pantyhose

I know they are ugly and I hate wearing them, but our wedding is in November in St. Louis and it can be cold and we will be in a floral observatory in the park, (it is enclosed) but we will be outside for a bit.

I personally would only wear them if it were cold outside, I think they are so uncomfortable.

Should I tell the girls that they should decide amonst each other whether they are going to wear them? I don't want to tell them what to wear esp when it's uncomfortable but I would definitly suggest that they decide on one color (so they don't look strange with diff colors in the pics) either all black or all nude (that matches their skin color, not suntan) no mix and match.

what do you think?

Sorry, should have mentioned that they are tea length dresses.

What length dress are they wearing? If it is a long dress it won't really matter. You don't have to stress over that. Relax....save it for other Bride stuff.

No black with tea length.
That just looks bad.

Let them either go bare legged or wear nude hose.
Silk Reflections Barely There is a nice sheer nude color, and the hose are silky soft.
I wear those to work.

After freezing my buns off at a wedding - I think you should leave it up to the girls, but remind them that you are planning on taking photos (or whatever u are doing outiside) and tell them for how long. Then they can decide if they want to wear them. I would specify a color - IMO - I would go with Nude.

Also, if you are doing photos outside, have your bridal party bring coats/blankets so they can warm themselves up while you take photos without them (i.e. with your family).