everyone that you gave the magnets too... i'm sorry!![]()
Friggin' magnets.![]()
I feel bad because my mom keeps saying we should try to limit the guest list, but we can't at this point!
WORD OF ADVICE to brides who haven't sent out STD's (still think that abbreviation is funny) or invites for your e-party. YOU HAVE TO INVITE THEM ALL TO YOUR WEDDING, TOO!
My wedding per person cost is 4x more than my e-party cost, so I think we went a little invite happy for the e-party. Yikes!
I think 'STDs' is funny, too....![]()
on to your 'pickle'
maybe you can invite without guests unless they are married or engaged, eliminate kids....this could keep some OOTs away(?)....you can always not invite co-workers that you are less friendly with now...and maybe make those all no guests if they aren't married already....sticky situation...HTH some.![]()
Posted by STBMrsDaniRella
Posted by vixchik
Posted by sarahradio5
Posted by STBMrsDaniRella
oh god sarah!! you got yourself in a real pickle... i hate to say it but i think there is no way around this one. i think you have to just try as hard as you can to invite everyone that you gave the magnets too... i'm sorry!![]()
Friggin' magnets.![]()
I feel bad because my mom keeps saying we should try to limit the guest list, but we can't at this point!
WORD OF ADVICE to brides who haven't sent out STD's (still think that abbreviation is funny) or invites for your e-party. YOU HAVE TO INVITE THEM ALL TO YOUR WEDDING, TOO!
My wedding per person cost is 4x more than my e-party cost, so I think we went a little invite happy for the e-party. Yikes!
I think 'STDs' is funny, too....![]()
on to your 'pickle'
maybe you can invite without guests unless they are married or engaged, eliminate kids....this could keep some OOTs away(?)....you can always not invite co-workers that you are less friendly with now...and maybe make those all no guests if they aren't married already....sticky situation...HTH some.![]()
oh god, how third grade of me but i'now i'm laughing at STD and the word pickle in the same sentence!!!!! AHHHH lol![]()
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somehow most of sarah's posts always turn into a laugh fest!!!![]()
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Yeah, I agree too..... I think you are stuck with people you don't like.
Posted by BJandDan
Yeah, I agree too..... I think you are stuck with people you don't like.
Posted by STBMrsDaniRella
oh god sarah!! you got yourself in a real pickle... i hate to say it but i think there is no way around this one. i think you have to just try as hard as you can to invite everyone that you gave the magnets too... i'm sorry!![]()
Posted by SPITSBRIDE
Posted by BJandDan
Yeah, I agree too..... I think you are stuck with people you don't like.
I have to agree, sorry![]()
Posted by KandL
'maybe you can invite without guests '
I like this one the best!![]()
I agree it's tacky to NOT invite them now, but when you tell them it's w/o guest they may opt out, then you have saved face.
Or do the unacceptable and post a 'group'invitaion, which they will think is end-of-the-world-tacky, and they won't come and probably will shun you forever!![]()
I think you still have to invite them unless you had a falling out with someone you sent a save the date to. But, it's possible that the people you don't like might not come anyway.
Posted by ali120206
You definitely have to invite them now, especially since they came to your engagement party.
If you are no longer close with these people though, they most likely will opt not to come.
Posted by sarahradio5
Posted by KandL
'maybe you can invite without guests '
I like this one the best!![]()
I agree it's tacky to NOT invite them now, but when you tell them it's w/o guest they may opt out, then you have saved face.
Or do the unacceptable and post a 'group'invitaion, which they will think is end-of-the-world-tacky, and they won't come and probably will shun you forever!![]()
ooh... SHUN me forever! That's a good option! lol. Tackiness = No's. Interesting! lol
Ya know what's so interesting... pretty much the 'clique-y' group I don't like are all miserable divorced people, so you're right... if I don't put 'and guest' maybe that will turn them off!Good idea! Thanks!
And thanks for the 'no'.
Posted by sarahradio5
Posted by ali120206
You definitely have to invite them now, especially since they came to your engagement party.
If you are no longer close with these people though, they most likely will opt not to come.
What about the ones who didn't even have the decency to acknowledge my e-party invitation? No gift? No nothing? There's just a handful of them... and they're the ones I REALLY don't like. lol
They never got a magnet. Wahoo!![]()
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