I think about it sometimes but only because my parents marriage broke up b/c my father cheated on my mom. But I don't think my FH would ever do that. He knows it's a dealbreaker in our relationship.
Annieb
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I worry about it. Although my DH is not like that at ALL, and I worry about it a lot less with him than I would if he was anyone else, I still don't think that it could NEVER happen. I think anyone who thinks that is somewhat naive.
Most of my friends are guys and have always been so I've heard the stories and seen how things are on the other side. I know many guys that are really great people and their SO's think would never do this or act a certain way and I can honestly say that most men are different when they are away from their SO's.
It may sound pessimistic and others may disagree with me but, I don't think its as far-fetched as some of you may think and I am pretty surprised how adamant some of you are. I can give you so many examples...
Anyway, not to say I am paranoid - I totally totally trust my DH but, my head is not in the sand, so to speak, I keep my eyes open
Imagin916
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Posted by Annieb
I worry about it. Although my DH is not like that at ALL, and I worry about it a lot less with him than I would if he was anyone else, I still don't think that it could NEVER happen. I think anyone who thinks that is somewhat naive.
Most of my friends are guys and have always been so I've heard the stories and seen how things are on the other side. I know many guys that are really great people and their SO's think would never do this or act a certain way and I can honestly say that most men are different when they are away from their SO's.
It may sound pessimistic and others may disagree with me but, I don't think its as far-fetched as some of you may think and I am pretty surprised how adamant some of you are. I can give you so many examples...
Anyway, not to say I am paranoid - I totally totally trust my DH but, my head is not in the sand, so to speak, I keep my eyes open
I totally agree with this. Most of my friends are guys, and those that are in relationships are married behave much differently than when they are around thier women, in fact I am sure that if thier women saw what I see, they would not be too pleased. Most of it is more serious flirting, but some of them do cheat, and thier women would never suspect a thing. Fortunatly, I also know men that dont cheat on thier wives, and dont flirt with women when they are out, and thank god for them, it gives me some hope for when I meet someone!
Jax430
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I don't worry about it at all.
serendipity0680
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I do sometimes let my imagination get a way from me. I know he would not ever cheat on me.
Blu-ize
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His head would be spinning by how fast he would be alone and penniless and possibly maimed. It would take me about 20 minutes to do all of this.....and the woman he did it with...she would never be safe.
