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Pardon me...

Original post by razz1031

I've lost my libido. Can anyone help me find it? Reward if returned!
MariaCJ Posted:

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I thought I was the only one!!! what the heck is going on???
lulugrrl Posted:

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I LOVE ALL OF YOU...there was a thread not to long ago about how often they 'did it' ..I did not post there, because it was embarrasing! Our schedules are just crap, then when we do see each other, we are sooo tired. LOL

YEAH I AM NOT LOSER>>NOT ALONE..I really thought there was soemthing wrong with me...SERIOUSLY..I was going to talk to my doctor..you all have made me feel sooo much better!

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU
sarahradio5 Posted:

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YES! Thank you for posting this! I thought I was the only one... although maybe my REASON is a bit different. Yes, I'm on the pill... but I'm so afraid of getting pregnant before the wedding! It's a TRUE fear. My FI is getting a little annoyed at being turned down, but... dude... I won't TRULY be stress-free and ENJOY it until we're married. Maybe it's Catholic guilt. How many days until November 12th?
Tina120206 Posted:

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Posted by razz1031

It's $45 for a month supply, $140 for 4 months, or $240 for a year. I'd like to do a year since it's the cheapest way to go.



Maybe we could all chip in, I need it too :)
Katie&Chris2006 Posted:

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I'm glad I'm not the only one. Don't get me wrong I love sex but I'm always so friggin' tired. Anyone have any suggestions?

Soon2BeMrsS Posted:

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ABGS06 Posted:

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You ladies are too funny.....

I hate being on the freakin pill, but I am not ready for a little one to be running around. Don't get me wrong I want a little one running around, but just not yet.
ML110 Posted:

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Posted by sarahradio5

I won't TRULY be stress-free and ENJOY it until we're married.



and even then it doesn't get any less stressful! DH is always upset that i'm not in the mood, but then i remind him that i work 8 hours a day ( with bratty kids!) then come home and have to take care of the dog (he usually pees in his crate so i have to clean that), then i have to do the dishes that are still left from last night, plus think about what we're gonna cook for dinner, theres always laundray that needs to be done or switched over, etc etc... .DH does help out a lot, but i'm just anal and always keep finding things that need to be done!! i just don't know what to do... glad i'm not the only one
Suzannebride Posted:

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You can always ask your gyn for a prescription for a pill with a different make up of hormones that may help. Didn't for me...but might for someone else!

MrsP2Be Posted:

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I actually mentioned it to my gyno and she snapped at me saying it wasn't the BC cause I couldn't get lower hormones.
conigs25 Posted:

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Damn Girl. I must have yours and everyone elses bc Im a maniac lately
werock0709 Posted:

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I feel sorry for you guys
ZuzusPetals Posted:

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Posted by sarahradio5

YES! Thank you for posting this! I thought I was the only one... although maybe my REASON is a bit different. Yes, I'm on the pill... but I'm so afraid of getting pregnant before the wedding! It's a TRUE fear. My FI is getting a little annoyed at being turned down, but... dude... I won't TRULY be stress-free and ENJOY it until we're married. Maybe it's Catholic guilt. How many days until November 12th?




Same here. Im terrified of getting pregnant because I want to be settled in my career and the truth is we dont need the financial pressure. I love children and want some but each month I get so worked up. If I dont have sex I still stress - immaculate conception! I just feel with my luck ill get knocked up lol
SuzBride Posted:

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Posted by sarahradio5

YES! Thank you for posting this! I thought I was the only one... although maybe my REASON is a bit different. Yes, I'm on the pill... but I'm so afraid of getting pregnant before the wedding! It's a TRUE fear. My FI is getting a little annoyed at being turned down, but... dude... I won't TRULY be stress-free and ENJOY it until we're married. Maybe it's Catholic guilt. How many days until November 12th?



I agree. The combo of birth control and fear of pregnancy totally has almost eliminated my libido. Plus we both still live at home - so opportunities are far between - and stressful! Poor FH - luckily he understands. Hopefully when we get our own place and are married it will improve
MrsStefan Posted:

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FH calls me the 'sexual camel' cause I can go FOREVER without it!!!
superkat Posted:

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Are you taking an antidepressant? It diminishes your libido.

Jenn070206 Posted:

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i am the exact same way!! fh wants me to go to the doctor too!! at least we are not alone!!

weddingbunny Posted:

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Posted by razz1031

I don't think it's the pill. I'm the same on and off the pill. I'm off right now...why bother?!



The pill definitely had something to do with it for me. I've had NO sex drive for ages, and I recenty went off the pill (for other reasons) and I'm starting to feel a bit closer to normal...

it's good, I miss wanting sex!
mcb916 Posted:

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Posted by weddingbunny


Posted by razz1031

I don't think it's the pill. I'm the same on and off the pill. I'm off right now...why bother?!



The pill definitely had something to do with it for me. I've had NO sex drive for ages, and I recenty went off the pill (for other reasons) and I'm starting to feel a bit closer to normal...

it's good, I miss wanting sex!




I blame the pill 100%. So many side effects!! Since going off it I feel so much better
nygirl77 Posted:

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It's not just you - that's for sure! I feel like we are already an old married couple!

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