please help =- please
as you guys know my fmil is dying of lung cancer. she had a seizure right after beginning chemo, in which she lost her front teeth.
She is 45 years old and a wonderful woman. She looks in the mirror and sees that she has no hair and teeth, and she remembers that she is dying. She is at a point now where she is giving up completely due to her appearance. It is not that she is being vain- it is just a reminder that she is fighting a battle she cannot win. She cries herself to sleep every night.
Having her teeth replaced is cosmetic and therefore not something an insurance company will cover. As her children, we are trying to save up the money to have her teeth replaced but we're young and struggling ourselves.-- We have the wedding and we're sooo behind and everyone wants us to go ahead with it. but at the same time we feel so guilty not helping her replace them and seeing her so depressed.
she's been through so much.....she lost her entire family by the time she was 17. She burried her mother, father, and two brothers-- her other 2 sisters were given up for adoption and she was sent to live with her aunt. This aunt recently passed away due to lung cancer. She has always been a caring, selfless woman. She has always taken away from herself to give to her children, husband and anyone else that needed her.
A few years ago, her father in law was dying of cancer. She completely nursed him, fed him and was by his side..this was on top of working as a waitress at night and caring for two children.
does anyone know a way that i can help her. This is truly her dying wish. She cannot go on and enjoy the rest of her days because seeing herself without hair and teeth is a constant reminder that she is dying.
I want to help - we cut corners everywhere and give her w/e we can....i just dont know what else 2 do........i wish they would have saved for a rainy day.
i am so depressed and my fh is too- hes also taking it out on me b/c he thinkss im wrong but then wen i suggest taking the money from the wedding he says no.
im so stuck and depressed.....this isnt how i pictured my wedding planning at all :(![]()
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please pray for us.
She is 45 years old and a wonderful woman. She looks in the mirror and sees that she has no hair and teeth, and she remembers that she is dying. She is at a point now where she is giving up completely due to her appearance. It is not that she is being vain- it is just a reminder that she is fighting a battle she cannot win. She cries herself to sleep every night.
Having her teeth replaced is cosmetic and therefore not something an insurance company will cover. As her children, we are trying to save up the money to have her teeth replaced but we're young and struggling ourselves.-- We have the wedding and we're sooo behind and everyone wants us to go ahead with it. but at the same time we feel so guilty not helping her replace them and seeing her so depressed.
she's been through so much.....she lost her entire family by the time she was 17. She burried her mother, father, and two brothers-- her other 2 sisters were given up for adoption and she was sent to live with her aunt. This aunt recently passed away due to lung cancer. She has always been a caring, selfless woman. She has always taken away from herself to give to her children, husband and anyone else that needed her.
A few years ago, her father in law was dying of cancer. She completely nursed him, fed him and was by his side..this was on top of working as a waitress at night and caring for two children.
does anyone know a way that i can help her. This is truly her dying wish. She cannot go on and enjoy the rest of her days because seeing herself without hair and teeth is a constant reminder that she is dying.
I want to help - we cut corners everywhere and give her w/e we can....i just dont know what else 2 do........i wish they would have saved for a rainy day.
i am so depressed and my fh is too- hes also taking it out on me b/c he thinkss im wrong but then wen i suggest taking the money from the wedding he says no.
im so stuck and depressed.....this isnt how i pictured my wedding planning at all :(
please pray for us.
