Poll: Abstinence before the wedding

deby Posted: Jan 25, 2004 01:57 AM

Poll: Abstinence before the wedding

Just wondering... is anyone not having sex right before the wedding?

LovelyL Posted: Jan 25, 2004 07:31 AM

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I had brought it up once, but I'm not really sure if we could do it. Plus, sex helps lower stress levels-------and how stressful is planning a wedding?

djkatscan Posted: Jan 25, 2004 08:40 AM

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Hmmmmm I dunno how much Fh would like that idea....even though I maight go for it for a couple weeks at most I don't think I'd like it after that long either!

RedHead Posted: Jan 25, 2004 09:48 AM

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Maybe the week before but no more.

julz33 Posted: Jan 25, 2004 09:49 AM

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Posted by LovelyL

I had brought it up once, but I'm not really sure if we could do it. Plus, sex helps lower stress levels-------and how stressful is planning a wedding?

I agree!

holly231 Posted: Jan 25, 2004 09:50 AM

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hmmm..not sure...maybe hold off the DAY BEFORE!

Actually, might take a break that week since we will be running like CRAZY....

cocoa Posted: Jan 25, 2004 10:02 AM

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I've thought about approaching FH on this one but i KNOW it is not something he will really appreciate, so i don't think i'm going to ask him.

NYCHICK Posted: Jan 25, 2004 10:56 AM

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We are abstaining. I am moving back in with my parents for a month before the wedding. I think it is cute But it could be more than a month, i will see how strong i can be

MCDO15 Posted: Jan 25, 2004 10:57 AM

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intresting question..raelly never thought about it

steph4777 Posted: Jan 25, 2004 11:03 AM

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We talked about it a few months ago, but said we would wait to decide.

We live together so it will be hard not to. But we'll see. Maybe 2 or 3 weeks - tops

070502 Posted: Jan 25, 2004 11:13 AM

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We did!

AJsMommy122 Posted: Jan 25, 2004 11:16 AM

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Im not!! whats the point?? Were not virgins.. weve been doing it for so long.. what makes it special isnt that its been X days since you did it... besides with all the stress of wedding planning.. lol I just might need it to relax

janet Posted: Jan 25, 2004 11:27 AM

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we decided to hold off for 2 weeks before! i know for me after that it will be like old times!

chris605 Posted: Jan 25, 2004 12:09 PM

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I dont think I could wait -

nan&dave Posted: Jan 25, 2004 12:17 PM

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We've actually lowered the amount of times, because we're just plain old scared about something happening. We definitely plan on stopping around a month before.

Nora101004 Posted: Jan 25, 2004 12:19 PM

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Sounds like someone is rationalizing it.

NYCHICK Posted: Jan 25, 2004 12:21 PM

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Posted by nan&dave

We've actually lowered the amount of times, because we're just plain old scared about something happening

something happening like what?

shelly3950 Posted: Jan 25, 2004 12:28 PM

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You left out a few catagories. I was thinking about holding out the week before the wedding- but a whole month. Don't think I could do that.

nan&dave Posted: Jan 25, 2004 12:31 PM

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Like getting pregnant.
We do use protection but I'm not on the pill. FH is totally against them. And I don't believe in them either. I know of 3 ladies who have gotten pregnant while on the pill, the shot, and the patch. And they were taking the medication as told.