My friend just called me she is 39 weeks pregnant...she has not felt ther baby move in about 2 days. She went to the Dr. yesterday and the found a heartbeat and they told her to go home and relax. She still has not felt the baby AT ALL. I told her to go to the hospital anyway. What are your thoughts
Melissa
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I would definitely go... if I had the slight feeling something wasn't right I went to the doctor. Though in the last few weeks, depending on how big the baby is, the movement does slow quite a bit. I had a couple of times towards the end that the baby didn't move for about 1-2 days. I was really scared, but they said that before you give birth the baby will rest A LOT to prepare for the big day. If it was me, I would go to the hospital just to ease the mind. I'm a worry wart too... that didn't help. Maybe she is going to have the baby soon, that's why it's so quiet?
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I would go to the hospital right away just in case. Not to scare you, but my friend lost her baby in her 39th week. She also did not feel the baby and went to the doctor. They found the heartbeat. She still wasn't convinced went back to the doctor two days later with the same complaint and they said everything was fine. Then the next day she went to the ER and it was too late. THe baby's cord got wrapped around her neck. I am 26 weeks pregnant and this story scares me to death. I would go to the hospital just for peace of mind. THe baby may just be getting ready to makes his/her appearance and doesn't have much room to move around. Good luck to your friend, I'm sure everything is fine.
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There isn't much room in there to move around as much at 39 weeks!- I had the same thing - I scared myself senseless! But she went to the Dr. and they heard the heartbeat - She needs to try to relax!! Its very cramped quarters in there! They say the baby gains the most in the last month.
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Posted by reed2be
I would go to the hospital right away just in case. Not to scare you, but my friend lost her baby in her 39th week. She also did not feel the baby and went to the doctor. They found the heartbeat. She still wasn't convinced went back to the doctor two days later with the same complaint and they said everything was fine. Then the next day she went to the ER and it was too late. THe baby's cord got wrapped around her neck. I am 26 weeks pregnant and this story scares me to death. I would go to the hospital just for peace of mind. THe baby may just be getting ready to makes his/her appearance and doesn't have much room to move around. Good luck to your friend, I'm sure everything is fine.
This would scare anyone!!!! How horrible for your friend, this makes me so sad when I hear things like this.
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I didnt feel my bean very much this AM. Usually I can feel him/her squirming around every now and then. I took out my Babybeat and found the heartbeat right away. Talk about peace of mind!! If I were your friend I would go to the hospital and demand they check for a HB or even a sono to make sure all is well... although at 39 weeks a baby in a belly moving around is pretty hard but she should feel something!!
Kate
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Any update on your friend?
I had a very lazy baby, even earlier on did not move much so come 39 weeks there was hardly anything at all. The Dr's never like to hear this though and I was always getting non stress tests and sonos. They always saw movements, even if I didn't feel them.