Paying for Makeup for BMs???

Original post by Jennifer907

Feb 28, 2007 02:40 PM

I asked all of my girls if they wanted to have their hair and makeup done for the wedding and they all said yes. I booked my makeup artist and got her for half price because she is the sister of one of my friends. Well now, all of my girls are freaking out over the price, saying it's too much. Mind you, I'm not asking them to buy traditional BMs dresses or anything. One of my girls is even wearing a dress she already has, which I think is great because it's an amazing dress and looks stunning on her. Sooo, my question is are you paying for your BMs hair and/or makeup? I was going to try to pay for their makeup as a surprise gift, but if I can't I don't want to drag this girl all the way to me for just my makeup. Plus I already told her all of the girls would be getting done.

rkl1130 Posted: Feb 28, 2007 04:59 PM

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Posted by nycgirl79

I am not paying for their makeup (or hair). I told them how much my m/u artist charges, and gave them the option. If they want it done, fine, if not, whatever. They're all pretty girls, and as long as they look good, I don't care who does their hair/mu.

Same here!

diva7531 Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:05 PM

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As of right now no, but I wish I could. They all said they wanted to get it done but I imagine only three really know what it really costs! I am hoping to have a little extra money to get them G/C to the salon to put towards their hair and M/U. But I am also basing my decision on how much each salon costs, with them in mind. Good Luck with your decision.

Becks526 Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:09 PM

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I'm probably paying for my MOH and my mom's hair. My BM (FSIL) is having hers paid by FMIL. But if I had more than that, I wouldn't pay. I think it's reasonable to have them pay for themselves, especially if they didn't have to buy a dress!

Princess Cut Bride Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:10 PM

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Posted by vintagegirl

hey they could always go to macy's makeup counter and get it done there for free..

It is not free...most lines require you to purchase at least 3 items or a set dollar amount worth of products.

PegaLega Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:22 PM

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I was for awhile, but just cant pull it off. So instead I gave them the option, if they wanted both done they pay...if not they can do it themselves

Love4Eva Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:26 PM

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Posted by malagian

im not paying for mine. I just said im having someone come to me and ill let them know the prices and if you want she can do you guys to unless you want to go to another place they have been to before.

Same here - I let them all know abt the girl I booked, the amt she charges, and all the details - If they want - they will go to her, if not they will do it themselves or go elsewhere.

Snickers76 Posted: Feb 28, 2007 05:39 PM

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I was in one wedding where the bride paid for my hair, but I paid for my own makeup. Don't feel obligated to pay for their makeup...

vintagegirl Posted: Feb 28, 2007 06:02 PM

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Elizabeth Arden, Benefit, Estee Lauder and Clinque do it for free.. you are not obliged to buy .. I usually just buy a lipstick or some eyeshadow just out of courtesy..

EastEndBride Posted: Feb 28, 2007 06:26 PM

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I think I'll be paying for my BP's hair & makeup. I was in two of their BP's when they were getting married and they both paid for mine at the time, so I feel I should return the favor.

Danacm80 Posted: Feb 28, 2007 07:04 PM

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Hell NO! haha that would be an insane amount of money. I am having all of them come to my house already dressed and ready to take pics. Too much of a hassle to all get ready in one house. What they do with their hair/make up is up to them.

Jennifer907 Posted: Feb 28, 2007 09:48 PM

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Thanks girls. I'm going to give them the option. They may change their minds. You're all always so helpful.

TLC1018 Posted: Feb 28, 2007 10:03 PM

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I am not paying for my girls to have their makeup done, but I am also not making them get their makeup done. If they want to, they know how much it costs...So far, everyone has been great about it!

Lools Posted: Feb 28, 2007 10:12 PM

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I'm not paying for mine. It's up to them if they want to spend the money.

Mandyin2007 Posted: Feb 28, 2007 10:15 PM

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I'm not paying for my BMs. I would be upset if they complained about prices after you arranged something and got them a 1/2 price deal. Make up is expensive and they should have considered that before all saying yes.

I hope everything works out

eelharas4700 Posted: Feb 28, 2007 10:15 PM

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as much as i would love to pay for everything, i cant. before i booked my make up i asked everyone if they would want it done and they all knew the price. they all agreed.

iBCraZ131 Posted: Feb 28, 2007 10:53 PM

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I am paying for all my girls hair and makeup. I thought it was the right thing to do - but that is my own personal opinion - it's not right for everyone.