What to do? My parents are HEAVILY involved with my wedding and my fiance's are not...of course we want to pay our respects to both sets of parents but I feel mine deserve more...I know, sticky situation. My fiance's parents barely asked what we were up to with our planning. My parents have done so much with our wedding and house. Any suggestions?
I am not sure what you should get your parents, thats up to you.. but dont feel guilty buying your parents gifts and not your future in laws, my parents helped so very much.. my MIL NOT AT ALL... she actually MADE us put place cards at the tables where people should sit, cause she didnt want to sit next to her daughter whom she wasnt talking to at the time.. so my mom made these beautiful ones with a picture of us on them.. took her a long time then she didnt even sit where we placed her... unreal!!!! i didnt feel guilty showering my parents with gifts and thank yous.. they deserved it.. SHE DIDNT!!!
My parents are contributing a substantial amount to our wedding...FHs is not...so on their anniversary we bought them a really nice flat screen big tv (mom had been talking about - and their tv had just died)as a thank you as well....that way no one really knows that we got them more...then to both parents at the rehearsal dinner...we will give picture frames
