Pardon me...

Original post by razz1031

Apr 12, 2004 08:43 PM

I've lost my libido. Can anyone help me find it? Reward if returned!

kathy2176 Posted: Apr 14, 2004 03:28 PM

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Can I just say, I LOVE YOU GUYS!!! As sad as this sounds, you made my day. I really thought it was just us and that there was something seriously wrong. I have been worrying like crazy over it. I feel a little better now. I am praying that after the wedding and the stress dies down a little, things will get better. Let's keep our fingers crossed!!!

june262004 Posted: Apr 14, 2004 03:30 PM

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Posted by razz1031

Seriously...I'm so close to being abstinent, it's freakin ridiculous!!!

DITTO! I don't know what it is...

Summerbride04 Posted: Apr 14, 2004 03:31 PM

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Posted by raken40

this is too funny..I thought i was the only one...and i was feeling like such a bad fiance for not being in the mood everyday...

Woohoo! I was starting to think something's wrong with me. All I want to do when we get in bed is sleep!

July2004Bride Posted: Apr 14, 2004 03:38 PM

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Posted by LIJuneBride

It's an epidemic - get a ring, lose your libido!!!

allaboutthecake Posted: Apr 14, 2004 03:39 PM

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OMG I am so happy that this is happening to everyone else too. I too thought that everyone else was having it so much more often than I do. Sometimes I try to think in my head when the last time was and if it was so long ago I try to have it that week...then once we do I feel like we don't have to have it again anytime soon. That's awful of me, it's amazing if we have it twice in a week. I am so glad that I am not the only one. I too just want to go to sleep at night....not to mention...does anyone get UTI's when they have it? I have to take an antibiotic every night because of it. Sorry but sometimes I think it's not even worth it for the pain I could be in because of it. Geeeezzzz I sound like such a bad fiance.

Valentinegirl Posted: Apr 14, 2004 03:55 PM

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I think not having it that often is more common than having it alot. I guess I just assumed everyone had it alot, but never really asked.

ker1026 Posted: Apr 14, 2004 04:06 PM

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Posted by allaboutthecake

Sometimes I try to think in my head when the last time was and if it was so long ago I try to have it that week...then once we do I feel like we don't have to have it again anytime soon. That's awful of me, it's amazing if we have it twice in a week. I too just want to go to sleep at night....

I do the same thing!

The only thing I can think about when I get into bed is those pretty sheep.

Does anyone know if those impulse pills will interfere with the pill?

MrsJ Posted: Apr 14, 2004 05:01 PM

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Posted by allaboutthecake

...does anyone get UTI's when they have it? .

you might want to switch the brand of condom you use, if you use one. if you arent using one, try using one...does that make sense? its the bacteria from your FH that is giving you UTIs.

MrsJ Posted: Apr 14, 2004 05:04 PM

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Posted by Valentinegirl

I think not having it that often is more common than having it alot. I guess I just assumed everyone had it alot, but never really asked.

He would have it 4 times a day, every day...he's always been like that. He used to wake me up at 2 or 3 in the morning for it, at least he stopped that...I was exhausted!! If only I had 1/4 of his sexz drive...

Jax430 Posted: Apr 14, 2004 05:27 PM

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Now that I finally had time to read through this thread, I feel SO much better!!! My libido is no where to be found, and I'm driving poor FH nuts! Between full time school, wedding planning, and only seeing each other a day or two on the weekends, there's never time...and when there is time, I can always think of something more important that needs to be done!!! And if that's not the case, it's hearing my parents or his parents walking around the house that is enough to kill any mood I might be in. You girls are the best!!!

violet Posted: Apr 14, 2004 05:37 PM

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Actually FH used to be the one who had a huge sex drive, but now I am the one who has it more. But then again, he nearly passes out by 9 to 10pm every night, and I figured out it's probably because he works a different position now that is more exhausting.

Or you know, I am betting I want it more because he isn't as much in the mood. If he wanted it more, I'd probably be like 'nah, it's okay.'

LadyPrincess Posted: Apr 14, 2004 08:06 PM

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just got a chance to read this thread --- we DO keep it real ladies

Our is fine......

oakslady Posted: Apr 15, 2004 12:01 AM

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LMAO

charlotte227 Posted: Apr 15, 2004 12:04 AM

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Well damn I thought I was the only one, actually I think my FH stole it or is indulging in a mean supply of viagra!

AJsMommy122 Posted: Apr 15, 2004 12:08 AM

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I thought im the only one on the couch with a chocolate bar every night!!! I figured everyone else was getting it at least 4 or 5 times a week.... hahaha were lucky if we hit that # a month

BKtoLI Posted: Jan 25, 2006 04:01 PM

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Bumping this because it was way too funny and I am glad I am not alone in this either!!!

ZuzusPetals Posted: Jan 25, 2006 04:04 PM

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K i have to go to class right now (no more grad school - ugh) but I just saw this post and im so thankful! i thought i was the only one. I cant wait to read the whole thread!

07bride2be Posted: Jan 25, 2006 04:08 PM

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If anyone would like to take some of my libido...you are welcome to it. It's been in overdrive for about a year now..(ever since I went off of the DEPO shot) and shows no sign of slowing down!

Beth1210 Posted: Jan 25, 2006 04:09 PM

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FI says the same thing! We thought it might be because of 'the pill' but I have no plans to go off it any time soon so I'm not sure we'll find out.

Mine hubby wants me to go off the pill- he thinks I should be much more interrested

I like to think it's just reality- b/c I am not going off the pill (my reason for going on wasn't BC- it was to have a normal period- and I am not going back)