PLEASE HELP (LONG)

My friend eloped and then got 'married' in church. Both their families never knew and to this day neither of their parents know. I don't think the church or priest will have a problem with the fact that you are already married. I think if you ask the priest not to mention anything, he won't. To be honest there wouldn't be any reason to mention it anyway. At least IMO...

Good luck and don't worry!

I just wanted to say thank you for all the posts and the FM...I will definately keep everyone posted...thank you again for making breathe a little easier in this situation....