Overreacting??

Overreacting??

My FH and I were discussing wedding bands and he said rings bother his fingers and are uncomfortable. He wants to buy a chain and wear it on the chain. He said he'd wear it on his finger when we went out but not on an everyday basis....what??? I was pissed... would you be?

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yes i agree! i would be totally annoyed..the ring is meant as a symbol of your marriage and i believe the guy should always wear it on his finger

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If I have to wear a ring everyday SO DO YOU!!!

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I would definitely be annoyed, but I'd probably get over it

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ehh if he doesn't want to wear it I'd be pissed but if he doesn't wear it because it is uncomfortable for him I'd understand. Of course I'd prefer he wore it on his finger but I'd rather have him be comfortable

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Have him try on a comfort fit band. They're contoured so that only the outer edges are actually touching his skin. Most people find that more comfortable.

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I wouldnt be happy, but if he put it on when you went out, i would feel better about that, and at least he said he would wear it on his neck and didnt just say he wont even get one.

i can understand him saying its uncomforatable (however, maybe he should try it out first) FH says that too.. but hes never worn a ring, so he doesnt know. BUt i told FH that he has no choice and he has to wear it

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FH and I got into a mini argument, because I am contemplating not taking his last name..

So he said, he will be contemplating not wearing the wedding ring...

IM TAKING HIS NAME

In all honesty, when I fist read this, I said. OVERRACTING Not a big deal.. but after thinking about it.....

yes I would be annoyed..just because he says it bothers, as if he is uncomfortable.. HELLO!!! We have to wash dishes, our hair, remember to take it off and on, if we dont, clean it, get it out of a tangle....you are going to give birth to his child!! and he doesnt think he will wear a band because it.. 'bothers him', nah, now that ive given it some thought.,..id be pretty annoyed..

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ooh - it would bother me.

Plus, I just LOVE the way a ring looks on a man.

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I would be annoyed but I dont think I would fight with him about it. Maybe after he's tried some on he can find one less bothersone.

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I wouldn't be happy at all if FH said he wasn't going to wear his ring. I'd fight back and tell him I won't wear mine unless he wears his...I'd be a brat until I win! lol

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I would not be upset at all. FH is a mechanic an he can't wera it beacuse it can get stuck and his finger could get cut off. So I am glad he won't be wearing it. ANd also he would getit all scratched up. And I knwo he don't ike wearing rings so on a chain is fine.

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FH's job involves him sticking his hands into buckets of clams, worms and dead fish. . .LOL I don't want to even KNOW what could get caught under a ring

Plus he works with some some machines that could possibly get caught on his ring and who knows what could happen then?

Like I said, he is going to try it - but if he doesn't . . . I will just have to announce that he is married every where he goes

Maybe i will hire a little boy to follow him around with a bullhorn

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Im a bit upset b/c FH can't wear a ring..b/c he had surgery on his hand when he was a kid and if he wore a ring it would irritate him. Oh well., nothing I can do!

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I would be a little upset about it but I would understand. As long as it is shown I'd let him wear it on a chain.